My 46 days without orgasm

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joseeke

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Hello, i have been looking around this site for quite some time already.
And i think the time has come to post my first journey on here.
I am a 23 yo single male and have gained interest in chastity over the last 2 years.
In that period the longest denial period was 3 weeks, which i reached without the help of any chastity device.
I recently bought myself a CB6000 and have been adjusting it to fit in the last couple of weeks, and now i am planning on the biggest test in my life so far.

Since i was raised catholic i was always intrigued by the Lent period. So i have decided to deny my orgasms during that period.
I will be having my last orgasm on Tuesday. and then the lent starts on Wednesday (17 February).
I hope i can refrain from orgasms until Easter day which is on the 4th of April. So that makes the chastity period of 46 days.
During that period i will be allowing myself a ruined orgasms on Sundays to maintain my prostate health.

During my lent period i will be wearing my CB6000 on and off. Mostly on during the nights to prevent myself from rubbing my morning erection against my bedsheets which will make me even more horny.

In this journal i will be trying to post my progress. I hope this will help myself keep the promise i just made.
 
Hello joseeke,

Good luck on your quest as i write this jaimelynn's lock up is on the 44th day. i have only had one monthly cleaning and shaving period for about 20 minutes and a trip to the ER room for a sprained ankle, that period was about 3 hours but, with pain and no pleasure, even after the doctor told us we could leave Mistress locked it back on it the room. As for prostate health, being 23 you might be able to get through 46 days with no problem. The longest lock up i have done was 7 months and 2 weeks without a prostate issue.
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Ok, my 46 days without orgasm started.
I had my last orgasm yesterday, but the fact that i will try to abstain for such a long period makes me already quite horny.
 
Day 4:

Bad week to start the 46 days i had way too much free time, which results in thinking too much on my cock and watch too much porn.
So i have decided to put on my chastity belt that way erections get allot less enjoyable.
 
johnny arizona said:
You need someone else to be holding those keys somehow. Otherwise, you will fail.
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That would indeed help, but since i don't know anyone who i could entrust those keys, i have to do it by myself. Next week i already have much less free time so thing should become less focused on my chastity period.
 
Hang in there the second week is usually a little easier. Of course refraining from the porn during that time might help as well! LOL Best of luck with your goal. I love the fact that you chose Lent to do this fast. Perhaps think of it as a fast and maybe you can make it. I am pulling for you!
 
Day 7:

Thanks for the support xcitex2, last days i was allot more distracted so everything went allot better then the first days.
I also installed some firefox plug-in which restricts my porn watching to 20 minutes a week :Locker:
I am getting used to the fact i go to sleep horny, so 39 days to go :Locker:
 
Day 11:

i removed the CB6k a couple of days ago, my balls couldn't handle the long evening and morning erections anymore, but i am still self denied. I will try to continue without the cb6000 for a couple of days and see how that goes.
In the last few days i experienced the urge to masturbate increase till a point where it got very frustrating, but i held on. Now the urge to masturbate already got allot less, hope i can keep myself busy next week so i can continue this mission.

35 days to go, wish me luck :Locker:

EDIT 28 feb 2010:
Day 12: since masturbation normally helps u to relieve some everyday stress, after 12 days the stress is starting to get really noticeable, i think ill have to do some sport in the next few days (I'm not a real sportive person u know) or something that helps me relieve the stress.
Also i skipped my Sunday ruined orgasm day for the 2nd time because it felt like a bit of cheating and the ruined orgasm would have made me even more frustrated i think.
 
Day 15: Still holding on, yesterday my self control was getting really weak so i had to lock myself back into my chastity belt. Although it's quite easy to get myself unlocked again, but it at least prevents me from the impulsive behavior to touch my cock all the time.

I am almost reaching my previous chastity record which was about 19 days, so everything seems to be going good at the moment. I really hope i can get the 46 days, but i know it is going to be very hard.
 
