It can be difficult for a husband to change the frequency of sex when his wife goes through the change, and for me, it affects how fast I can become erect. I could never take a woman that isn't into it, my pole just won't help me out, I really need to feel my wife wanting it and that is just gone, at least for now at her stage. Sure, sometimes she wants it, but not like before, and it affects me. I remember, at a younger age, seeing these older men talk about erectile dysfunction. Now I think I completely understand it, the disfunction for many men is they see their wives not physically needing it like they used to and this physiologically effects the mans ability to perform like he can when he can feel his wife lust to have him. I know she can't help it but I feel like I can't help it either, this is probably the biggest cause of me wanting to be caged, it just makes a clear statement and I can at least give her pleasure by holding her and prevent that something stiff on me from bothering her. Even all the ways I used to touch her that would get her turned on doesn't work anymore and that really sucks the satisfaction out of the husband.
Last night was one of those nights; she was trying to get me hard, and I was getting very close to being able to penetrate her. However, it just seemed like it was all for me and not for her and I struggled with that, I need her to enjoy it too and it makes it really hard for me to get excited enough to become hard. I know there is nothing physically wrong with me for other obvious reasons so I'm not worried about myself or feel like I need to run off and see a doctor, its the emotional connection with Ann that seems weak because she is doing it mostly for me. At the end of her efforts, she told me to put my cage on. This was a first for her, and the way she said it, it was a matter of fact. She got tired of trying, and I am sure this messes with her, too, because she probably doesn't understand why I am having a hard time performing to the fullest degree. Even if she did, it would just put pressure on her because I know she loves me.
At this point, I could hardly get the cage on because my erection came alive. I didn't know if she was trying to make me hard by teasing me or if she meant it. She told me that makes you get hard doesn't it, when I tell you to put your cage on. Yes a little I responded to her. She had plenty of time to change her mind, but she seemed serious and never changed her mind or even looked like she was considering changing her mind, and as bad as I wanted to be inside of my Ann, I obeyed and put my cage on, snuggled up to her, and caressed her to sleep. This being a first was good for both of us. She got to see the power she really has, and I had to submit to her unless I wanted to quit male chastity. There lies the catch-22; at our stage of life, I need it to help me through the times of wanting to be inside of her. It's up to the wives to figure out what's best for us, whether they realize it fully or not.........They Are in Charge.
Last night was one of those nights; she was trying to get me hard, and I was getting very close to being able to penetrate her. However, it just seemed like it was all for me and not for her and I struggled with that, I need her to enjoy it too and it makes it really hard for me to get excited enough to become hard. I know there is nothing physically wrong with me for other obvious reasons so I'm not worried about myself or feel like I need to run off and see a doctor, its the emotional connection with Ann that seems weak because she is doing it mostly for me. At the end of her efforts, she told me to put my cage on. This was a first for her, and the way she said it, it was a matter of fact. She got tired of trying, and I am sure this messes with her, too, because she probably doesn't understand why I am having a hard time performing to the fullest degree. Even if she did, it would just put pressure on her because I know she loves me.
At this point, I could hardly get the cage on because my erection came alive. I didn't know if she was trying to make me hard by teasing me or if she meant it. She told me that makes you get hard doesn't it, when I tell you to put your cage on. Yes a little I responded to her. She had plenty of time to change her mind, but she seemed serious and never changed her mind or even looked like she was considering changing her mind, and as bad as I wanted to be inside of my Ann, I obeyed and put my cage on, snuggled up to her, and caressed her to sleep. This being a first was good for both of us. She got to see the power she really has, and I had to submit to her unless I wanted to quit male chastity. There lies the catch-22; at our stage of life, I need it to help me through the times of wanting to be inside of her. It's up to the wives to figure out what's best for us, whether they realize it fully or not.........They Are in Charge.
Last edited:
