Mother in law ?
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In terms of my submissiveness and my role, she does engage with me on that. She stays with us for weeks at a time (guest bedroom) and I make her bed, wash her clothes (yes, panties), run her errands, she orders me around, all that.
Sexually? No. (not much sex there anyway)
Intimate hygenie (cage change)? I confess, yes, as a fantasy. But it would give me an erection and that would ruin my no-ejaculation streak!
I do like her being my boss though, and we do have fun with that...
Would your wife like her mother to be involved with you sexually and your cage changes? Have you had that discussion?
I certainly used to have fantasies of my mother being involved, which my wife encouraged and recorded on cassette tape. She’d then say things like “your mother found the latest tape very interesting”; I assume this was just gaslighting but at the time I couldn’t be sure, and this, together with my mother smirking and calling me by my slave name, made me extremely uncomfortable and embarrassed when she visited us.
We have not had that discussion (we do have lots of open-minded discussions).
My MiL is a domineering hypercritical self-centered bitch who hates me and won't even listen to her own daughter.
OMG, you just gave me a nightmare!
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Hey, you know what? I'll ask my wife/domme. I get one question at our Monthly Review that She is committed to answering honestly and directly. That will be the 29th or 5th, not set yet.
And then I'll report back here.
(My MiL is old-old, pegging me might just be too much for her
)Please don’t do it on my account.Hey, you know what? I'll ask my wife/domme. I get one question at our Monthly Review that She is committed to answering honestly and directly. That will be the 29th or 5th, not set yet.
And then I'll report back here.
(My MiL is old-old, pegging me might just be too much for her
I'd have loved for my MIL call me into her room and find her holding a riding crop.
Not my MIL, but my stepdaughter. She knows without being told. For example, we are watching a movie and my wife tells me to make Step Daughter a drink. Simple stuff like that. The daughter is getting married, and the wife wants to teach her about FLR.
To my knowledge, my wife has not disclosed to her mom that we are in a FLR. However, I think it is pretty clear by our actions and things that are said, that my wife leads and I follow. It has come up in discussions with my in-laws that I clean the house and bathrooms, put gas in her car for her, etc. My mother-in-law has commented a few times at how nice it is that I do those things and often times she asks me to do things for her. Once she even commented at how she likes that she tells me things to do and I just do them without question. Some of this is probably just normal talk, but I do believe my mother-in-law understands there is a bit of a domme/sub dynamic in our marriage.
Mothers and daughters rarely hold anything from each other, so your mother-in-law almost certainly knows.
My wife's sister and her friend at work both know. I would love for her mom to find out, or even surprise us with a visit while I'm in "lady mode". She would probably have a heart attack... But the idea of my wife telling her mom "Oh, he isn't watching porn or jerking it, I took care of that!" would be interesting to say the least. It would be more of a "Well that's good" and end of that topic.
My mother and mil don’t know. My adult stepdaughter knows about my chastity, cross dressing, diapers, and being sub. She has helped me pick panties before at stores
Other people do know And My Lady's mother knows. My Lady and I were using Skype and she accidently saw me nakedand saw the cage. She asked my Lady what it was. My Lady told her she would explain. She did not, what she did was have me explain the next day.. again using Skype i was seated but she asked to see it again I showed her, she asked my Lady if she had any photos and was shown them. She asked a multitude of questions as to what it was, why I wore it and why her daughter liked me to wear it. I explained it was about sominance control and ownership. She just said thats a lot to think about and handed the Skype call back to my Lady. The next day my Lady told me her mother had asked her like a 1000 questions that evening and had said the same to her ..thats a lot to think about. Then later during that same call her mother dsaid she had more questions. She said she just wanted to strighten things out in her head. we said ok. She said to me so my daughter has the keys you dont and she says when and you get out. I said yes both when and if. She said you have no say in when you take it off. I said no I do not. She said are you good with that. I said very much so. She said so my daughter is in full control and you are good with that. I said yes she has and yes I am as I like her being in control. She said so basically she owns your ass. I said in my view she completely controls me for as long as she chooses to. She said ok thanks and left us. The following day she had asked if she could talk to us both again. She said so my daughter controlls and owns you, you wear that cage and only she has keys. We told her that weas completelt the case and she just said Good. She has scarcely mentioned it since, and she is completely cool with it. Once she has come into her daughters room when we were on skype and seeing it weas me she was talking to .. sort of butted in and asked hows the cage? I said fine thanks and she said good good as she rubbed my Lady's shoulder and said to her good keep it up.. er i mean locked up smiled and left. She has often asked me since if everything is ok whilst staring at my crotch.. i say ok and she always smiles and says good.
She once saw a photo of me with crop marks on my ass and she asked her daughterdid you do those. When my Lady said yes.. she said good for you girl it looks like you have him where you both want him to be... She is right.
She even once said to my Lady that she thinks one of those things might have been a good idea for her and her father to have.
I know I said don’t ask just because I asked, but I’m curious if you did and what the answer was?Hey, you know what? I'll ask my wife/domme. I get one question at our Monthly Review that She is committed to answering honestly and directly. That will be the 29th or 5th, not set yet.
And then I'll report back here.
(My MiL is old-old, pegging me might just be too much for her
Yes, I did ask (during our review meeting).
She said "Yes. And your Mother, too."
Then laughed.
I think she thinks it was just a joke. I hope.
No mention since then and I am not pursuing it.
Although.....my Mom......
....?Ok, thanks for your update.Yes, I did ask (during our review meeting).
She said "Yes. And your Mother, too."
Then laughed.
I think she thinks it was just a joke. I hope.
No mention since then and I am not pursuing it.
Although.....my Mom......
I would ' have loved for my mother in law to find me to be a submissive. She was a tall thin, large boned, no nonsense German woman and I'd have loved to kneel and lick the bottom of her boots.
Well yeah, in the same way that any mother might approve of the way their daughter in law is towards her son, without that meaning she’s going to get physically involved… being related. The fact it’s BDSM is no different in principle and she always did enjoy demeaning me verbally. She had generally low regard for males, was pleased I was being “dealt with”, enjoyed seeing me ordered around and discussing my discipline - but nothing sexual!
The kinkiest it got was my wife giving me corner time when my mum visited and stuff like that. But I wouldn’t be naked or anything! And she knew about the chastity but didn’t discuss the physical mechanics of it. There was lots of euphemism.
Not the physical details of it, no. My mother liked the fact that I was kept locked up and denied sexual release, just as she approved of me being thrashed. But she wouldn’t have wanted to be directly involved, that would have been a pretty major boundary issue, don’t you think? But she was fine about stuff like corner time, verbal humiliation and having me act like a servant. Basically non-sexual things. (I know thrashing isn’t sexual but it involved nudity).