DAY 16: Couldn't sleep last night so i pulled myself out of my chastity belt (damn that was too easy) i guess the CB6k is not really the right choice for me.
This morning i was soo totaly horny, i couldn't function normally, but still no orgasm for me:Locker:

So i looked for some method to get the hornyness down a bit and i discovered this:

The 6th Tibetan Rite

That's all very good advice above. I have another. It's an energy approach from the Tibetan Rites. First, I'll post how to do the Rite and then comment on why and how it can help with porn addiction. For those not familiar with these Rites, they are a form of exercise similar to yoga which promise better health.

Exercise Proper: Stand

1) Tensing Phase:

a) Stand straight up and slowly let all of the air out of your lungs. As you do this, bend over and put your hands on your knees. Force out the last trace of air, and then, with the lungs empty, return to a straight up posture.

b) Place your hands on your hips, and press down on them. This will push your shoulders up. As you do this, pull in the abdomen as much as possible, and at the same time raise the chest.

Said another way, tense all of your muscles, scrunch up your shoulders, clench your fists and place them on your hips. Claw your feet into the ground. Try to stay like this for a slow count of ten.

c) Hold this position as long as you possibly can if you can't make it to the end. When you are finally forced to take air into your empty lungs, let the air flow in through the nose.

2) Relaxation Phase:

a) When the lungs are full, exhale through the mouth. As you exhale, relax your arms, letting them hang naturally at your sides.

b) Then take several deep breaths through the mouth or nose, allowing them to escape through either the mouth or nose. The object is to completely relax between each of the Tensing Phases.

3) Repeat the rite if needed, but once is usually all you need.

The purpose of this Rite is to relieve a person of being horny. The reason for being horny (this is Mantak Chia's point of view which I have adopted) is that energy has accumulated in the sex organs. Then the more aroused a person gets, the more energy collects there. The energy is released at orgasm---unless you can draw it out of the sex organs in some way. The 6th Rite does this automatically without having to know how to move energy. It's a mechanical approach.
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And it actually helped
 
Access is too easy

I have been following your progress and congratulations so far. I tried similar things in the past sometimes making it and sometimes not. I think you should remain locked once you have found the right fit for your device. You could use timelock if you have it, if you don't I highly recomend it as there are people on the yahoo group that will act as a free keyholder for you.
On the other hand you can always use the postage method and mail the keys to yourself. If your worried about them getting lost post 2 keys in seperate envelopes or send them registered post. At least you definatly can't get out then at least for a few days, then simply repeat the process.
Really hoof you make your goal! The longer the wait the sweeter the prize.
 
pakie20 said:
I have been following your progress and congratulations so far. I tried similar things in the past sometimes making it and sometimes not. I think you should remain locked once you have found the right fit for your device. You could use timelock if you have it, if you don't I highly recomend it as there are people on the yahoo group that will act as a free keyholder for you.
On the other hand you can always use the postage method and mail the keys to yourself. If your worried about them getting lost post 2 keys in seperate envelopes or send them registered post. At least you definatly can't get out then at least for a few days, then simply repeat the process.
Really hoof you make your goal! The longer the wait the sweeter the prize.
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Thanks for the support packie. Without this website i would already have failed this quest. That's why i started this blog, this way i am not only disappointing myself if i fail but i also disappoint everyone who is reading this blog.

About the fact i should find the right fit, i just think the CB6000 is not the right choice for me. I currently use the largest ring with the 2nd smallest spacer. If i try to reduce the ring size my balls just turn too dark-red to be considered safe, and even with the smallest spacer i guess i could pull out. Also i experienced some kind of atrophy of my testicles when i was wearing my CB6000 which made me aware that this could have influence on my fertility. I am only 23 years old and i would like to start a family one day so i want to keep them in perfect condition.

So i will just continue this quest without a chastity device (unless my engineering skills come up with a safe belt which does not involve my testicles ).

