Have a question here....In our lifestyle, it is impossible for him to be in chastity all the time, and it is sometimes very difficult to get him back into sub mode when returning home. I have tried many methods, like having him in the submissive position when I arrive home from work, and/or he has a constant list of chores he must complete within a certain time frame, still working on my contract, could use a bit more help there. I am thinking maybe just write up my own thing, which would really fit our situation and our needs best, do not ant it complicated or long, any more help in these areas????