How does it feel for you now that this is your new normal? In what ways do you think your connection and sex life have improved? And are there any negatives for you?
And what is it that your wife enjoys most with this new normal?
How would you both feel now if you went back to the old way? Has the old way got any attraction? Or is the new way clearly better.
The exploring phase is a great adventure. But usually the power of doing any technique is what happens when it becomes your norm. Not only are you living in this new world, but I find it powerful how my partner just treats is all as so normal.
Her wearing the key in public is a big step because in reality I don't think most women do this. Having someone ask about it is also pretty unlikely. But a big thrill for you both is that one day someone might. The depth of her doing this though is her confidence in showing YOU that you are hers. I suspect that it also has her feeling special when she does it. When she has real control most of what happens is done because she wants to.
Have either of you told anyone you know about what you are doing?
When I've lived with a partner doing Devotional Sex it's exactly the same. She relaxes into it being about what she wants, and so you can get some days of huge amounts of activity and you will get days of none or not much. What is special is that now the sex only happens when she wishes and that she is relaxed about not doing things when she doesn't want to.
A bit repetitive I know, but she can have the cage off for a session without intercourse. For intimacy you can have a cuddle where she just holds your erection, then the cage goes back on. Or she can have you play with yourself for a short time.
Of course the internet fantasy is that she sits up and edges you for ages, then locks you back up. In reality this is the MALE fantasy and is just about pleasing him, so it doesn't happen. But there are some women who love it. Each women decides.
But of course if she doesn't want the cage to come off for any of this, then it doesn't. Her choice.
I'll throw in a suggestion though (SHE may like it). After you have cum the first time once the cage is off, she may find it fun to enjoy intercourse with you not knowing whether you will cum or not. Your not knowing, and her ability to have you pull out without ejaculation, is very powerful fun for some women.
I have shaved smooth for decades as it's the private way of showing that I practice Devotional Sex. I've found most women really like the look. So I hope your wife enjoys it.
As you have done four weeks now fairly often I don't think Locktober is much different from your new usual.
I hope you both enjoy the days when you are not caged.
Great that you are both going so well!
. The penny dropped, so I’ll be quietly accepting and honouring my wife’s control from now on. 
. I hope most of what I've written, or at least some, has been useful for you both. Congratulations on making such amazing progress in such a short time. I look forward to finding out where this goes. Happy Exploring!