Will i make it? i really hope so.
Will it be hard? Oh yes it will be.
Shall i do my best? Definitely
Why am i doing this? Because i did, so live with it.
 
I think you can do it. Particularly if you are able to connect with aspects of your current faith or spirituality. You have my support.
 
sable_twilight said:
I think you can do it. Particularly if you are able to connect with aspects of your current faith or spirituality. You have my support.
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Thanks for the support, it really keeps me going:Locker:

Day 18: Yesterday was a really busy day, it was great to have a day where i didn't think about sex all the time.
Today i had my usual morning frustration (waking up with a hard erection and not allowed to touch it:Locker:) And now i will try to focus on getting some schoolwork done for the rest of the day.
 
day 21:

Wow 3 weeks done and still not a single drop of cum left my penis.
This really breaks my old 3 weeks record in which i had some ruined orgasms.

Last weekend everything went fine, didn't have much trouble with denying myself. But on Sunday evening i watched the movie 40 days and 40 nights and one thing is sure it didn't help me at all.
Yesterday i was one of the hardest days so far. I was tired and horny so the temptation was really great, luckaly i managed to resist my own desires in time.

So almost halfway, Still a tough road ahead for me
 
Since you live in Belgium, maybe you should visit Walter Goethals. He has his studio in St. Antonius-Zoersel, near Antwerp. And he makes comfortable chastity belts! :)
 
Marc_nl said:
Since you live in Belgium, maybe you should visit Walter Goethals. He has his studio in St. Antonius-Zoersel, near Antwerp. And he makes comfortable chastity belts! :)
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Yea, but as a student i cannot afford such expenses. And as i see it now self denial and not using a chastity device is the ultimate test.


DAY 25: WOOT i am over halfway:Locker::Locker:
Last couple of days went quite ok, i had less horny moments then before. But the horny moments where more intense so harder to abstain.
I am really getting used to the getting sleeping without mastrubation but the getting up is still quite hard.


21 days to go, wish me luck
 
joseeke said:
DAY 16: Couldn't sleep last night so i pulled myself out of my chastity belt (damn that was too easy) i guess the CB6k is not really the right choice for me.
This morning i was soo totaly horny, i couldn't function normally, but still no orgasm for me:Locker:

So i looked for some method to get the hornyness down a bit and i discovered this:



And it actually helped
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Interesting, I used to do the other five rights a few years ago and it was really good for general well being. It's supposed to make you age slower if you do it regularly. I never tried the 6th right though as I was not into chastity at the time. I can imagine that it helps though, all that prana needs somewhere to go.. I have actually managed 6 weeks of total self chastity living in an ashram, meditation burns up or redirects a lot of that energy but its a very different experience to chastity, when your thoughts and energy are focused on the denial everything is much more intense.

Good luck on your chastity journey.
 
DAY 27: not much going on last couple of days. Looks like i mentally accepted the no orgasm thing, but instead of my mind my body is protesting now. Blue balls all the way :Locker:
 
DAY 28: I was a bit down today and i couldn't resist the blue balls anymore so i decided to have a ruined orgasm. It took me less then 3 minutes and didn't have more pleasure then the couple of strokes on my cock. And what came dribbling out must have been the biggest load of sperm i have ever seen.

So 18 days to go with not too much down moments
 
Ok, as most already will have noticed i failed on day 30.
I was suffering from a bit of a depressive feeling and could not manage myself to hold out any longer.
Still i am proud of my achievement, since it was the longest time i was ever denied and that only on self control.

After this chastity period i noticed it took about a month to get my libido back to the level it was before the experiment and another month to regain my interests in orgasm denial and chastity. My libido got so low after the experiment i suprised myself a couple of times during that month that i lasted 4-5 days without orgasm without noticing.

I have no idea if more people suffer from such long period where the interest in chastity disappears?
It might be easier for people that have a keyholder that teases them once and a while to keep the libido up.
 
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