"I like that you can't cum"

M@rcellus said:
Wow 3 caged otgasms a day is unbelievable. Think if I was that highly sexed I may not be doing chastity.
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3 orgasms a day... I seen some edge case definitions of chastity but that one beats them all.
( especially in a thread titled "I like that you can't cum"! )
 
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So I've booked a holiday in June 25 with my gf and 3 female friends. One of them her bestie, the one who found our whipping strap down the couch, who "accidentally' saw me gagged, whipped and bound to my weightlifting bench after my gf "borrowed" her phone. The other 2, mother and daughter I've met once, both adults btw and single as far as i can tell. I've already been told I will be caged for the whole holiday. From a practical point of view I need to practice reflexology on different feet if I ever want to do it professionally. Not that money is a motivator, I am of course a connoisseur of female feet. We have never brought a 3rd party into our relationship. Of course I would love to spend the holiday on my knees pampering these women's stinking holiday feet. Is it reasonable to politely suggest this to my gf? She owns me and is very open minded but this is new. I won't push it if it's out of order. I think I'll be spoken down to anyway.
 
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My wife no longer likes any kind of penetration she likes vibrating toys on the outside and i'm more
than happy to be in chastity and a dress and assist her with this.
I kneel at her feet and pass her vaious toys and when she wants a change of toy she hands it back to me and makes me kiss it and hand her another toy.That's the nearest i get to having oral sex now and it is wonderfull
 
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M@rcellus said:
... and you pleasing me orally. That's a big turn on." And with that any return to a "normal" sex life was over. I've spent long enough now in chastity and pleasing my mistress orally that that's just who I am and that's what we do. This was in response to gently asking my mistress if we'll ever have sex again (the meaning was clear, I meant piv sex). So it seems like no, not ever. I already said that it's for her to decide. I thought it might be a game, that she must eventually crave wonderful intercourse with me. It's seems no, she likes oral and likes it all the more because I'm caged. I'm not sure I'm ok with this but I have never refused anything she has initiated so for now I don't feel like I'm going to refuse this. There is no sympathy on her part, for all she knows this is exactly what I wanted... but I didn't really expect it to happen. What should I do?
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I wonder if she had orgasms when you had 'Normal Sex' and she likes the oral a lot more and has better orgasms with just oral. My wife never had an orgasm from PIV sex but always did with guys that had a large member, like over 7". I was caged at first so I couldn't masturbate when she was having PIV with a friend and she enjoyed the oral from me after she was done with friends. She did unlock me for a while and put an extension/sleeve on me but she got upset when I would still orgasm in the sleeve so that got changed to always keeping me caged and using a strap-on in her when whe doesn'r have a friend around or after a friend can't keep up with her needs. Do you use a dildo and or vibrator in her when you do oral. I find seeing something in her is very satisfying for me while i am caged.
 
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M@rcellus said:
... and you pleasing me orally. That's a big turn on." And with that any return to a "normal" sex life was over. I've spent long enough now in chastity and pleasing my mistress orally that that's just who I am and that's what we do. This was in response to gently asking my mistress if we'll ever have sex again (the meaning was clear, I meant piv sex). So it seems like no, not ever. I already said that it's for her to decide. I thought it might be a game, that she must eventually crave wonderful intercourse with me. It's seems no, she likes oral and likes it all the more because I'm caged. I'm not sure I'm ok with this but I have never refused anything she has initiated so for now I don't feel like I'm going to refuse this. There is no sympathy on her part, for all she knows this is exactly what I wanted... but I didn't really expect it to happen. What should I do?
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similar situation except i’m 11/12 years of no piv and only worship. her pleasure and desires and needs are all that matters. orgasm free for ten months caged 24/7. it’s a very happy marriage of 14 years x just let her dictate what she wants x
 
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M@rcellus said:
... and you pleasing me orally. That's a big turn on." And with that any return to a "normal" sex life was over. I've spent long enough now in chastity and pleasing my mistress orally that that's just who I am and that's what we do. This was in response to gently asking my mistress if we'll ever have sex again (the meaning was clear, I meant piv sex). So it seems like no, not ever. I already said that it's for her to decide. I thought it might be a game, that she must eventually crave wonderful intercourse with me. It's seems no, she likes oral and likes it all the more because I'm caged. I'm not sure I'm ok with this but I have never refused anything she has initiated so for now I don't feel like I'm going to refuse this. There is no sympathy on her part, for all she knows this is exactly what I wanted... but I didn't really expect it to happen. What should I do?
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Talk to her
 
Didn't do my house duties. Punishment night.
 

