A gay mans exploration of chastity

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I would like to keep some sort of record of what happens during my exploration of chastity, so I am starting this thread. For myself, but feel free to comment if you like.

My introduction tells you a bit about who I am.

Today I will write about my first experiences with wearing a cage, and using it for sex.

The Holytrainer is the first chastity cage I have used "for real". It is really tight - my dick is 40 mm in diameter and 75 mm long when flaccid, so squeezing into a tube of 33 mm width / 65 mm length takes some effort. And my five frenum (penis shaft) piercings have to be aligned right, or it will quickly become very uncomfortable.

But it is possible, especially after modifying the shape of the ring and drilling off part of the tube to give my piercings a bit more space. And it sits really well, I can almost forget it is there at least when lying down and wearing a tight fitting thong.

I've slept through several nights while wearing it. The nightly erections wake me up, but I fall asleep again. Amazing how your body can accommodate.

And I've had sex while wearing it. What an amazing experience! I really enjoy being on the receiving end of anal sex and my lover was happy to oblige, but the cage stopped me from getting any kind of erection! Really weird. It forced me to focus on the sensations he was giving me instead of focusing on my own dick (which is what usually happens), so it was a very intense session. For both of us, I think.

I've heard (read) a lot of people say that their sex life is more intense and rewarding after being locked up than before. I had difficulties understanding how that could be, until I tried it. Now I am a believer.
 
I would like to keep some sort of record of what happens during my exploration of chastity, so I am starting this thread. For myself, but feel free to comment if you like.

My introduction tells you a bit about who I am.

Today I will write about my first experiences with wearing a cage, and using it for sex.

The Holytrainer is the first chastity cage I have used "for real". It is really tight - my dick is 40 mm in diameter and 75 mm long when flaccid, so squeezing into a tube of 33 mm width / 65 mm length takes some effort. And my five frenum (penis shaft) piercings have to be aligned right, or it will quickly become very uncomfortable.

But it is possible, especially after modifying the shape of the ring and drilling off part of the tube to give my piercings a bit more space. And it sits really well, I can almost forget it is there at least when lying down and wearing a tight fitting thong.

I've slept through several nights while wearing it. The nightly erections wake me up, but I fall asleep again. Amazing how your body can accommodate.

And I've had sex while wearing it. What an amazing experience! I really enjoy being on the receiving end of anal sex and my lover was happy to oblige, but the cage stopped me from getting any kind of erection! Really weird. It forced me to focus on the sensations he was giving me instead of focusing on my own dick (which is what usually happens), so it was a very intense session. For both of us, I think.

I've heard (read) a lot of people say that their sex life is more intense and rewarding after being locked up than before. I had difficulties understanding how that could be, until I tried it. Now I am a believer.
Fascinating. I am straight, but I have had many of the same experiences, and become much more appreciative of anal sex since locking up. My wife wears a strap on or uses a hand held dildo on me, and I can focus on the feelings I get from that alone, with no involvement of my cock. That's even started me wondering what the real difference is between gay and straight sex. Interesting journey.
 
I just ordered a Steelworxx Looker 02 cage. Expected ship date in ... May 😥
Congrats. Good luck. Be careful with cages that are too small. They should be sized to your actual penis size, otherwise swelling may occur long term. Smaller is not better.

Getting fucked while locked is A M A Z I N G
Sucking dick while locked is also A M A Z I N G

Having your dom fuck you while the only key to your orgasm is swinging on his neck is, it's just great. savor it, enjoy it.
 
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Congrats. Good luck. Be careful with cages that are too small. They should be sized to your actual penis size, otherwise swelling may occur long term. Smaller is not better.
I've tried three different cages of different sizes and done several measurements. And I have used metal cockrings for many years. So I think I've got it right, but I obviously won't know for sure until summer comes :pray: