Dating in Chastity

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handcuffedboy

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My Mistress, after having locked me in a titanium chastity cage, a BA-25 badassworkroom with an internal gland retaining ring from which it is impossible to escape, agreed to let me have dates (Tinder).
Obviously the cage will not be removed, but she has decided that if he finds a woman who will accept the fact that I am caged, I will be able to go out and date her.
What are the chances that having organized the Tinder dating, once the crucial moment arrives, the woman accepts me so caged and lets herself be satisfied with other means (tongue and fingers) without running away?

Do you think she will run away? Will she think I'm crazy? Will she laugh?

How do you think I could explain my condition without making it strange?

How can I explain my condition?
 
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Just be open about wanting a strong lady who wants a devoted servant. Presumably the goal is for Mistress to hand over the key? I wouldn't put it in the profile. But I would bring it up if sex was on the table first date, or before or on a second date.
 
Jay Sub said:
Just be open about wanting a strong lady who wants a devoted servant. I wouldn't put it in the profile. But I would bring it up if sex was on the table first date, or before or on a second date.
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I did exactly that - saying I wanted a strong lady. And that I liked the control of a woman and a disciplined lifestyle. Not all the respondents got it but at least one did and I have been with her for 15 years now. She has been very willing to lock me up and discipline me with her cane.
 
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I'm in a similar boat. I have a spare key that is protected with a numbered lock, so my keyholder could see if broken. That way it could be opened in an emergency.

If not, you could just explain to your date that you're experimenting with an 'orgasm fast'. Most girls would be somewhat OK and supportive of that.
 
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JamesD said:
I'm in a similar boat. I have a spare key that is protected with a numbered lock, so my keyholder could see if broken. That way it could be opened in an emergency.

If not, you could just explain to your date that you're experimenting with an 'orgasm fast'. Most girls would be somewhat OK and supportive of that.
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I would consider finding girl ready fir sex with somebody locked in badass(?) chastity cage an emergency.
Have symphathy on girl, imagine how she could have felt after finding herself in this situation. Be responsible for her. You should be.
 
From what I got to know tinder does not ban kink even if it is more mainstream - just mention it in your bio.

And no - I have no personal experience in datin while in chastity, but I consider me a professional for flirting while in chastity. ;)
 
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After my last relationship I vowed to have a kinky partner, I joined tinder always within the first days of conversation I'd steer it to kink in a fun way. Probably something along the lines of I'm tangled up in something and it looks like a bad bondadge film.

This one particular time my now wife said I'd like to see you tied up.....the rest is history locked up a few days before our 2nd date she lived it got back to my place unlocked we fucked and boom rest is history.
 
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Lady elizabeths sub said:
After my last relationship I vowed to have a kinky partner, I joined tinder always within the first days of conversation I'd steer it to kink in a fun way. Probably something along the lines of I'm tangled up in something and it looks like a bad bondadge film.

This one particular time my now wife said I'd like to see you tied up.....the rest is history locked up a few days before our 2nd date she lived it got back to my place unlocked we fucked and boom rest is history.
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Yes. I find dropping the word 'vanilla' during a date is a good way of finding out if someone is kinky or not without being overt. Eg 'I had a five year vanilla relationship'. Vanillas don't know they are vanilla, so if they ignore your word then you have your answer. If they pick up on it and understand it then they are highly likely to be kinky or kink-friendly.
 
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