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M@rcellus said:
A few days ago I had commented to my mistress that I was horny and it had been 6 weeks since I had come. The next day she said "a month? That's nothing you won't be coming tonight boy."

I think it must have been on her mind as last night, early evening, she said we would go to bed early and she would give me a massage and a blowjob. We ended up staying up later than planned playing games, listening to music. She said, "it's a bit late for that blowjob isn't it? We'll go up and snuggle to sleep." I was disappointed but agreed. The old me probably would have pestered her a bit more, but I sat there thinking I'm not supposed to do that any more. Full control given to her no ifs or buts. It may mean it will come soon was my only consolation

We got into bed me still caged, kissing and I could tell she was getting in the mood and I was still hoping she might uncage me for a blowjob. She sighed and asked me to take her panties off. I pulled them off her ankles but before I could get back up to the pillows she had pushed my head between her legs. As I lay there licking I felt quite angry and a bit sorry for myself that I had gotten myself into this situation. To be kind of taken advantage of as an oral sex slave. A safe caged male who would never disobey and who acts AS IF I had no urges for my own release, but I do. The horniness and frustration I think is worse today after visualising what a blowjob would feel like then not even being allowed an erection. I don't think this was some domme technique on her part, she just couldn't be bothered in the end and could do whatever she liked with me because that's my position in the relationship. I suppose if I liked all aspects of chastity it would just be me getting my cake and eating it. Fantasy vs reality very different things sometimes.
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You are a well adjusted caged boi under your wife's ownership. you are so lucky ....So many would love to be in such a relationship.
 
After a hiatus from this forum i come back to find it's a bit... dead really. Couple of smarmy males flexing their intellectual muscles and ruling the roost. Very predictable stuff when too many males get together. Still a kind of puritanical "Thou Shalt Not get off topic with all this talk of ball torture and pegging. That's not chastity!" Saw a wee bit of bullying there too. I really don't know what some people want from a forum like this... oneupmanship?
 
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M@rcellus said:
After a hiatus from this forum i come back to find it's a bit... dead really. Couple of smarmy males flexing their intellectual muscles and ruling the roost. Very predictable stuff when too many males get together. Still a kind of puritanical "Thou Shalt Not get off topic with all this talk of ball torture and pegging. That's not chastity!" Saw a wee bit of bullying there too. I really don't know what some people want from a forum like this... oneupmanship?
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I haven't noticed that, but I guess it's just a different POV.

Ball torture and pegging aren't chastity, but I could totally see (for some people) why they'd work well with chastity. If it works for you, then cool! It's not my cup of tea, but I like when people find what works for them within a healthy* relationship.

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*Obviously "healthy" in BDSM has a bit of a non-traditional meaning.
 
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For various reasons which are off topic we aren't a "couple" couple at the moment. However we remain best friends. She has suggested remaining as my keyholder. This will be low maintenance for her as I will be allowed less hygiene breaks. With an open metal cage that hygiene will be under the foreskin. No one is going to be anywhere near there as I will not be with anybody for the foreseeable, we have discussed. I'll be completely shaved, caged and not ready to be intimate due to hygiene. I know she does not want me masturbating. We care for each other a lot but I'm pretty sure I've gotten myself into permanent chastity unless things change. My emergency key is the only one in the keybox I have so I'd have to destroy it in an emergency. I agreed to all of the above btw, it made sense while we were talking about splitting up and seemed a nice way to stay in contact. I know I can escape but then I would lose her forever.
 
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My mistress wants some leverage to keep me chaste. She instructed me to show how I was punished for breaking up with her. I can walk away but as many of my readers will know I'm not ready to let go of my bdsm lifestyle. I doubt I'll ever find it again.

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M@rcellus said:
... and you pleasing me orally. That's a big turn on." And with that any return to a "normal" sex life was over. I've spent long enough now in chastity and pleasing my mistress orally that that's just who I am and that's what we do. This was in response to gently asking my mistress if we'll ever have sex again (the meaning was clear, I meant piv sex). So it seems like no, not ever. I already said that it's for her to decide. I thought it might be a game, that she must eventually crave wonderful intercourse with me. It's seems no, she likes oral and likes it all the more because I'm caged. I'm not sure I'm ok with this but I have never refused anything she has initiated so for now I don't feel like I'm going to refuse this. There is no sympathy on her part, for all she knows this is exactly what I wanted... but I didn't really expect it to happen. What should I do?
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Part of this is acceptance of what your KH wants. No PIV? Then that’s what I would accept and Indo accept in my own relationship. It also depends on weather other things about your dynamic work. My wife says PIV was causing her to be uncomfortable and have pain at times. It’s age, and so with us chastity and being denied PIC works. I’ll never have PIV again, at least never full insertion.

