My First Day in Chastity – Sharing the Journey
I wanted to keep a public log of my experiences—good and bad—so anyone thinking about chastity, or just starting out, can see what it’s really like and maybe avoid a few bumps along the way.
My wife and I have kicked the idea of chastity around for years. She never hated the concept, but it always felt a little “extreme” to her, so we left it alone. A while back she even browsed an adult shop, saw a cage, and decided it wasn’t for her.
Fast‑forward to last week: she asked me to work on a few personal changes in our marriage. I suggested folding chastity into that effort—something playful for me, something new for us. She agreed to give it a shot, as long as it stayed very “vanilla.” With ChatGPT’s help I wrote a simple, non‑intimidating protocol we could both live with.
Kids roam our house, so I had Amazon deliver the cage to a pickup locker. Yesterday, while we were out running errands, my wife blurted out (in front of the store clerk!), “Is your package here yet?”—clearly more excited than I expected.
That night we fooled around a bit before the first attempt at locking up. I’d bought a nub‑size device—almost certainly too small for a beginner.
Because the fantasy had lived in my head for 20 years, my body decided to celebrate by making any kind of shrinkage impossible. Each time I got the base ring over my balls, the surge of arousal made everything swell right back up. After two painful hours I waved the white flag.
Round two began right after I woke up—bad idea. My balls were tight to my body, nothing would cooperate. Hot shower, deep breaths. Eventually, wrapped in a blanket, I calmed down enough to slip the ring on again. I wore it solo for a couple of hours to desensitize myself, and finally… click. Locked. I’ve now been in for six hours, and—surprisingly—it’s more comfortable locked than it was wearing only the ring.
We’re treating this week as a trial run and will tweak things as we go. I’ll update with any breakthroughs—hopefully they’ll help the next person who’s just trying to get the ring on without turning into the Hulk.
I wanted to keep a public log of my experiences—good and bad—so anyone thinking about chastity, or just starting out, can see what it’s really like and maybe avoid a few bumps along the way.
A Bit of Background
My wife and I have kicked the idea of chastity around for years. She never hated the concept, but it always felt a little “extreme” to her, so we left it alone. A while back she even browsed an adult shop, saw a cage, and decided it wasn’t for her.
Fast‑forward to last week: she asked me to work on a few personal changes in our marriage. I suggested folding chastity into that effort—something playful for me, something new for us. She agreed to give it a shot, as long as it stayed very “vanilla.” With ChatGPT’s help I wrote a simple, non‑intimidating protocol we could both live with.
Ordering the Cage
Kids roam our house, so I had Amazon deliver the cage to a pickup locker. Yesterday, while we were out running errands, my wife blurted out (in front of the store clerk!), “Is your package here yet?”—clearly more excited than I expected.
That night we fooled around a bit before the first attempt at locking up. I’d bought a nub‑size device—almost certainly too small for a beginner.
The First Attempt (a Comedy of Errors)
Because the fantasy had lived in my head for 20 years, my body decided to celebrate by making any kind of shrinkage impossible. Each time I got the base ring over my balls, the surge of arousal made everything swell right back up. After two painful hours I waved the white flag.
Take Two (This Morning)
Round two began right after I woke up—bad idea. My balls were tight to my body, nothing would cooperate. Hot shower, deep breaths. Eventually, wrapped in a blanket, I calmed down enough to slip the ring on again. I wore it solo for a couple of hours to desensitize myself, and finally… click. Locked. I’ve now been in for six hours, and—surprisingly—it’s more comfortable locked than it was wearing only the ring.
Early Reactions
- Me: Once locked, the discomfort disappeared; the mental battle was the bigger hurdle.
- My Wife: She’s been more sexually engaged this weekend than in the last two years—huge win.
- Tonight’s Plan: We had penciled in a release, but given how hard that cage was to fit, we might skip it and see how the full week feels instead.
Takeaways for Fellow Newbies
- Start larger than you think. A nub cage looks discreet, but it’s unforgiving when you’re aroused.
- Mind over matter is real. Expect the first fitting to be mostly psychological.
- Warm showers and patience help. Both loosen things up—literally and figuratively.
- Communicate constantly. Sharing every win and worry with my wife kept us on the same page.
We’re treating this week as a trial run and will tweak things as we go. I’ll update with any breakthroughs—hopefully they’ll help the next person who’s just trying to get the ring on without turning into the Hulk.
