Do you fear your wife ?

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I would fear disappointing a wife / significant other or even her family and friends.

Would love a wife to fear and obey. Someone demanding but fair encouraging femininity and good gurlie manners. Someone to respect and obey, love and cherish. An independent lady who knows her worth in a relationship. A role model for a budding maid keen to serve and obey.
 
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I don’t fear my wife, but she was nice enough and open minded enough to be a key holder and run the marriage over time. So I fear disappointing her. And, I don’t want to annoy her too much as her confidence made her stern enough to keep me locked.
 
If she’s tightened all 15 restraints securing me to the spanking bench and then double checks all the straps to remove any slack and then the first impact of an implement is delivered at full force (no warmup); then yes I fear her. Do I fear I will be damaged? No. Do I fear that level of pain? Yes. Do I believe those that say you can’t effectively punish someone who likes spankings with a corporal punishment spanking? I call BS on that.
 
If she’s tightened all 15 restraints securing me to the spanking bench and then double checks all the straps to remove any slack and then the first impact of an implement is delivered at full force (no warmup); then yes I fear her. Do I fear I will be damaged? No. Do I fear that level of pain? Yes. Do I believe those that say you can’t effectively punish someone who likes spankings with a corporal punishment spanking? I call BS on that.
My wife isn’t into giving pain. But she will punish. I’ve had a few sleepless nights strapped to the upper pole of her closet and stood there all night (yes, I could life the pole up and get away if there was an emergency). But that is a real uncomfortable situation to be in. She knows at a submissive level I enjoy it.
 
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We're not married, and Drummer doesn't fear me. He likes me, trusts me, seems to respect me, and - being slightly woo - said that my aura impressed him as it was larger than his. I had no idea that there was dick-measuring for auras, but I learn something new every day.

The only people who have "feared" me have been conflict avoidant, and I don't deal with that mess. If someone can't be bothered to resolve conflicts, I can't be bothered to waste time on them.
 
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Absurd word salad that says nothing.
Pain is all in your head, it's just a perception of electrochemical reactions.

VISION is all in your head, it's just a perception of electrochemical reactions.

HEARING is all in your head, it's just a perception of electrochemical reactions

TASTE is all in your head, it's just a perception of electrochemical reactions.

Your choosing to represent pain in this way makes it no more teal or unreal, shared or unshared than any other perception.

Pain is produced as a response to stimuli that your brain perceives as possibly damaging to your body. It is in fact vital to your survival.
 
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No, not fear. I've had three partners who have dominated me at times. I've always had a trust that we'd do the play together without abuse. It was also good for restoring the power imbalance.
 
Your choosing to represent pain in this way makes it no more teal or unreal, shared or unshared than any other perception

So close.

It makes it the same amount hallucination as everything else.

Pain is produced as a response to stimuli that your brain perceives as possibly damaging to your body. It is in fact vital to your survival.

So close, again.

Pain doesn't exist in reality, and is only a perception. The universe, which you are a part of, is indifferent to what you perceive of as survival. Your energy will survive just fine, long after your current state of matter dissolves back to it's smallest components. Do as you will, you will survive just fine, in one form or another, even if you cry when you get a spank.
 
if i Her that i feared Her, She'd say i was a loony! but honestly, i want to serve Her and get things right and She understands She'll have to be rough with me at times. i want to live up to Her expectations!
 
So close.

It makes it the same amount hallucination as everything else.



So close, again.

Pain doesn't exist in reality, and is only a perception. The universe, which you are a part of, is indifferent to what you perceive of as survival. Your energy will survive just fine, long after your current state of matter dissolves back to it's smallest components. Do as you will, you will survive just fine, in one form or another, even if you cry when you get a spank.
Even though you apparently live in the metaphysical “matrix”. Maybe you should study some actual medical science. Take a look at Congenital Insensitivity to Pain. Understand why they live short life spans. Then live with the fact that pain is an important real signal necessary for human survival. It is often triggers a fear response. You are correct though your existence in the metaphysical will role also no untroubled.
 
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do not think i would want anyone in my family to fear me. on the other hand fear of the metering out justice upon a deserving soul may be entirely appropriate.
 
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What do actually do fear, a little, is that my wife had talked about someday eliminating my full orgasms (allowing only ruined mainly) after this year. She backed way off that, but she still occasionally mentions it with a smirk. Is it possible? Might she think about that at some level? Maybe it’s just a mind game perhaps? But, that is a scary prospect and something that I hold in the back of my mind when dealing with her. Some on CM claim they’ve been denied for years. So it’s a bit scary
 
I do not fear my wife!
I obey her and serve her!
A cuck does not serve her because otherwise she punish him... a cuck is serving her caus he loves her and she deserves that! She can punish him offcourse. But it is about love.
If you fear her... call the Police!
 
You know it's funny, but being locked by a relative stranger is much scarier than being locked by your partner. You know your partner isn't going to run off or be too unreasonable. Conversely, when doing chastity play with anyone else you run the risk of you being severely abused. I gave my key to a girl I knew for two days. She was the sort of person who'd lose interest and leave you locked. Sounds hot, but it's not.