Humiliation

Almost daily since we started our bdsm lifestyle, both verbal and physical, also public to, Madam is a true sadist and loves to see how far can take her control of me.
And to push me to be as submissive to her as she wants.
Oh i was serving a Domina some years ago, as an utter newcomer - i struggled with my shame and Her enjoyment of seeing me in it...

In my struggles i was unable to see the bright side but remembering Her now, my memories are shinings of such treatment.

my current KH'r had me post an online pic of me in a very tiny 1" pink nub cage - my first cage display, this was and remains thrilling...

i agree, the getting used to it for me = getting used to my service including being shames for Her pleasures and this is why i am serving, to be used, usually sadistically, for Her pleasures - among other things.
 
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Yes totally = 'be careful what you wish for' =

Take great care to only wish for a Domina who loves shaming Her submissive-estates...
 
We’re not currently in that dynamic, but I sense it’s getting close.

The other day when I got up to do the washing up she says ‘yes that’s it, get your little maid outfit on and get to work’…

We don’t own a maid outfit…
I was weak at the knees…
 
We’re not currently in that dynamic, but I sense it’s getting close.

The other day when I got up to do the washing up she says ‘yes that’s it, get your little maid outfit on and get to work’…

We don’t own a maid outfit…
I was weak at the knees…
Love it.

We have a French maids uniform for me! My wife will lay it out with a note pinned to it saying "you'll wear this today when you clean"
 
Love it.

We have a French maids uniform for me! My wife will lay it out with a note pinned to it saying "you'll wear this today when you clean"
I’d absolutely love that.

She already knows I’m desperate to ‘clean up my own mess’ with my tongue. I’m planning to do this later today, it will be the first time ever.

I plan to drop to my knees, orally pleasure her, then a quick bit of PIV before I explode all over her.
I’m hoping she remembers to demand that I drop back down to my knees, clean my mess and finish servicing her… 🤤

We’ve discussed this on text message, told her that’s what I want but never had the conversation face to face…
 
I’d absolutely love that.

She already knows I’m desperate to ‘clean up my own mess’ with my tongue. I’m planning to do this later today, it will be the first time ever.

I plan to drop to my knees, orally pleasure her, then a quick bit of PIV before I explode all over her.
I’m hoping she remembers to demand that I drop back down to my knees, clean my mess and finish servicing her… 🤤

We’ve discussed this on text message, told her that’s what I want but never had the conversation face to face…

Did you clean up last night?
 
My wife likes to call me “whore” or “ho-bag”. She also likes to pull down my pants while I am making her dinner. The other night I served her completely naked. Of course, this is all very much a turn on :)
 
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My wife likes to call me “whore” or “ho-bag”. She also likes to pull down my pants while I am making her dinner. The other night I served her completely naked. Of course, this is all very much a turn on :)
My wife likes to call me “whore” or “ho-bag”. She also likes to pull down my pants while I am making her dinner. The other night I served her completely naked. Of course, this is all very much a turn on :)
Love your wife's comments she is brilliant 😉
 
My lady is very aware that I absolutely hate to be in any public situation shirtless. She will keep a punishment on the books for months sometimes and pull it out when it's totally a surprise . Do you remember when such and such etc. that time? Well, this is your punishment for it . At a swap meet or a yard sale even one time at the Goodwill she will make me change shirts. Her favorite is a yard sale on a really warm or hot day. She will seek out wool or similar sweaters or shirts and make me try them on slowly and button everything then when it comes time for ME to pay for them, she will explain to the cash lady it's always a lady that I've been a little grouchy and I should wear the new shirt the rest of the day, yes, it's a pretty warm day and it will be a little scratchy, and uncomfortable but maybe by tonight when you get to take it off after your chores and exercises, you will remember to be more cheery and willing to do as you're told right Eddie YES MAAM . At this point, I'm directed to strip off my shirt and put on the new one, even if there's people waiting to pay. The first time we did this, we found a 100% wool Pendleton shirt for $15 a real bargain these days in fact, we even went back the next day to ask if she had any others for sale, but no. Another big winner I have to look forward to. About a year ago I / we found some really great plastic diaper pants, Great quality and price from Timu . Not with diapers just as regular underwear I love the feel, and she loves the look we got a number of different sizes brands and colors some all black.. There is a small lake about 3 miles from our place with a thirty minuet walking path around it. I have a major punishment on the books, forgot to put the stickers on her license plate she got stopped. Just a warning, but she was pissed. I may will be looking forward to walking around this lake in record time, in some of my opaque, black plastic pants, chastity device, and tennis shoes not sure about a shirt but maybe, if I don't get back around to the car in time, I will have to walk home so dressed. We are not sure about the legality of this, as it may be considered, lewd conduct, and trying to expose others to a particular fetish, surely, if any kids are detected, there is plenty of flora to duck out of sight. Not sure if most of you would consider this serious humiliation, but it sure is for me .
 
Did you clean up last night?
So it happened last night and oh my god what an experience…!

It started off me going down on her, she was freshly shaven, super juicy and super wet. I managed to get a bit of squirt all in my mouth and dripping down my chin…

She moaned ‘fuck me’ - I responded with ‘but I don’t think I can last very long’. She said she wanted my dick any way.

I made some really pathetic moans whilst thrusting inside her, all of this lasted approximately 90 seconds before I pulled out and exploded all over her stomach.

She giggles, says ‘that was pathetic, I’m not done’

She grabs my hair and pushes my face down into it as i licked and swallowed most of it up. The thrill was sensational, I continued pleasuring her with my tounge until orgasm.

She finished the session calling me a ‘dirty little boy’… before rushing off to the shower.

I laid on the bed in ecstasy enjoying the cocktail of my own cum and her juices in my mouth and all my face. Whilst I was alone I felt a big drip of something rolling down my chin, I took a finger to the drip and made sure I swallowed that as well…

🤤
 
I guess they call it subbing from the top, but it’s what I’ve been doing for years when trying to encourage my wife to turn me into a sexual submissive. Over the years, my wife discovered she actually enjoyed locking my cock, flogging me, and picking out my panties for me. I’d love her to add cock shaming to our sex life. We both know my dick has become soft and useless as I age. We play cuckold role play with dildos which is hot!
I would like her to start verbally humiliating my dick while she enjoys her toys. She seems a bit reluctant. But I think she might get into it once she tries it.
Question: what is the best way to get wife to add SPH to a relationship and to understand that I really want the humiliation.
 
I asked Miss for permission to make negative comments about my own package.
She didn't like humiliation at all but she agreed to allow me to do it some.
After a while of me making small comments (pun intended) like calling it a clitty... She started to also make some comments and as i reacted well she has continued to grow in it. It has been slow but i have learned slow is better.