Our story from today

Day 11, 12 days since last orgasm ,pretty much continuously locked, i think im calming or to better put it ive accepted it also comfort wise im settled in. Still frustrating i have zero chance of escape, wiggle or pullout.

The urge just to touch kiss and lick is unbelievable, craving for an erection is huge i think ive resided to the fact that I might not have a real cum in a while as things may be taking a more serious note.

The poll ended and it was a resounding response to delete the option to archive and be out in 7 days even my wife voted! I haven't touched it yet.
Get it deleted and fully submit to your wife, it takes on a whole new dimension when you cant unlock even if you want to 👍

I also find it takes 2-4 days to get fully used to the belt again even after a brief say 24h unlock. The forced lack of erections is very frustrating and mostly overlooked on here its usually all about cumming but it is indeed very frustrating as you start to crave an unrestricted boner.
 
Day 12 , 13 days since last orgasm

With another 14 days minimum on the clock ive settled in, release no earlier than the 9th october. Im hoping the time doesn't go further than that, also we spoke about the minimum unlock date being changed and her words were "its not your choice" The archive lock feature is currently an option, not deleted it yet so in theory I could cut remaining time in half.

Hoping that the days just fly by which im sure they will, I think things are happening behind the scenes but im oblivious.

Calming down slightly, leaking slowed and i think my body has given up/not wound up enough ive been having a huge attempted erection in the morning and then it swells the odd occasion but nothing major until the next morning. Im sure things will change as the week progresses. Now friends with coconut moisturiser again, no rubbing or anything just makes the day smoother!

Found that if i loosen the nut on the belt at bath time that gives a slight wiggle room to get my fingers in and has a better clean still not ambitious or enough space to pull out im guessing the locking nut/upgraded locking plate eradicates this?.
 
Day 13 14 days since last orgasm,

The mood swings.

After an absolute hard slog of a day, and by hard slog I mean fucking terrible, lots of lifting climbing and general awkwardness which most people would say fuck that to (belt caused no issues), i just feel like I could have done without it, maybe its because ive been in a while and things have died down due to us being busy but jesus definitely could have done with being out. Probably just that point.

1st week horny and desperate.
2nd week ive got this.
3rd week fuck im fed up now.


I think im very much a person who likes date to work towards or events etc more than a couple of days of nothingness and maybe I just think "why" which would probably explain why we pick it up and drop it off when we hit a busy period, i know some people will say its just how it is but seriously....do you do office work or a driving job or something?

Suppose its the balance of sacrifice vs fun dynamic if thats the right phrasing.

Onwards and upward either way ive missed the boat on being out in 7 days but the archive lock feature is looking tempting at this stage.
 
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An additional to the above post, example on my mentality.

Wear a cage- ok a few weeks later- why the fuck am i doing this im done

Option 2
Wear a cage- ok
Now your wearing it because of this -ok
Work towards this these are the consequences-ok
Consequences good or bad-ok I need to improve let's keep going

It needs to be a constantly improving and moving dynamic, dates and events to loook forward too if not it becomes stale and resent builds

I may mark this as a doom and gloom post
 
Woke up feeling better, probably just down to tiredness yesterday, bit lost in the session as I have nonidea how long things will be and with no time limit on it.

I keep getting frozen for 12 hrs plus
Random events keeps adding and removing time
I keep hitting pillory or plus 6 hrs.

I just feel like its gonna be a really long one, today marks 2 weeks in. That's nearly our longest lockup and ive got another 13 days minimum before I can even attempt an unlock.

Really tempted to push the archive button.
 
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Woke up feeling better, probably just down to tiredness yesterday, bit lost in the session as I have nonidea how long things will be and with no time limit on it.

I keep getting frozen for 12 hrs plus
Random events keeps adding and removing time
I keep hitting pillory or plus 6 hrs.

I just feel like its gonna be a really long one, today marks 2 weeks in. That's nearly our longest lockup and ive got another 13 days minimum before I can even attempt an unlock.

Really tempted to push the archive button.
Delete that bloody archive lol

Submit you know you want to
 
Cum like a bitch.

Well i did but well get to that, evening came around was feeling down a little about the whole situation had a bath and that perked me up kids to bed and the previous night she mentioned the cupboard....

I went out for a cigarette left my phone unattended, archive lock recovery deleted... she went upstairs i thought I had best get in, 25 min on the clock and cuffed, verbal teasing, all i wanted to do was kiss her she put the clamps on and continued to tease me. Timer buzzed she came over and reset it instantly! She said "thats hardly enough" Fuck another 25 min. At this point i said i really want to cum, she was playing with the clamps and it was heaven, I bet after long enough I could have just from that.

