Cage gets tight while doing chores

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Hello,

my girlfriend isn't the biggest fan of Chastity but I'm sure that will change soon. She's very dominant and thinks it's ok if I lock myself up.
We've been together for 3 years and have been living together for 5 months.
She is currently at work and earns more money than me.
Since we've been living together, I've taken on all the household chores without exception. I really like to be locked up and now I get hard in the cage when I clean our kitchen or the bathroom on my knees (she wants it that way)... even during PIV sex I think about household chores and get hard... really incredible, it feels so good to serve my girlfriend. I hope that eventually this year she will also take the keys from my cage and make me completely dependent on her.

Do you have other non-sexual chores where your cage gets tight?
And do you have any unusual ideas to spoil your goddess even more?
Massages, housework, shopping, cleaning, presents are now standard for us, but I would like to continue to submit to her and make her life even easier.
 
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My owner is a female friend not a partner - I’m in a relationship of chaste submission and she’s completely sexually unattainable - I’m not even permitted to have sexy thoughts about her. Obviously I do have such thoughts but I work hard at pushing them from my mind and certainly don’t dwell on any visual images.
What I’ve found over time is that I now get excited by her approving attention, even though it’s not of a sexual nature. It’s as if I’ve been reconditioned, rather like a dog.
 
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I do much of the household stuff because she hates doing it mostly, always has. Now with the cage on it earns me rewards. Can honestly say I've never gotten hard doing it though. The naked houseboy stuff on weekends is kinda fun but wouldn't call it erotic or anything.
 
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Muppet said:
My owner is a female friend not a partner - I’m in a relationship of chaste submission and she’s completely sexually unattainable - I’m not even permitted to have sexy thoughts about her. Obviously I do have such thoughts but I work hard at pushing them from my mind and certainly don’t dwell on any visual images.
What I’ve found over time is that I now get excited by her approving attention, even though it’s not of a sexual nature. It’s as if I’ve been reconditioned, rather like a dog.
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that sounds great! I‘m a big fan of reconditioning. I think for me it’s the same but she reconditioned my mind to sexualize being helpful and supportive to her. It feels so good to do tasks for her… I can’t imagine how desperate I would get without any sexual imagination about my gf/partner
 
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Mr_anonymous said:
I do much of the household stuff because she hates doing it mostly, always has. Now with the cage on it earns me rewards. Can honestly say I've never gotten hard doing it though. The naked houseboy stuff on weekends is kinda fun but wouldn't call it erotic or anything.
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yes I understand.. I really think that I started sexualizing doing tasks for her. Becoming her naked houseboy would be absolutely erotic for me.. the humiliation must feel great
 
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yes I understand.. I really think that I started sexualizing doing tasks for her. Becoming her naked houseboy would be absolutely erotic for me.. the humiliation must feel great
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Most humiliating thing is sometimes she makes me wear a bow tie she got at a halloween store around my cage. To me it's more funny then humiliating though
 
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that sounds great! I‘m a big fan of reconditioning. I think for me it’s the same but she reconditioned my mind to sexualize being helpful and supportive to her. It feels so good to do tasks for her… I can’t imagine how desperate I would get without any sexual imagination about my gf/partner
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it’s a remarkably deep and extreme form of control. I have to obey because I crave her approval and if I indulged thoughts she wouldn’t like, I’d feel bad about disappointing and deceiving her. She knows this about me and is therefore confident that I’m in a state of perpetual repressed yearning, with no effort on her part.
 
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Hi there,

I too am a very service orientated submissive. I find that even when my Goddess instructs me about chore it makes me swell in my cage. She has just started locking me 24/7 after our journey started last Xmas and I am so much more focused on making her life as perfect and effort free as possible.

I literally do everything for her at home and I mean everything, effectively freeing her up for more quality time with her girlfriends. This makes us both really, really happy.

She has just started encouraging me to wear panties (which is a major relief or me with her acceptance ) whilst cleaning as she knows gets me going.

To answer your question I try and do the little things as much as possible, wherever and whenever I can.

1 Get her toothbrush ready with paste on daily
2 Ensure her electric blanket is on and the bed turned down and ready for her
3 When serving her dinner make sure the chairs is pulled out and ready to receive her
4 Welcome her on the step when she comes home from work
5 Always prepare a hot water bottle for her when she’s relaxing even before she asks
6 Encourage her to use me as her chauffeur
7 Prepare her bath with scented candles and mood music to ensure she relaxes
8 When serving her wine in an evening I always present the bottle like a waiter and wait for her to approve the wine before pouring, then scuttle of to the fridge to keep it cool.
9 Breakfast in bed is the norm for my Goddess with three cups of tea all made on demand so they are piping hot
10 Turn on the shower so it’s ready to receive her whenever required

I actively encourage her to do less and reaffirm that Iove her and adore serving her at every opportunity.

