How Can I Tell a New Partner About My Chastity Cage

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Could we focus on J?

How old are she and her husband? How long have they been together? Are she a stay-at-home mom or does her work outside?
How long have her been bestfriend with your mistress? Etc.
 
They’re around 60 too, I don’t know exactly. They have adult children and I guess “J” wasn’t a stay-at-home mum because she worked beside Mistress for 18 years, so best friends in that time too.
 
Had a very busy Friday and weekend. Dinner at “J” ‘s was the usual arrangement, the ladies cooked, me and MrJ were naked and caged butlers. “J” answered the door when we arrived and her first words were “Good evening, come in. Andy, I’ll take your clothes now, please.” So I stripped in the hallway in front of Mistress and “J”.
 
Do you know the chastity habits of J & husband?

How long he stays denied?
Yes, MrJ is caged Monday to Saturday. He’s unlocked on Sunday and “J” complies with his wishes. Which will make for an interesting Sunday dinner with them if it ever happens 😃🤔
 
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I had an enlightening experience at Mistresses tonight. I asked her a while ago if she would have passed me by if I had mentioned my chastity cage on my dating profile. She said maybe not at the time but was not 100% sure. Tonight she showed me a dating profile she'd created to see how other women would have responded, my photos, mentioned that "I" was looking for a lady to hold the keys to my chastity cage. She got 60+ messages from female profiles that were looking forward to being "my" keyholder. I was gobsmacked. Male chastity controlled by their partner seems to be quite popular.
 
I had an enlightening experience at Mistresses tonight. I asked her a while ago if she would have passed me by if I had mentioned my chastity cage on my dating profile. She said maybe not at the time but was not 100% sure. Tonight she showed me a dating profile she'd created to see how other women would have responded, my photos, mentioned that "I" was looking for a lady to hold the keys to my chastity cage. She got 60+ messages from female profiles that were looking forward to being "my" keyholder. I was gobsmacked. Male chastity controlled by their partner seems to be quite popular.
I wonder if that translates here to m the US? That is really something.
I am in an FLR and not looking but i am now curious.
 
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She got 60+ messages from female profiles that were looking forward to being "my" keyholder. I was gobsmacked. Male chastity controlled by their partner seems to be quite popular.
Given everything else I've read over many years at this forum I find this very hard to believe.

If what you say is true then you should teach others here the key to doing this (pun intended). This is your chance to improve the lives of many of the single men on this website!
 
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Hi all, I'm single at the moment and started self locking when single. I'm doing online dating and if I find a lady on there, does anyone have any advice on how to introduce that I wear a chastity cage? I don't wear it on dates. Thanks, Andy.

Congratulations on the last few months of all this. I read this whole thread of happenings. Best of happy and horny in the future.
 
I had an enlightening experience at Mistresses tonight. I asked her a while ago if she would have passed me by if I had mentioned my chastity cage on my dating profile. She said maybe not at the time but was not 100% sure. Tonight she showed me a dating profile she'd created to see how other women would have responded, my photos, mentioned that "I" was looking for a lady to hold the keys to my chastity cage. She got 60+ messages from female profiles that were looking forward to being "my" keyholder. I was gobsmacked. Male chastity controlled by their partner seems to be quite popular.
They could be mostly mistress looking for findomme relationship or fake male account.
 
Given everything else I've read over many years at this forum I find this very hard to believe.

If what you say is true then you should teach others here the key to doing this (pun intended). This is your chance to improve the lives of many of the single men on this website!
I was gobsmacked myself, found it hard to believe too. Mistress showed me the blurb she wrote on the profile, it was very direct “Quietly confident man looking for the lady who holds the key to my chastity cage 😉 for our mutual happiness…” then the usual info that every profile has.

Some messages were just as direct asking for “that key”, others were sceptical “if that’s true I’ll happily keep your key” or “Really?”. Whatever, they all showed a level of interest by taking time to message.
 
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Judging by the number of so called female messages i expect many others here like myself receive from supposed potential keyholders i too would imagine in reality their replies to your wifes post were as the other poster stated possibly findomme or males but could also be also women just replying as a bit of a turn on or excitement of responding to the question. It would be good for those of us who have not got someone who is prepared to try this stuff out and run with it to find that her responses led to others joining our happy breed. Keep up the excellent posts Andy i do so look forward to hearing how its going.
 
While I also think 60 is an amazing number, but dont most dating sites have photos of the people? So wouldn't that reduce the chance of a fake male account? And given that Andy's Mistress was totally new to chastity and her friend J jumped right in, perhaps the idea of male chastity is not as unusual as we tend to think.