Hello all. I am Shane from San Diego. I am self locked and looking for a key holder, but I am very picky. I am married and my wife knows about my chastity but is not into it at all. She and I have sex about twice a year, if that. She has had medical issues and her libido, which wasn't great to begin with, has fallen off big time. And now she is going through menopause. So we are just good friends now. I love her to death and will never leave her but I have my needs to and she thinks that there are much worse things than chastity that I could be getting up to. I have been locking myself up for over 12 years now and have tried all kinds of cages to fit myself as I am a little on the large size. I have a couple that fit me now so I am happy. Been locked for a few months and feeling good! I'm looking to chat with like-minded people in a safe environment, safe from the pro-dommes!