Nipples becoming sore, she went and grabbed the wand ,
do you want to cum? If you make a mess you clean it up?
I really didnt fancy that so said i dont want to cum, (in reality its probably a soft limit i dont fancy it but most things go if its pushed)
She grabbed the penis gag put that on me tight and fired up the wand, moving it round teasing, adjusting power until she found the spot, pulling the clamps saying "ride it" i was horny really wanted to cum.

I dont want to i said as muffled as I could you make me eat it,
"I'm not into that but the domme will. Now cum cum like a bitch" she replied

And boom i did, felt good but dissapointing at the same time its really not the same in the cage but I will take what I can get.

She started playing with my nipples again fuck after cumming they really hurt.
"You say you want this but you make noises like a bitch, i dont think you do"

Well i do love the bondadge, I do enjoy some pain and lots of nipple play but im not a fan of pain pain, probably similar to the whipping ages ago, simple pain doesn't do anything for me. But I suppose it has its place when used correctly.

We cleaned up and went straight to bed, i slept like a baby, no early wakeup just slept and it was much needed I think.

No idea where things will continue to go from here but ive still got a minimum of 12 days in feels like im over the current halfway point. In other news I think she is making enquiries about domme lessons....
She amazing looking, has the attitude after a few drinks and i thinking discovering that the verbal teases are a big part so see where that goes. I dont think im going anywhere
 
LOL god i know those feelings. That moment you have always begged for the advice you have given to a reluctant keyholder about ignoring your pleas and how you long to be forced into doing this and that even if you are begging for the opposite...........that is until it happens and they continue after you have had enough.
The exquisite playful tweaks of the nipples that felt so sexy are now the most painful thing in the world, that threat after a forced stunted cum inside the cage of further use of a wand and pegging until you cum at least three more times is an absolute terror thought. The binds that were tight and the hood and gag that were keeping you trapped and silent now become instruments of real torture and all the while the person holding the power is telling themselves this is what he wants! he is loving all this and wants much more.

We are strange creatures no wonder they call it kink!
 
LOL god i know those feelings. That moment you have always begged for the advice you have given to a reluctant keyholder about ignoring your pleas and how you long to be forced into doing this and that even if you are begging for the opposite...........that is until it happens and they continue after you have had enough.
The exquisite playful tweaks of the nipples that felt so sexy are now the most painful thing in the world, that threat after a forced stunted cum inside the cage of further use of a wand and pegging until you cum at least three more times is an absolute terror thought. The binds that were tight and the hood and gag that were keeping you trapped and silent now become instruments of real torture and all the while the person holding the power is telling themselves this is what he wants! he is loving all this and wants much more.

We are strange creatures no wonder they call it kink!
I vaguely remember being made to cum multiple times ages ago and can agree that isn't fun lol
 
Another day ticks by, dangerously close to locktober and even though i had a spunk yesterday I can feel the horniness building.

Usually after we have sex im 3 days before I get horny again, seems caged its a short period of relief and the next day boom back to horny probably because it no way near feels the same and still craving an erection.

Chaster session seems really one sided with the random events, i spend at least 12 hours a day frozen and god knows what the random events is adding time wise in between.

With the archive recovery deleted i would say im pretty much stuffed.....or locked as it were. Yesterday I sent her some pictures of the upgraded locking nut possibly a Christmas gift thats if im even out by then im sure I will be as that would be one hell of a stint!

Kinda craving some butt play...no idea why but an expanding buttplug sounds really tempting may have had a look gjis morning, although she would probably have a few too many pumps if im bound with that in my butt. One comment that stood out from the other nights bondadge was when she said "its a good job your facing towards me and not the other way round" not sure if this translates to i want a whip or a cane lol
 
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Usually after we have sex im 3 days before I get horny again, seems caged its a short period of relief and the next day boom back to horny probably because it no way near feels the same and still craving an erection.

I have also noticed this recently after longer lockups or is it consecutive longer lockups that cause it, im not sure. It almost feels like you start to build up an orgasm deficiency, and when you are actually allowed one you get some relief but over all you still feel deficient and behind where your body wants to be.

When our regime was more relaxed after a 2 week session I would get to cum and like you I would be satisfied for 3 days to a week this is def not the case for me now, im usually climbing the walls again the next day.
 
