New here | Two years into our feminization journey

Now Alexandra

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Hi to all. My name is Alexandra and I am from Massachusetts, USA. Happily married. My wife and I began exploring Female Led Relationships about 2.5 years ago. We both agreed chastity would be great for our marriage, so we clicked the lock in June of 2022. Since then, it’s been a whirlwind with periods of joy, adventure and also uncertainty for me. (She’s obsessed with it. It has brought us even closer, but parts are so hard).

My wife quickly went down the rabbit hole with FLR and the various versions, paths and options. I am incredibly submissive by nature and adore pleasing her. She’s my rock and makes me laugh all the time. She excites me. She’s so smart. Sexy. Dirty.

Feminization was her idea and our last 2 years have been a consistent carrot/stick process with her in charge of the timing and me exercising/moisturizing/shopping/training as fast I can. I could go on and on about this process.

I came here, with my wife’s blessing, because this seems like a genuine community. So much of the groups out there are filled with sissification BS and fantasy. So, it is important to me to be with people who understand submission; its importance to those like us who feel it in our souls, how delirious it can be, how humiliating, sometimes how mundane. And feminization/sissisification; the challenges, uncertainty, joyous triumphs, embarrassing lows and that burning desire to be a good gurl for our chosen love … even on the days we’d prefer the meatball sandwich over the salad but know better than to even consider it.
 
Hello and Welcome to the Mansion and it's community, Enjoy your time here.
It sounds like your well into your journey with your wife, and long may it continue on the right track.
 
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Welcome - sounds exciting!

Why did you decide that chastity was good for your marriage? Did something happen back then? And why the feminization? I am new here as well, trying figure out stuff.
 
Welcome to the neighborhood. I am sure you will find a lot of experiences and perhaps even see some of your self/your relationship in other's stories and journals here.
 
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Welcome - sounds exciting!

Why did you decide that chastity was good for your marriage? Did something happen back then? And why the feminization? I am new here as well, trying figure out stuff.

Nothing happened. We thought it would be fun. She'd have "control," I'd be more attentive, we could explore my submissive side - and she was/is into that in so many ways. It's great. It felt right. Still does in many ways. I love my submission. We have a happy marriage.

The feminization was all her. I didn't expect it. I hadn't considered it. I feel naive now in saying that because I love some of it and have issues with other parts of it. But chastity and submission takes turns - I didn't know it would be like this - and covering all the outcomes isn't possible. Who can say "no" when their wife takes their cage off for the first time in two weeks and tells them the hair around their panties is gross and unacceptable? She's smart and funny and wonderfully diabolical. So I shaved. And shaved some more the next time. It's a slippery slope. Good parts and not so good. I do have a great shoe collection ;)
 
Nothing happened. We thought it would be fun. She'd have "control," I'd be more attentive, we could explore my submissive side - and she was/is into that in so many ways. It's great. It felt right. Still does in many ways. I love my submission. We have a happy marriage.

The feminization was all her. I didn't expect it. I hadn't considered it. I feel naive now in saying that because I love some of it and have issues with other parts of it. But chastity and submission takes turns - I didn't know it would be like this - and covering all the outcomes isn't possible. Who can say "no" when their wife takes their cage off for the first time in two weeks and tells them the hair around their panties is gross and unacceptable? She's smart and funny and wonderfully diabolical. So I shaved. And shaved some more the next time. It's a slippery slope. Good parts and not so good. I do have a great shoe collection ;)
Would like to have such a relation too!
 
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Nice to hear from someone going down the same rabbit hole I am going down. Welcome to the mansion
 
I just wanted to say "thank you" to all of the great people I have met here. I'm obviously still quite new, but I'm very pleased with the community. My wife found CM and asked me to join. She thought it would be good to explore, have access to up-to-date information and feel a sense of community. All of this seems to "fit" with what I've experienced since being here. What she didn't say, but what I believe, is she wanted me to come here for the reasons she said ... and to deepen my submission by being in this environment. She's smart like that. And that's happening too.
 
hello miss, we are a few to have been fully feminized, feel free to chand and exchange your experience and talk lingerie, I am full time a girl now so like some here we love to talk cloths.