What has your wife or domme tole you to do that has made you feel the most submissive and under control??
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Years ago, when Mistress first took me out in public with her, we were in line at a bank ATM. When it was her turn, she snapped her fingers, pointed at the ground, and simply said "Stay!" I didn't dare look around at the other people waiting. While a small thing in the big picture, and much less intense than some of our BDSM & Power Exchange play, that event probably made me feel more submissive than anything since.
Submissive? I’m not.
Most under her control? There’s a long list of highly restrictive bondage scenario that can compete for that title.
Most under her control secretly in public? Snow skiing at a large resort on 100cm Skis (no poles needed). Wearing chastity device, butt plug secured in place, leather gag (hidden under neoprene face mask and helmet) and hands cuffed inside tunnel pocket of my pull over jacket. We did 4 runs. The lift lines made me nervous (I was only asked one question and nodded and grunted in assent). The ski lift made her giggle as we crossed the guide wheels on every tower because she knew what the butt plug was doing to me. For safety she always skied uphill from me in case I fell (because getting up on my own was impossible).
All in all a scary, exciting, amazing experience!
Most under her control? There’s a long list of highly restrictive bondage scenario that can compete for that title.
Most under her control secretly in public? Snow skiing at a large resort on 100cm Skis (no poles needed). Wearing chastity device, butt plug secured in place, leather gag (hidden under neoprene face mask and helmet) and hands cuffed inside tunnel pocket of my pull over jacket. We did 4 runs. The lift lines made me nervous (I was only asked one question and nodded and grunted in assent). The ski lift made her giggle as we crossed the guide wheels on every tower because she knew what the butt plug was doing to me. For safety she always skied uphill from me in case I fell (because getting up on my own was impossible).
All in all a scary, exciting, amazing experience!
The other day, it was hot outside so I was enjoying an ice cold beer or 3 in the shade. She said "That's the last one," and I looked at abou to say "Fuck no, today is a full pack kinda day" but she had the look that confirmed there shouldn't be a 4th beer that day.
That's amazing you pulled that off. Incredibly controlled and high stakes.
Yes that reminds me - if you have a cage or closet the "kennel" command would be very humiliating - especially if she had guests!
Yes, that happened, too. That was when she had a commercial dungeon. I would sometimes spend the day. If she had clients or guests, I was often put in a heavy duty cage, while wearing a chastity cage. Double caged! Often it was covered but sometimes I was displayed. It was consensual, of course, and by then I was more used to this.
Drinking her pee on command. She says , “I need to pee, get your pee drinking wine glass. I might need to fill it twice piss Sissy”. All I can say is, “Yrs Ma’am”.
Love it. With my wife it is a routine at cocktail hour. She has a gin martini with a twist, while I drink her pee out of a chilled martini glass with a splash of vermouth.
It is such a pleasure to drink my wife’s pee fresh. Nice and warm. She can really fill my glass that holds 750 ml of my Goddesses wine. Holding it in place as she pees is the best feeling. I can look up and see her smile. She knows I love her pee. I do like that I get a healthy dose of her female hormones in every glass.
There's so much I could say here that she's done to demonstrate control. I think the one I'll go with is when she surprised me with a cage and ushered me inside it. It was such a submissive acknowledgement and feeling to acquiesce. But, she made it "OK" for me to feel good about it and I've come to love it when she wants me in it. It's become a "safe place" for me to think and focus on our relationship. I was so tentative when I first saw it. It's like "if you go in there, it will never be the same." She loves putting me into situations like that ... and I love it when she does.
No. Not about being displayed while I was locked in that dungeon cage. But there were times when I was locked in longer than I wished, or kept chained & working longer than I "enjoyed." But still, not really non-consensual.
I feel most under her control and submissive when she has her paddle, that I made for her in hand, and says to me "downstairs missy!" I know I am in for a punishing paddling.
Good question. In my case it maybe when she declines (quite always) my request for fellation and when she declines my request on cum into her (free finish, as I call it i.e. without condom).
... Also when she declines my any sexual requests during her critical days. I HOPE once she will be able to decline my requests on PIV at another part of month, and that will be a sign that she accepted me as her sub boy.
In response to the OP, I still have a vivid memory of the time my wife called me to the bedroom. I was pleasantly surprised to see her dressed in a latex dress. She rarely wears it but knows that it drives me wild to see her in latex. She ordered me strip naked and I complied. Then she had me lay on the bed and played with my cock for just a minute or two until I was fully hard. Then she mounted me and ordered me to remain still and not thrust. It was a given that I was not allowed to orgasm. She rode me until she had an orgasm while I remained still and concentrated on not having an orgasm. As her orgasm hit, it was so hard not to cum. When her orgasm ended, she immediately got off of me and said "I am done with you." She quickly removed her dress, folded it, put it in a drawer and walked out of the room. This all happened in a matter of seconds. I was still fully aroused and so close to an orgasm when she left. I felt completely submissive and owned in that moment. It was liked she used me as a sex toy, existing solely for her pleasure. I loved it!