The list goes on but it’s the little things that matter and show my devotion and love.

She always adored been a Princess but these last ten months has become a true Goddess to be permanently worshipped.

I feel after twenty odd years together I can be my true submissive self serving her and loving every minute. She has invited her girlfriend for lunch next week and has instructed me that I will be serving them. It will be as vanilla as possible as I don’t think her friend knows that I have become her submissive servant! :)

Good luck and it sounds like your well on your way.
 
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LNRS said:
Hello,

my girlfriend isn't the biggest fan of Chastity but I'm sure that will change soon. She's very dominant and thinks it's ok if I lock myself up.
We've been together for 3 years and have been living together for 5 months.
She is currently at work and earns more money than me.
Since we've been living together, I've taken on all the household chores without exception. I really like to be locked up and now I get hard in the cage when I clean our kitchen or the bathroom on my knees (she wants it that way)... even during PIV sex I think about household chores and get hard... really incredible, it feels so good to serve my girlfriend. I hope that eventually this year she will also take the keys from my cage and make me completely dependent on her.

Do you have other non-sexual chores where your cage gets tight?
And do you have any unusual ideas to spoil your goddess even more?
Massages, housework, shopping, cleaning, presents are now standard for us, but I would like to continue to submit to her and make her life even easier.
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I am not caged but I do tend to get a stiffy doing chores.
 
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it’s a remarkably deep and extreme form of control. I have to obey because I crave her approval and if I indulged thoughts she wouldn’t like, I’d feel bad about disappointing and deceiving her. She knows this about me and is therefore confident that I’m in a state of perpetual repressed yearning, with no effort on her part.
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Incidentally for my first year in full-time chastity I was allowed to think sexy thoughts sometimes but at my one year review she removed that privilege. I have often said how difficult it is but she just smiles and says she feels no pity for me whatsoever, it’s what I signed up for so that’s how it is.
 
It's worse for me because I have to clean the showers for the whole dorm for the cheerleader squad, wearing nothing other than my spiked cage and for some reason a rubber chicken mask.

Often the girls all come in, sweaty and excited after a good game, and I'm there naked cleaning the showers while they are all kissing and soaping each other up.

But, I focus on my cleaning doodies and I find polishing tiles is easily the most arousing pasrt of the process. A real cage tightening experience.

Sometimes, they are all oiling each other up naked, writhing around and moaning, and all I can think about is polishing the tiles when they have finally left.

It makes being forced to sleep naked while standing in a bowl of freezing water worth it, especially as I can see the moonlight glinting off some of my favourite and the sexiest tiles.
 
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I'm a simple boy, fairly new to the lifestyle, but I get extreme pleasure from doing any task that lightens the load on my gorgeous KH.
Can't honestly say it's erotic for me, more a sense of euphoria.
 
JaySaysYes said:
It's worse for me because I have to clean the showers for the whole dorm for the cheerleader squad, wearing nothing other than my spiked cage and for some reason a rubber chicken mask.

Often the girls all come in, sweaty and excited after a good game, and I'm there naked cleaning the showers while they are all kissing and soaping each other up.

But, I focus on my cleaning doodies and I find polishing tiles is easily the most arousing pasrt of the process. A real cage tightening experience.

Sometimes, they are all oiling each other up naked, writhing around and moaning, and all I can think about is polishing the tiles when they have finally left.

It makes being forced to sleep naked while standing in a bowl of freezing water worth it, especially as I can see the moonlight glinting off some of my favourite and the sexiest tiles.
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“for some reason”???
Quite obviously the hen mask is in case anyone should mistake you for a complete cock.

Also, chicken masks are hot!
 
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Or cuckadoodledon’t. It’s entirely up to you.
Just be careful crossing the road. I believe the traffic in Vietnam is pretty chaotic.
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I believe you don't know what you are talking about, so I guess that cancels you out.
 
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It's worse for me because I have to clean the showers for the whole dorm for the cheerleader squad, wearing nothing other than my spiked cage and for some reason a rubber chicken mask.

Often the girls all come in, sweaty and excited after a good game, and I'm there naked cleaning the showers while they are all kissing and soaping each other up.

But, I focus on my cleaning doodies and I find polishing tiles is easily the most arousing pasrt of the process. A real cage tightening experience.

Sometimes, they are all oiling each other up naked, writhing around and moaning, and all I can think about is polishing the tiles when they have finally left.

It makes being forced to sleep naked while standing in a bowl of freezing water worth it, especially as I can see the moonlight glinting off some of my favourite and the sexiest tiles.
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Oh, that was you?
 
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