Hi I am new to all this and have never used a site before. I am Madame to Maid Diane who has been my submissive for 30 years. I am looking for friendly advice and conversation with like minded people. I have always used chastity as a punishment in the past but have recently purchased an Evotion chastity device which is fabulous. This has not gone down well with my submissive as permenant is forever and takes time to adjust to. Any help or advice would be great fully received. Madame S
Welcome, as a thirty year vet I’m sure there are things to teach others as well! Permanent you say? Seems like you have gotten further into this than he bargained for. Good luck and welcome again.
Welcome to you! It's always a pleasure seeing other couples together here. I hope that Diane successfully adjusts to her new situation. She should be able to find plenty of support here. I wish good luck to the both of you.
Welcome @Madam S to CM. I recently interfaced with your Maid and am pleased to see you also here. I look forward to learning more about your extensive experience and how each of you are doing!
Welcome and enjoy. It looks to me as though you've already got him secured so he will do as told and no way now for him to turn the clock back. So if he does not like the device that's surely his problem not yours! But happy to discuss more if I've got it wrong!
Hi Nicoftime Yes 30 years is a long time but there is always new things to learn and I am always eager to learn. Yes my submissive is taking some time to adjust to the fact that it is permenant. I bought an Evotion chastity device which I think is amazing and needs to be on show constantly therefore I made the decision that it was to be permenant which gives me a great feeling of satisfaction and dominance. It will take time but he is slowly coming round to my way of thinking. Regards Madame S
I love my Madam, it is very hard but I will try to be the best of what ever you demand. All my love always and for ever. Your Maid Diane
Just out of curiosity, since our definitions here are as varied as the cages, do you mean permanent as in chastity will forever part of his life, or permanent as in he will never orgasm again. We have a permanent as in I will always be locked unless she removes it kind of permanent.
Hi Permanent to me is both chastity for life and never organising again. Hope this clarifies it for you. Madame S
Wow, that’s quite an undertaking, it’s always fun to hear how the other half lives. Good luck to u both.
Hi Thank you I am enjoying the site and love speaking to like minded people. You are indeed correct he is well secure and the only way now is forward. He has always been submissive but I think now the realisation has hit him hard and is taking time to adjust. I have no problems with what I am doing and actually am quite smug at the way things have worked out. You are spot on with your comments. Madame S
Hi Nicoftime and Penny It has been a work in progress for the 30 years Not really a vet but a very happy dominatrix. My submissive always wondered about chastity and I have used it for punishment over the years. I now am confident enough to make it permenant. Thank you for your warm hearted welcome. MADAME S
Madam S, I love you and I am intoxicated by your dominance, but as we have discussed and you have stated on here I am struggling with the chastity being permanent and never being allowed to orgasm again. Love you. Diane
Wow, welcome to the mansion, Madam S. That's quite an introduction. Permanent is a fascinating thought but the reality can only be very different to the fantasy! I hope Maid Diane is able to come to terms with your desires and you continue to enjoy the incredible connection that you must already enjoy to have reached this stage!
Hi Maid Diane is struggling to come to terms with this but we are working at it together and yes I am totally enjoying it. Madame S
I thought and hoped so. You may want a few more 'tighteners' to make things as wriggle-proof as possible. If so HTD. Otherwise I'd say you're home and dry. What matters now is what you want for yourself now you have all the leverage to get it, So Go for it!! LOL!
Easy done if you have the levers. Once you've got him by the balls the sky's the limit. He then does as he is told. Or ( - )