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Long story short. We had been having problems for a long time. I had no desire to touch her. I masturbated often.
I would see the therapist, she would go, then we go together. this went for several months. I was given things the therapist wanted me/us to try. Date her, buy flowers, do things she likes. etc. Nothing really work. Being intimate was not going to happen. Our issues ran deep with her being a step mom to my kids when i had them on my week.
I felt bad for the therapist because she was really trying to get us to "connect". She felt once we did, things might get better. Funny stuff like the therapist suggesting she give me a BJ when i get home from work. The ex said, i don't suck dicks LOL
Finally one dual session the therapist asks if we really wanted to work this out. Sure i said, then the big one, how much do I masturbate? Daily I said, sometimes twice. Long sessions about doing that is bad for a marriage etc.
Then, than about a month later at a dual session again, the therapist suggests I wear a chastity belt to stop my masturbation habit. honestly, until then I really did not know anything about them. The ex was all over that. She explained what they're and what they do for the male. Once locked on she said, they will prevent the male from masturbating. To be honest, I got a tingle down there thinking about wearing something like that.
She gave us some information on male masturbation which had information from a site that sold chastity belts. It happened to "Kept for Her" She suggested we look at the site together and decide if we want to try it to maybe save our marriage by putting desire for one another back into our marriage.
We looked, I got a hard on! I told her to pick one, knowing nothing about cages. My first ever belt was a CB2000 in pink. I remember the day it came and when I came in from work, seeing it and all the pieces laying on the bed. "lets put it on OK" We all have been there putting our first cage on, it was not pretty. LOL
I felt different with it on. I gave my wife that handout from the therapist. She was very surprised.
We all know how things go once we are put in a cage.
So, while it's not a real sexy story, it's how I started.