Been at this hobby for a long time, probably over a decade now. And what I’ve finally found as a way to integrate chastity is as a personal way to offer myself self care and love. To accept all the ways i am that are difficult to accept. To provide a tangible signal to myself that i love and care for myself, that i am seen as special and valid.
A gigantic shift in perspective for me was when my therapist, who has a sex positive, psycho-spiritual approach called butt plugs and the like “adult pacifiers .” Omg. What a refreshing take on something that has historically been mostly a kink, or a sexual activity. Now it’s a symbol of self care when I’m navigating troubling waters, or need to feel affirmed, loved. A way to hold myself.
Hope this helps someone out there
A gigantic shift in perspective for me was when my therapist, who has a sex positive, psycho-spiritual approach called butt plugs and the like “adult pacifiers .” Omg. What a refreshing take on something that has historically been mostly a kink, or a sexual activity. Now it’s a symbol of self care when I’m navigating troubling waters, or need to feel affirmed, loved. A way to hold myself.
Hope this helps someone out there
