Hello my name is Jake. I'm nearing 40 years old and I'm planning to abstain from sex from now on. I am very curious about the chastity life that's why I registered here so I can explore and do research.
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Welcome.
As always, get a basic cage that matches the length of your cold/flaccid penis (this is *really* important) or slightly shorter. Plastic or 3D printed are best to start, along with breathability being desireable. Once you've found the right ring size, and worn for a bit, then and only then consider upgrading.
Also a kSafe/KitchenSafe lockbox or a Lockin L1 is a good enhancement to keep your hands off the key (even if you change your mind).
As always, get a basic cage that matches the length of your cold/flaccid penis (this is *really* important) or slightly shorter. Plastic or 3D printed are best to start, along with breathability being desireable. Once you've found the right ring size, and worn for a bit, then and only then consider upgrading.
Also a kSafe/KitchenSafe lockbox or a Lockin L1 is a good enhancement to keep your hands off the key (even if you change your mind).
I'd suggest Amazon or AliExpress. The latter is much cheaper (assuming you're not in the US).
Shape-wise, something like this is probably fine to start with.
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Some 3D printed cages on Amazon and AliExpress produce skin irritation. I can't speak for whether this one is or not.
I have a set of these ones (clear) and I know they are skin safe and very comfortable.
www.aliexpress.com
Shape-wise, something like this is probably fine to start with.
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Some 3D printed cages on Amazon and AliExpress produce skin irritation. I can't speak for whether this one is or not.
I have a set of these ones (clear) and I know they are skin safe and very comfortable.
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I also have sets of these ones and can confirm they are skin-safe. The latter was a little tight where the cage joins the ring and it needed a short soak in hot water to allow the plastic to loosen up and now it's perfect.
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Hi @JaCobOnTheCorn69 nice to meet you. Is there any reason for your want to abstain?
PornAddict103
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Hi Jake, welcome to the Mansion. Are you seeking celibacy or are you trying to start a kinky sex game with yourself? You can be honest, as there are good people here who will gladly help you once they understand your purpose of going into chastity.
Thanks! I’m already learning a lot just browsing hereHello, welcome and have fun
Yeah, it’s a mix of things. Lifestyle shift, I guess. Just want more discipline. Maybe somewhere in between? I’m leaning toward celibacy but curious how people make this lifestyle fulfilling too.
PornAddict103
I help others make Solo Chastity Fun & Thrilling!
Well, for me I started chastity as a means of self-control, but it's since turned into a fun (and very frustrating) sex game for me and I'm having the time of my life with it.
