Married with children: Chastity Edition

But I do get it as its the super sensitive spot. Not at all into pa tho. Not even a little bit.

 

So last week was that time of the month, which resulted in some release time for me for wicked teasing and using the masturbator. It was very intense and resulted in some really squishy feelings. LadyS even offered me an orgasm if I wanted to go to the bathroom and crank one out which I turned down (whaaaat?!). It's been a good while since my last real orgasm and I'm feeling pretry great. SUn is out, so I'm sure that's helping.

Things, I think, are really starting to settle down as I'm fully used to wearing my cage 24/7 and am just going with the flow. My love and adoration for her are, as always, thru the roof. I'm not saying I don't have my asshole moments, but I feel like as a whole we are in a pretty great place.

She brought up a guy she's been eyeing in town yesterday. Seems she's really taken to the thought of having some extramarital fun. I'm still deep in thought about anything actually ever going down as obviously there are a lot of dangers (evidenced by all the warnings from our lovely members!). Anyways, it gets me straining in my cage to think about! Slow going is the name of the game for that one...

Still doing lots of research on piercings. No big rush on that either. Definitely set on the frenum as the only option so it's just a matter of determining if it's really a viable tool for chastity (migration etc). And truthfully I haven't even brought it up to @LadyS yet since I hadn't thought about it for real until just recently. Maybe she will say no, which would put a stop to it right away...

That's all for now.

 

Man I suck at this journal thing. Too busy living it to write it I guess.

Where to start? I don't even know...
The last month has been wild around here for sure with ups and downs; some sad moments and some soul touching beautiful shit. Our relationship and kinky life is evolving evermore, and we find ourselves jumping into new things all over the place. I'll try to recount as best I can the things that stick out in my mind.

Had quite the weekend near the beginning of the month somewhere where we were very connected and I felt especially submissive to her. I can't even really put it into words how much love I felt for her. And I don't even think it had anything to do with being locked up other than stopping the feelings from advancing to sex quickly (maybe that's more of a factor than I know...).
Anyways I'm sure there was a lot of kissing and other sexy stuff, but what mostly sticks out in my mind is: we had somehow got onto learning about collars for subs on fetlife and I just knew that it was something that she would be into it so I asked her as lovingly as I could muster if she would. She said yes and I've been wearing a training collar often since with hopes of a more permanent one down the road. I don't really see it as a master/slave thing, but more of a symbol of how fucking much I am and have always been hers.

Sometime after that I completely blew 2 of my 18 yearly orgasms in idiotic ways. Down to 12.
Enough of that.

Also I was a total asshole a few times in there somewhere. I try hard but fail often.

We have been talking about a piercing for awhile now and I think its going to happen here pretty quick. I would love to get out of the ring and it's pretty sexy, no? Will update when something happens.

And finally, over the last bit we've both kind of gotten into the idea of bondage. I would definitely be into either side of the equation and since I'm the one with the locked penis and she's claustrophobic looks like I'm to be the guinea pig. We've been looking at shibari stuff online and it looks hot as hell.... LadyS is actually in the other room practicing knots so I should get in there!

 

Today was piercing day. Rewind first a few days....

Mistress was kind to me by letting me out for a few days to make sure I was in top physical shape down there before the piercing, so many shenanigans ensued. Lots of sex (no orgasms for me of course). Until she pulled out the rope and tied me up for a bunch of (torture) which included tickling. I know for bondage that might not be where you think it would go, but it was intense for a first time being completely bound. I'm sure things will get more serious as we learn. I did have a ruined orgasm at the end and the chance to keep it from lowering my yearly number, if only I scored a goal during my next hockey game. I tried everything I could that night, but sometimes that little black disc is against you. Down to 11.

I was also allowed one full free orgasm before my piercing which was achieved by rubbing up against her legs. Can't say I've ever cum from dry humping before! Not even as a teen. Makes me chuckle.

This morning I was all nerves; moreso than I'd anticipated. A hole through your dick!? Crazy! Midlife crisis at 33? Where's my Porsche?!
I was all jittery and queasy thinking about it as I'm horrible with needles (ironic because I can give them all day long covered in blood and all manner of other fluids). I have passed out cold in the tattooist's chair, and I knew this would be worse. I persevered with comforting from LadyS and off we went to the shop. I parked the car and promptly told S that I had changed my mind and we were going home. She didn't believe me for a second.
Once inside we were greeted by a young woman at the front desk who asked what I was getting and had me fill out the standard waivers. Then the wait was on. Maybe half an hour later the piercer came out to grab us and we went in. I whipped my pants off and lay on the table (freaking the hell out), told her I am planning on gauging up quite a bit, and tried to stay as calm as I could (wasn't at all).
I liken the procedure to what it must be like being shot in the face. POW! Then that's it. I believe I yelled out half to three quarters of "Cocksucker!" And it was over. Both my wife and the (female) piercer had a good giggle. I felt a little dizzy for a bit but was otherwise unaffected. Oh, 8 gauge PA.

I've been about the house all day with a little discomfort here n there, but not too bad. A little bleeding too. Now for the healing wait

Hey @Catbond I didn't cry.

 

Well that sure changed. Thanks to those who helped me sack up and just do it.

 

Good luck to ya. I do like the look of the frenum too, but the overall ease of use of the pa and sexual benefits outweighed.

 

Dude steelwerks princes collar is probably the most beautiful (and functional!) device I've ever seen. Have to sell one of my nuts to get it though.

 

Yeah I figured it out

 

Thought I'd make an update even though it's been pretty uneventful around here.

Tough times with the new pa. I thought I'd die every time I went pee for the first 8 days or so; it was like trying to push out razor blades. It has definitely settled down now and I basically have zero discomfort although I'm sure I guard it subconsciously. Hopefully get to take it for a test run of any kind if LadyS wishes at some point (obviously no piv!).
Add to my pain the fact that LadyS has been dealing with the mother of all sicknesses for at least 3 weeks (it has been the worst cold and flu season in memory here) and it's easy to guess that there hasn't been much playtime around here. Hopefully now that we are both coming around we can get back to where we were.
Ok, back to watching playoff hockey!

 

Couple months! Best sport on earth with the hardest championship to win!

 

France sucks

 

Half make it.