Exciting yet scary

Mr_anonymous

Mr_anonymous

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We had one of our random touch base conversations on where we stood yesterday. Never really planned just kind of happen here and there. Good news is if I'm good i may get out to get off on vacation. Bad news is from now on ill be going caged a month at a time. Barring any holidays or occasions. I already average about that but sometimes she was letting dice decide so I could get lucky only get 10 days for example. Also she's pre menopausal so her interest in piv is going from not much to zero. Though she's guaranteed I won't be neglected, being inside her is going to far less to maybe zero one day. Being I love sex this is rather scary. I do love her though and many people have sexless boring marriages. So I am grateful at least I'm promised we'll still do what we already do now.
 
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Mr_anonymous said:
We had one of our random touch base conversations on where we stood yesterday. Never really planned just kind of happen here and there. Good news is if I'm good i may get out to get off on vacation. Bad news is from now on ill be going caged a month at a time. Barring any holidays or occasions. I already average about that but sometimes she was letting dice decide so I could get lucky only get 10 days for example. Also she's pre menopausal so her interest in piv is going from not much to zero. Though she's guaranteed I won't be neglected, being inside her is going to far less to maybe zero one day. Being I love sex this is rather scary. I do love her though and many people have sexless boring marriages. So I am grateful at least I'm promised we'll still do what we already do now.
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My stomach has butterflies reading it....

BUT... here's to hoping you get out for the beach and vacation!
 
Mr_anonymous said:
We had one of our random touch base conversations on where we stood yesterday. Never really planned just kind of happen here and there. Good news is if I'm good i may get out to get off on vacation. Bad news is from now on ill be going caged a month at a time. Barring any holidays or occasions. I already average about that but sometimes she was letting dice decide so I could get lucky only get 10 days for example. Also she's pre menopausal so her interest in piv is going from not much to zero. Though she's guaranteed I won't be neglected, being inside her is going to far less to maybe zero one day. Being I love sex this is rather scary. I do love her though and many people have sexless boring marriages. So I am grateful at least I'm promised we'll still do what we already do now.
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Here's hoping she lets you out for your vacation!
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Mr_anonymous said:
As long as I'm to quote a "good boy" lol I'm pretty confident she will. As long as I play nice with her family and not totally grumpy after being burned out of the beach after a few days.
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Hang in there dude!
 
Mr_anonymous said:
If it wasn't the same beach in basically the same resort with a billion people year after year it wouldn't be so bad. Vacation should be new and exciting not deja vu every year.
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I agree. I like to try new places. Unfortunately this year we are staying home. Having a huge remodel done. A couple of our best vacations were at Duck NC. I guess part of the outer banks. We rent a place just off the beach. Have friends and family. Great memories. Two years ago we spent two weeks in Florida. Traveled the entire state. Jacksonville, a resort near Clearwater, the Everglades, key west, and Daytona. Fantastic time, food and people. Lifetime memories.
 
Mr_anonymous said:
If it wasn't the same beach in basically the same resort with a billion people year after year it wouldn't be so bad. Vacation should be new and exciting not deja vu every year.
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I guess that makes sense, I haven't been on a beach in god knows how long. So enjoy at any rate!
 
Wishing you the best vacation, and hoping you don’t get out! Make your wife happy.
 
Gremlin said:
I agree. I like to try new places. Unfortunately this year we are staying home. Having a huge remodel done. A couple of our best vacations were at Duck NC. I guess part of the outer banks. We rent a place just off the beach. Have friends and family. Great memories. Two years ago we spent two weeks in Florida. Traveled the entire state. Jacksonville, a resort near Clearwater, the Everglades, key west, and Daytona. Fantastic time, food and people. Lifetime memories.
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We do myrtle year after year after year. Its so touristy it hurts lol.
 
I think that’s the first time I’ve ever heard someone complain about the opportunity and blessing to have the money, time, and ability to go on a resort vaction. It’s mindbogglingly flabergasting to be completely honest…and you get to do it in chastity. I’ve never heard familiarity being the killer of joy though I have heard of other things…It puzzles me though…like, we claim to enjoy chastity and chastity is in longer term situations where it becomes more of a lifestyle a doing of (or the very least wearing of) the same devices and living the same fantasy over a long period of time. Why then would going to the same resort, something you’re innately familiar and comfortable with in terms of places that you know your way around and have enjoyed before be different? I’m struck by the curiosity of the juxtoposition of ideas and life experiences and why one would spark joy and amusement and the other would bring a sense of particular dread?
 
collaredhubby said:
I think that’s the first time I’ve ever heard someone complain about the opportunity and blessing to have the money, time, and ability to go on a resort vaction. It’s mindbogglingly flabergasting to be completely honest…and you get to do it in chastity. I’ve never heard familiarity being the killer of joy though I have heard of other things…It puzzles me though…like, we claim to enjoy chastity and chastity is in longer term situations where it becomes more of a lifestyle a doing of (or the very least wearing of) the same devices and living the same fantasy over a long period of time. Why then would going to the same resort, something you’re innately familiar and comfortable with in terms of places that you know your way around and have enjoyed before be different? I’m struck by the curiosity of the juxtoposition of ideas and life experiences and why one would spark joy and amusement and the other would bring a sense of particular dread?
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Because it's essentially the exact same vacation on repeat every year. Only difference is it gets more expensive.
 
Mr_anonymous said:
Also she's pre menopausal so her interest in piv is going from not much to zero. .
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My wife is also in menoposis and PIV has dropped to 6/year (mostly ruined) instead of around 180 for the previous years. I understand that the cage may stay longer than you think. Enjooy it, after a moment you love(/hate) it.
 
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It’s definitely scary thinking of piv going away! We went from daily piv for most of our marriage, then chastity dropped it down a little when we started, then she got serious and we had 87 piv sessions last year. She’s about to be 51 but she’s putting off menopause through hormone replacement, but she had a cyst that required vaginal surgery in January, we went from early Dec thru early April with no piv. We’ve been able to have 10 sessions between end of April and now, fortunately she’s starting to enjoy it again without any discomfort, but I still think it’ll only be a handful of times a month at most.

Hopefully your Wife will allow you some sort of play time on vaca, especially if you’re sitting on a beach all day seeing women in bikinis :)
And if not, hope you enjoy the intense frustration!
 
Mr_anonymous said:
A year
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My wife has started having some symptoms of it, but I'm several years younger. I used to be a bit more worried about it, but as long as she's still interested in me, I'm pretty sure we can find a way through anything.
 
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