Hello everyone,
I am new to the forum, joining to ask for a bit of advice please.
My girlfriend and I have just started experimenting with chastity, with a view to incorporating it into other forms of play and on a pretty regular basis. She would like me to be wearing a cage all of the time while at home.
She did my measurements and bought me a Holy Trainer V4 clear cage. The size is small (45mm length past ring, 70mm total tube length) and I am using the 36mm (smallest) ring. After a bit of practice I can get the cage on reasonably easily if I focus on staying flaccid and use a bit of lube. I have worn it all day now for the past few days without any issues or discomfort, going about my daily life etc. I can get a finger in between ring and skin so I do not think the ring is too tight. We have not tried nighttime wear and are not intending to do so.
While the cage sits close to my body normally and is comfortable (although lots to get used to the feel of it!) our problem comes when she wants to tease me or I get aroused at all. While small when flaccid (thus small size and tube size) when erect I am probably 7 inches. Once I start to get aroused the erection forms at the base of the penis and pushes the cage forward in a painful fashion, putting pressure on the balls. There is effectively a bulge/lump pushing the cage 3 inches or so away from the body. After 10-15 minutes like this it is unbearable and we have to stop playing and take the cage off for safety. Is there any way to address this? A different cage? Shorter tube size (arguably flaccid penis could handle a shorter one)? Smaller ring size (we are using the smallest but perhaps another cage with smaller?)? Or any form of underwear holding it in place? Basically looking to understand how she can play/tease me without causing this pain and discomfort from the cage.
Many thanks for any advice!
I am new to the forum, joining to ask for a bit of advice please.
My girlfriend and I have just started experimenting with chastity, with a view to incorporating it into other forms of play and on a pretty regular basis. She would like me to be wearing a cage all of the time while at home.
She did my measurements and bought me a Holy Trainer V4 clear cage. The size is small (45mm length past ring, 70mm total tube length) and I am using the 36mm (smallest) ring. After a bit of practice I can get the cage on reasonably easily if I focus on staying flaccid and use a bit of lube. I have worn it all day now for the past few days without any issues or discomfort, going about my daily life etc. I can get a finger in between ring and skin so I do not think the ring is too tight. We have not tried nighttime wear and are not intending to do so.
While the cage sits close to my body normally and is comfortable (although lots to get used to the feel of it!) our problem comes when she wants to tease me or I get aroused at all. While small when flaccid (thus small size and tube size) when erect I am probably 7 inches. Once I start to get aroused the erection forms at the base of the penis and pushes the cage forward in a painful fashion, putting pressure on the balls. There is effectively a bulge/lump pushing the cage 3 inches or so away from the body. After 10-15 minutes like this it is unbearable and we have to stop playing and take the cage off for safety. Is there any way to address this? A different cage? Shorter tube size (arguably flaccid penis could handle a shorter one)? Smaller ring size (we are using the smallest but perhaps another cage with smaller?)? Or any form of underwear holding it in place? Basically looking to understand how she can play/tease me without causing this pain and discomfort from the cage.
Many thanks for any advice!
