Anal orgasm possible when caged?

[lyberg]

In my experience it is easier to achieve, the longer you have gone without an orgasm or ejaculation. Also, just get familiar with your body, it takes time and patience. Just try out different things and aim to what feels good. Usually you might feel somewhat need of peeing when you hit the right spot = your prostate. USE LUBE. There is never too much lube. It is rather rare to get it working right away, so did I say be patient. Usually ”clenching” pelvic floor muscles while having massager inside, makes you feel good and help to go closer to orgasm.

For me Aneros has worked well. You might want to start from smaller massagers or basic ones. Nexus Titus too, but it has more aggressive curve so I think it was wrong choice for me in the beginning so I wish I’d bought that after Aneros. It doesn’t need to be big to work. Also, if you have someone to help you, finger works fine too.

Now that I have been over 80 days without cumming in any form (or actually I have had some thick sperm coming out twice, after taking a dump. Didn’t feel a thing, just saw it coming out After 34 days and after 72 days), I could make me cum easily with fucking a suction cup dildo, but I have quit before reaching an orgasm (since I am not yet allowed to do that). I recently bought soft, but firm Utopia dildo by Love to love and I am loving it! https://love-to-love.com/collections/dildos/products/dildo-dildolls-utopia
I point it down towards prostate in doggy style and the curve/shape works really well for me. Also that the surface is soft silicon instead of hard silicone or rubber feels much better to me than my esrlier dildos. It is not too thick either.

Also while meditating in sitting position and doing these pumping exercises (https://devotionalsex.com/n/circulating_pumping.html) I have felt stiffening in my cage and also that it might be possible to reach an orgasm of some kind. But again, I have quit early enough, because I am afraid that I will go over the edge. This is just to say that for me, being absent from any cumming, has made me much more sensitive for reaching cumming in any other way possible than a penile stimulation.

 

[BarbCD]

Old thread, but I will add this evening’s event since I commented above that I was trying for some time to have a prostate orgasm (sissygasm)?

I have tried a few times since the prior post (2022) but kind of gave up on it. But this evening I finally had success! And now I know what everyone has been talking about.

The details of my preparation, what I wore etc are fun for me but boring to read. But after about an hour of an anal vibrator and some pornhub I decided to try again. It actually didn’t take me long to,find the spot, and within a few minutes I started leaking good amounts of cum, and then I felt this low intensity pleasure, not nearly a full orgasm, and the fairly steady flow of cum for a bit . Then it passed and I could tell I was in a semi drop phase. But that is the cool thing….not a full drop, and I was still generally aroused, and even tasted my own cum. So,I think that is the true benefit of the event, no post orgasm drop.

What a cool thing to experience, and I’m hoping it becomes an occasional but routine event while I’m caged.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

I believe I've had one but hard to quantify. She was using vibrating beads on me, never been pegged it's a step too far for her. It hit just right had all the shaking and feeling of an orgasm without the load. Just a dribble of cum. Still sticks out as one of my best whatever you call it.

 

[Chloe420]

I'm pretty good at having them, when conditions are right. Can even do completely mental, but that is much more rare because of the specifics conditions I need.

For caged, anal stimulated orgasms, I find the best position is on my side, with my package tucked back between my legs. It's become difficult for me to fully relax to make anal work at all, but I've found that to be the best position to fully relax. The tucking makes orgasm much easier for me... maybe the stretching factor.

It helps to have some arousal factors ready to explore, in increasing intensity. When you're ready, kick things up to 11, and really overwhelm yourself with mentally arousing stimulation or thoughts. Whatever it is that floats your boat. Give yourself permission to explore its depths in your mind (with whatever additional stimulus you want). You're looking for something that would give you a screaming erection without touching, if you weren't caged.

Having an extended period of abstinence/chastity can make all this more intense, making success higher. For me, anything over 3 days is pretty effective.

 

[Tom43]

You may find this article helpful.

Guide to achieve a sissygasm

by PJ235 10 months ago

In my experience this will work for most sissies

Well chastity is an important part of the process to get a sissy to achieve a sissygasm. The first one is always the hardest to get after that it becomes much easier. I usually don't let my Sissies cum for a month before trying seriously to give them the sissygasm. I also let them watch porn and fuck their pussy with a dildo but nothing with a vib in it.

For the actual attempt I instruct them to shower and be clean inside and out also I give them 1 shot or strong drink before we start to get them relaxed. I also have them drink water and not pee for several hours before we play.

I usually don't try to fuck them for their first sissygasm I find it easier to use a toy to ensure the job gets done. I usually use a 6-8inch vibrating dildo with a very pronounced head. I work it in slow but doesn't have to be deep the prostate is about 4 inches deep so I work the dildo 3-5inch in with an occasional full deep thrust.

As you work the pressure will start to build in her. She will think she's about to piss herself but she won't that's the beginning stages of a sissygasm just keep going. The reason I have them drink and not pee is because I think that a full blatter helps get her there faster by pushing out the prostate and apply pressure to it. You can also push down on her blatter to hit the prostate better.

