Balancing My Keyholder and Girlfriend

[shapestarscar]

I met my keyholder before my girlfriend. I had a few training sessions with my keyholder, who fully understands my preferences and enjoys this kind of play. She made it clear early on that she only wanted a D/s relationship with me, not a romantic one, and she had no issue with me dating others. I felt the same way. We have great chemistry, each getting what we need.

Over a year later, my parents introduced me to a woman they hoped I’d marry. This woman, now my girlfriend, gets along well with me. She’s highly educated, has a great job, and we love each other deeply. We have sex, but there’s a regrettable issue: we’re both subs. My girlfriend is very submissive, but so am I at heart. During sex, I often pretend to be an alpha male to satisfy her, but it leaves me unfulfilled. I crave the feeling of being dominate.

My keyholder knows everything about my relationship with my girlfriend. Early in my relationship, she asked if I needed my cage unlocked, considering I might have sex with my girlfriend at any time. I asked her to unlock it. My keyholder is very nosy and loves hearing about my relationship progress—when we held hands, kissed, had sex, what positions we used, and how it felt. I don’t hide anything from her. She also knows I pretend to be alpha in bed while feeling unfulfilled. She teases me about it, calling me pathetic, which only makes me more fascinated by her. After all, I’m a sub—it’s who I am.

As my desires built up, I eventually asked my keyholder to lock me up again. This thrilled her; she felt she’d “won” over my amazing girlfriend. At the same time, she expressed her desire to get involved in my love life.

How would she interfere? I was curious. After locking me up again, she shared a few ideas:

- Resume a long-term locked lifestyle. To avoid my girlfriend suddenly noticing, we got a remote key box. In emergencies, my keyholder can unlock it remotely, allowing me to access the key and unlock myself.

- Fully controlled sex life. The timing, location, positions, whether my girlfriend orgasms, and whether I’m allowed to climax—all must follow my keyholder’s orders. I’d need to record our sex to ensure it meets her requirements.

Hearing these arrangements, I got hard almost instantly. I could imagine how thrilling this lifestyle would be. My keyholder was delighted, proud of her creative ideas.

I’ll write more about what happened next later.

 

[SAHDSubby]

How does your girlfriend feel about all of this?

 

[JaySaysYes]

You are cheating on your girlfriend, and actively pretending to be something you are not.

Living two lives is awful.

You should tell her everything.

The perfect man for her, and the perfect woman for you, might be found, but this ongoing lie prevents both.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

So basically put you're cheating on your girlfriend.

 

[shapestarscar]

Yeah, brothers, you're right, the behaviors mentioned above are indeed cheating, and I have no intention of hiding or sugarcoating anything. But these are all things that happened in the past. As a storyteller, I'm just pulling them out one by one from my memories, so they are what they are.

 

[shapestarscar]

After my keyholder got involved in my relationship, my life became much more thrilling. I vividly remember the first task my keyholder gave me: to wear a chastity cage and a butt plug while going on a date with my girlfriend. As I hugged and kissed my girlfriend, my body was constantly stimulated, and the sensation was heart-pounding. My hands unconsciously touched her more often, and this made her very happy.

Later, under my keyholder’s guidance, I confessed my interest in BDSM to my girlfriend. I had been too shy to bring it up before, but now I finally spoke out. However, what stressed me out was that my keyholder instructed me to say I was a dom, which wasn’t my true nature. I didn’t comply; in fact, I told my girlfriend I’m a switch.

My girlfriend was very open about it. She accepted my confession and, for the first time, explicitly agreed to incorporate BDSM elements into our future sex life. Hearing this, my keyholder was clearly thrilled—even more excited than I was. At her request, my girlfriend and I picked out and bought some adult toys together, like blindfolds, ropes for bondage, handcuffs, erotic clothing, and a female chastity belt for my girlfriend. It’s not hard to guess that all these items were meant for use on a woman—my girlfriend.

Once everything arrived, at my keyholder’s request, I put a blindfold on my girlfriend, started recording on my phone, and set it aside. Standing in the bedroom, I commanded her in the gentlest tone, “Please slowly take off your clothes.” She did. Then I said, “Please kneel on the yoga mat.” My naked girlfriend complied. I walked behind her, teased her lightly with my hands, and she climaxed quickly. I was surprised—she had never orgasmed so fast before.

In fact, since learning about my relationship, my keyholder and I haven’t met in person again; all our communication has been online. After being locked again, the frequency of sex with my girlfriend dropped significantly. My girlfriend would masturbate, but my keyholder ordered me to put a chastity belt on her and tell her, “A woman’s orgasm should be more precious.” I thought my girlfriend would refuse, but she accepted it.

My keyholder also ordered me to sleep with my girlfriend while locked, which I knew would easily give me away, so I was reluctant. But she instructed me to tie my girlfriend up before bed so she wouldn’t notice. I did as told, and it worked as she said. We slept like that for a few nights.

The frequency of sex with my girlfriend dropped drastically, and each time it happened, it was at my keyholder’s initiative. She told me, “Have sex with your girlfriend tonight; I’ve given you the key. Tie her up in a turtle-shell bondage pattern, bind her hands behind her back, and make sure she wears a blindfold. She must climax, but you cannot ejaculate. Record the whole thing, and when she climaxes, make her beg you, saying ‘please’ and ‘master’ at least three times.” I followed through, and the hardest part of all the instructions was “I cannot climax.” I was sweating profusely, but my girlfriend was very obedient, fully cooperative, and climaxed quickly, which saved me. After listening to the recording, my keyholder was full of praise, extremely satisfied, and called my girlfriend the best AV actress in the world.

In the end, after I started wearing the lock, my relationship with my girlfriend became much closer. Although the frequency of sex dropped significantly, my girlfriend became more eager and loved me even more.

 

[Rand]

Seems too hot to be true, but nice.