Ideas for Punishment/Discipline in a beginner FLR

I have been mostly by being confined under one of my wife’s hairdryers.
We bought a Darlex bondage sleepsack about 1 month ago. I was excited and scared simultaneously until it arrived. When we first tried it I found it exciting for a while, but having my arms within the internal sleeves and being totally unable to get out or do anything but lay still and sweat made me realize that it was not fun.
When I told my dear wife she said, “Fine! If you really don’t like being in it then I will just use it for punishment!”
She has sentenced me to the sleepsack twice. Both times she announced the punishment within minutes of my pissing her off. So far she has set the time up front instead of saying that she will unzip me when she is ready. The first time I received 1 hour. The second punishment sentence was for 4 hours and that was this past Monday.
My wife has continued to spank me every day now for the past 5 weeks. She uses my belt folded in 2 and gripped in her hand. Honestly, it hurts like double hell while I am receiving, and each session hurts superficially and deeply for 2 to 3 days. The spankings, despite their severity are funishments and not for behavior. I asked her to spank me every day and she said ok. The severity as well as my tolerance has increased. I really love the feeling of pain on my butt cheeks all day every day.
Call me a weird pervert. I am glad my wife has my heart.
Ss
Do you have a link for the sleepwalk you got?
 
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Hi,

my partner and I are currently renewing our first FLR agreement. For that we find that the section of 'punishment' and 'disciplines' are still very empty:


We are still very fresh, we just finished our first 2 months of FLR. I am generally not ready to do punishments like whipping or smacking, so I am looking more for ideas that are not corporal punishments.

What are you having in your agreements that would suit ours?
Denial. No mobile phone, laptop, or internet.

I would definitely avoid whipping, but a firm slap to the bare legs is quick and easy and establishes who is in charge.

If he talks back to you, wash his mouth with soap and gag him. If he is looking at stuff he shouldn't then blindfold and hand restraints.

Alternately, and you may need restraints for this, gift him an orgasm, possibly ruined, and then continue with the stimulation. Post orgasm torture is amazing when done correctly.

And don't forget to keep reminding him of his errant ways whilst you are punishing.

The biggest punishment or deterrent is to not do any kink with him at all, for maybe a month, a year, or ever.

A
 
Do you have a link for the sleepwalk you got

I have been mostly by being confined under one of my wife’s hairdryers.
We bought a Darlex bondage sleepsack about 1 month ago. I was excited and scared simultaneously until it arrived. When we first tried it I found it exciting for a while, but having my arms within the internal sleeves and being totally unable to get out or do anything but lay still and sweat made me realize that it was not fun.
When I told my dear wife she said, “Fine! If you really don’t like being in it then I will just use it for punishment!”
She has sentenced me to the sleepsack twice. Both times she announced the punishment within minutes of my pissing her off. So far she has set the time up front instead of saying that she will unzip me when she is ready. The first time I received 1 hour. The second punishment sentence was for 4 hours and that was this past Monday.
My wife has continued to spank me every day now for the past 5 weeks. She uses my belt folded in 2 and gripped in her hand. Honestly, it hurts like double hell while I am receiving, and each session hurts superficially and deeply for 2 to 3 days. The spankings, despite their severity are funishments and not for behavior. I asked her to spank me every day and she said ok. The severity as well as my tolerance has increased. I really love the feeling of pain on my butt cheeks all day every day.
Call me a weird pervert. I am glad my wife has my heart.
Ss
OK, you're a weird pervert. Join the club. I must be weirder. I DON'T like pain, yet I am always ready for a good spanking. I love the freedom and pleasure it gives her. Plus... anything to entice her away from swatting my testicles.
 
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