The next phase is the quivers she will start to shake uncontrollably you are almost there at this point so you need to keep going. To help push her over the edge have her push down on her blatter and you put pressure on her taint this will make most sissies pop instantly in the quiver stage. If you need a little extra you can also blow on their clit like you are trying to cool a bowl of soup.

Thanks for good information

 

[Kylara]

Well you have every one telling you it is possible, I will add my voice as now I found anal orgasm so much better that I get hard when pegged and pussy makes me fex effect.

of cours eit is also in your mind. feel attracted by trying anal? Some men does it well other not, it is as complicated as penetrated a pussy and now I understand wel girl when they complain about their male that does not give her pleasure by penetration because they are not good.

 

[TangoSub]

I have had more then a few when pegged but it not always for sure. I find my anal orgasms take longer but I think I shudder/shake harder at climax.

One memorable one Mistress/wife put the machine with a decent size dildo while I was strapped down. Mistress/Wife started slow and worked it up to fastest speed/pounding before I nearly passed out. I think I was there 20 minutes. Needless to say I was sore...in a good way I guess

 

[loctnloaded]

Having an orgasm while being pegged is amazing! I have the ability to pretty much cum every time I am anally stimulated. What is good about an anal orgasm/prostate orgasm for me is that I can continue to have sex without a drop off. Each time I orgasm while being pegged, it gets more intense but then a period of ecstasy, and then another, and a period of ecstasy, etc. When I am the top, I am one and done.

My suggestion is to play around with it. Use some toys, poke around, vibrate, etc. when you feel something good, keep doing it. It will happen.

 

[Caged Billie]

You definitely can have anal orgasms. Relax and let your mind free and it'll come. Pardon the pun. For me, they seem to sneak up on me when I'm mentally in the groove and are often without ejaculate. Massive leg shaking, and body tremors witha more intense mental orgasm than with ejaculating. During anal, I tend to drip alot of precum and semen without even noticing, this makes ejaculateless orgasm even more special.
Experiment and have fun!

 

[kinyo510]

I've never had an anal orgasm that resulted in ejaculation before. I've had my prostate milked and watched it dribble out of me with no sensation of orgasm and I've had prostate orgasms before where there is no ejaculation from me. Prostate orgasms take some time to get right, but once you figure it out they're amazing!

 

[spin418]

You definitely can have anal orgasms. Relax and let your mind free and it'll come. Pardon the pun. For me, they seem to sneak up on me when I'm mentally in the groove and are often without ejaculate. Massive leg shaking, and body tremors witha more intense mental orgasm than with ejaculating. During anal, I tend to drip alot of precum and semen without even noticing, this makes ejaculateless orgasm even more special.
Experiment and have fun!

Yes to all this but shooting can absolutely be part of a full body anal orgasm. Your point about freeing the mind and relaxing are SO spot on! Doing it from a cage is very hard to beat.
https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?gallery/photos/pure-release.55853/

 

[Metalman]

My favorite orgasm is the one I get from being fucked in the ass …

It took me a long time to get there, but once it happened it became easy.
For me it’s a bit the same as getting most woman to orgasm (or so I think…. My wife locked me up so I’m probably wrong )

The 3 components are relaxation, breathing and patience.

Then I like it like that:
Instead of going straight to the point, I like to start with slow fucking not to close to the prostate… I pick up the pace slowly , and go until it starts feeling really good… it’s very tempting to go to hard and over stimulate. Don’t…

Instead, I slow down and breathe deeply, with slow fucking. I like it to go incrementally closer to the prostate then (but not right on it. I think over stimulating is not always helpful)

When I feel relaxed, I pick up the pace faster than earlier, with a steady pounding, close enough to the prostate but not right on it. there is a moment where it gets so intense you might want to stop. Don’t.

Don’t accelerate either just keep steady and breathe. Generally I come right there.
If I don’t and I plateau, then I switch back to a deep slow fucking with the whole length of the cock right on my prostate.
Then I come almost every time

 

[Pure Eddie]

Had an anal orgasm once when wife pegged me. She did it only once and trying to do it myself is not the same. Now I want to try fully caged

 

[SexServant008]

Have had the pleasure of this several, not every time, my Wife/KH pegs me.
She'll usually comment "wow, you must have enjoyed that"
then scoop up as much as she can manage and say
"now enjoy this" as she has me lick it from her hand.

 

[M@rcellus]

I have never achieved anal orgasm. I have two remote control vibrating butt plugs on the way, one conventional shaped, one penis shaped... ish, that thrusts too. Do I hint or suggest that I stay locked until we reach this milestone? I'm 46 pretty much OK sexual function otherwise. We do pegging and try with fisting but minimal semen leakage so far. Could I be talking myself into a permanent lock up I'd prefer not to have? BTW my mistress loves a project and probably wouldn't mind me asking to NOT have an orgasm as she really likes me locked up for ages and is very excited about playing with the 2 new butt plugs.