I also want her control, teasing and orgasm denial. That adds an incentive to me to do what she wants. My wife also likes that I’m willing to be denied and she’s turned on about it. My wife has demand a lot and because I’m into the kink I meet her demands.

I think some submissive people might have a slight bit of self destructiveness. I know I do, and that makes chastity play work for us. As far as your wife having sympathy, that I don’t know how to address. I want some sympathy when it comes to being forced to do anything dangerous or unhealthy, but I want her toughness (otherwise I’d be topping and I’m not supposed to). My wife sincerely enjoys the whole kink and denying me. I enjoy it too. She believes I’m a nicer husband this way. Then I am to her. You mentioned your feeling about PIV sex, but your wife might want even more at some point. My wife wishes I didn’t have to cum normally at all. I know she really wants that eventually. We have a great marriage and I’m happy so I do what I must do for my Mistress. She’s boss.

Not sure i helped but good luck.
 
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masohedo said:
The last I want is to be a killjoy and wish you all the luck in being able to return to piv at least every now and then.
In my case her liking that I can't cum and the desire to be penetrated was solved by asking me to use dildos.
The way you become an expert using your tongue , the way you will become an expert using all sorts of toys.
In the event you follow this path,she will be convinced in no time that a dildo can have the ideal shape, is always ready and most important ,never gets tired or looses hardness !
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This is where we are too, unlike most cases on here, my Wife drives the chastity. We’ve been doing this for over 17 years now and I’d have it no other way but it was initiated by my Wife. She still gets incredibly horny by making me desperate to cum but never allowing it to happen. She has had numerous lovers and I support this but as far as our personal sex life is concerned it’s purely my tongue and dildos for her pleasure
 
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thomassub5252 said:
My wife often reminds me she does not like me to cum but is very demanding in receiving pleasure. I know she means it. She told me she likes to be in charge of if and when she allows me to cum.
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How long have you two been using chastity?
 
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For various reasons which are off topic we aren't a "couple" couple at the moment. However we remain best friends. She has suggested remaining as my keyholder. This will be low maintenance for her as I will be allowed less hygiene breaks. With an open metal cage that hygiene will be under the foreskin. No one is going to be anywhere near there as I will not be with anybody for the foreseeable, we have discussed. I'll be completely shaved, caged and not ready to be intimate due to hygiene. I know she does not want me masturbating. We care for each other a lot but I'm pretty sure I've gotten myself into permanent chastity unless things change. My emergency key is the only one in the keybox I have so I'd have to destroy it in an emergency. I agreed to all of the above btw, it made sense while we were talking about splitting up and seemed a nice way to stay in contact. I know I can escape but then I would lose her forever.
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Absolutely. She being KH and nothing else will be delicious. She will be enjoying herself with whoever she likes while ensuring you will not. Perfect.
 
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My wife/KH told me something like this the night before last. I’ll be soon getting a ruined O, but as my wife was teasing me a little before bed I told her “I really wish you’d let me cum tonight. I’d pleasure you all night if you wanted”. All she said was, “No, I like you this way better”. She thought she’d have to load a big cloth with ice to cool me down but the thought of that seemed to cause my erection to get soft so i could lock back up. Then we talked a bit about breakfast, which I really was too worked up to discuss, and she said to be sure to make her the hazelnut flavored coffee the next morning.
 
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M@rcellus said:
For various reasons which are off topic we aren't a "couple" couple at the moment. However we remain best friends. She has suggested remaining as my keyholder. This will be low maintenance for her as I will be allowed less hygiene breaks. With an open metal cage that hygiene will be under the foreskin. No one is going to be anywhere near there as I will not be with anybody for the foreseeable, we have discussed. I'll be completely shaved, caged and not ready to be intimate due to hygiene. I know she does not want me masturbating. We care for each other a lot but I'm pretty sure I've gotten myself into permanent chastity unless things change. My emergency key is the only one in the keybox I have so I'd have to destroy it in an emergency. I agreed to all of the above btw, it made sense while we were talking about splitting up and seemed a nice way to stay in contact. I know I can escape but then I would lose her forever.
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I think a real KH is very serious and strict about the cage. Any cheating would be a deal breaker, at least for my wife. It was her prerequisite to marry her.
 
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