 

[Linjx014]

Just had one this morning on accident. I had my inflatable prostate massager it's all wireless. I was wearing my body stocking and pair of white thongs and when i moved and sat in a certain position i felt it starting, i tried to stop it by turning off the vibration and deflating it but it was too late i was too close to the edge. And then went spurt spurt spurt in my thong. I had only been caged a week. Think I'm getting the hang of it on accident lol

 

[spin418]

Just had one this morning on accident. I had my inflatable prostate massager it's all wireless. I was wearing my body stocking and pair of white thongs and when i moved and sat in a certain position i felt it starting, i tried to stop it by turning off the vibration and deflating it but it was too late i was too close to the edge. And then went spurt spurt spurt in my thong. I had only been caged a week. Think I'm getting the hang of it on accident lol

When and where did by accident become on accident? I remember my mom, who was a teacher, being puzzled and remarking on it some time in the 80s. Seems to me as though it might have had rural origins…plain folk squaring it with “on purpose” in a parallel kind of construction. On accident still sounds so weird though.

 

[SissyAnnabelle]

I have discovered anal orgasm 16 years ago, and now it's the only way I have an orgasm for the last 6 month , and not willing to change that, ). it takes more time, you have to listen yourself , be relax, lots of lube, stop when it hurts, feel the rhythm that's suite you, but it's deeper and I always feel totally abandoned whenI come. I have discovered that's being caged helps a lot in my case.

 

[branch]

Big YES to time and relaxation. If you’re exploring this way just keep that in mind. Get caged, get something between your cheeks, and GET COMFORTABLE!!! It’s not about frenetic movement. Often it’s about almost no movement. My philosophy is that exertion or working of abdominal muscles or glutes and thighs is usually counterproductive. You do it right you won’t need a thing, including your hands!

How then do you do it? I man you have to be doing *something* right? Not doubting you! Just trying to learn too!

 

[branch]

And how can i learn to get an orgasm without ejaculating???

I’m really really really wondering too!!!

 

[spin418]

How then do you do it? I man you have to be doing *something* right? Not doubting you! Just trying to learn too!

Cage. Get something between your cheeks and get comfortable. Relax and forget all about your dick. Focus on sensation.

I messaged you directly

 

[chaste4wife]

They're are two components: mental and physical. A lot of the people who can't achieve it are focusing on the physical. "I've got a triple somersault jackhammer dildo and it still won't get me off." Wrong approach.

Physical:
Be backed up. A few days at least. Longer is better.

Know where the prostate is. It's towards the front of your body. So being pegged it's more likely to get stimulated in missionary than in doggy. If you're riding something, lean back.

Mental:
Stop trying to cum. Get yourself in to a slutty, almost hypnotic, monotonous state where your only focus is taking it... and taking it... and taking it...

When feelings start to build. Ignore them. They don't matter. Take it. Take it. Take it.

If your dick leaks (and it will) you didn't cum. You were milked. Keep taking it, leave your dick alone. Let the mess be there. It's not important. Focus on your ass being used and what a slut you're being.

Eventually the wave will hit you. And will continue for as long as you do.

 

[Passerby5897]

I've never had an anal orgasm.
How do i get it?
Now i'm caged i like to read and learn more about anal orgasms.

Thanks a lot!

Bro. I can tell you from personal experience you don't need go be caged to have an anal orgasm.

All you have to do is tap your prostate with a dildo; assuming your prostate is sensitive enough that is, not all men have a sensitive enough prostate

 

[spin418]

Bro. I can tell you from personal experience you don't need go be caged to have an anal orgasm.

All you have to do is tap your prostate with a dildo; assuming your prostate is sensitive enough that is, not all men have a sensitive enough prostate

I’m not sure anyone anywhere ever stated anything about needing to be caged to achieve that. I am pretty sure some have suggested they can have more powerful and satisfying anal/full body orgasms WHEN they are caged. And perhaps that caging may help one focus their energy toward that outcome.

 

[Now Alexandra]

They're are two components: mental and physical. A lot of the people who can't achieve it are focusing on the physical. "I've got a triple somersault jackhammer dildo and it still won't get me off." Wrong approach.

Physical:
Be backed up. A few days at least. Longer is better.

Know where the prostate is. It's towards the front of your body. So being pegged it's more likely to get stimulated in missionary than in doggy. If you're riding something, lean back.

Mental:
Stop trying to cum. Get yourself in to a slutty, almost hypnotic, monotonous state where your only focus is taking it... and taking it... and taking it...

When feelings start to build. Ignore them. They don't matter. Take it. Take it. Take it.

If your dick leaks (and it will) you didn't cum. You were milked. Keep taking it, leave your dick alone. Let the mess be there. It's not important. Focus on your ass being used and what a slut you're being.

Eventually the wave will hit you. And will continue for as long as you do.

This. I’d add it’s an incredible feeling and far more powerful than I ever imagined. So much so, that “the chase” to have them becomes addicting.