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Probably down to the fact that it is certainly a stunted ejaculation of sorts without that sensation of involuntary pumping and thrusting that would usually happen during a regular cum. The feeling afterwards is like you almost got drunk enough to think being sick afterwards was worth it but only had a couple but ended up vomiting anyway! lol
 
Episode 294 the jailbreak.

Everything going smoothly, locked frustrated all the usual, a short drive this morning and I thought oooh that feels different. I then remembered the dreaded 14 day mark last time and im slightly past that.

Last time she locked her box and could release me to check on things when the session ran out etc this time not so much as the time was unknown and no hiygeneopenings.

Once I felt it it became worse, luckily 2 things were today, one she had left her lockbox open still, 2 I had a few hours on my own I vaguely remembered one number of the combination as so begin the scramble..... turns out 27 miniutes later the pop of success but my fingers hurt.

First port of call im having a wank, undid the locks removed the outer cage, removed the tube FUCK!

And again, under the penis another cut/sore, blood and ouchies ...turns out a wank is off the table and a boner would probablyhurt at this point.

I think i may need to downgrade to the smaller cage this is probably caused by rubbing due to too much movement and last time we switched out when I felt something and it sorted the issue and switched back again.

Lesson learned, check or cage swap after maybe 7 to 10 days required.

Currently nursing a sore dick so most likley out for a few days to heal. Luckily this will tide in nicely with the new part arriving from behindbarz. Been free is a little weird ill be honest, feel like I may be in for a telling off but lesson learned 7 to 10 day checkup, small cage in future.
 
And it was all going so swimmingly well................lol That will teach you to get too excited. I have found as well that if there is too much room and things are allowed to swell inside a tad too much i have had a case of either a slight pinch or some form of rubbing until the swelling goes down usually that is all and things go back to normal, i think those who have been locked for a long period of time for enough time that the excitement level of it actually happening wears off enough to stop this sort of thing occurring.
For now you have done the unthinkable and removed the belt and worst of all you have actually cheated the lockbox and for that you deserve to be punished in some form or other otherwise mistress elizabeth will begin to think this is all still just a game. Time for that being turned round inside the cupboard and see what that entails!
 
Yeah I also have this issue with the open tube with additional bars, I don't get it with the enclosed tube. I think the problem is the open tube comes up quite high underneath and because its ridged any movement of the belt makes it rub. Im not too sure what the fix for this is, im going to try bending it flatter/closer to the body next time im in that config or possibly some neoprene tape on the entrance to the tube?
 
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And it was all going so swimmingly well................lol That will teach you to get too excited. I have found as well that if there is too much room and things are allowed to swell inside a tad too much i have had a case of either a slight pinch or some form of rubbing until the swelling goes down usually that is all and things go back to normal, i think those who have been locked for a long period of time for enough time that the excitement level of it actually happening wears off enough to stop this sort of thing occurring.
For now you have done the unthinkable and removed the belt and worst of all you have actually cheated the lockbox and for that you deserve to be punished in some form or other otherwise mistress elizabeth will begin to think this is all still just a game. Time for that being turned round inside the cupboard and see what that entails!
All in the name of injury yes it sucks, and in all fairness the day im having id quite happily take a few hours to switch off it would be much welcomed!
 
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Yeah I also have this issue with the open tube with additional bars, I don't get it with the enclosed tube. I think the problem is the open tube comes up quite high underneath and because its ridged any movement of the belt makes it rub. Im not too sure what the fix for this is, im going to try bending it flatter/closer to the body next time im in that config or possibly some neoprene tape on the entrance to the tube?
Enclosed 2 inch tube ordered ....i may hunt you down and kill you like in taken if this proves correct and im incarcerated for years.

In all seriousness good talk with the wife 7 day checkups once healed and 10 days when enclosed tube arrives overall good outcome with the phrase "this is more involved than I i tended" standing out
 
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Enclosed 2 inch tube ordered ....i may hunt you down and kill you like in taken if this proves correct and im incarcerated for years.

In all seriousness good talk with the wife 7 day checkups once healed and 10 days when enclosed tube arrives overall good outcome with the phrase "this is more involved than I i tended" standing out
I tried a 2" tube at behindbarz and I honestly dont know how people fit in them and I say this as grower on the smaller side. Love to know if that fixes this issue tho
 
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I tried a 2" tube at behindbarz and I honestly dont know how people fit in them and I say this as grower on the smaller side. Love to know if that fixes this issue tho
I'd ususay 3 inch but that gives slightly more room than needed when cold and placid, im a grower, my wife would say otherwise but we're both thinking that bit extra room may be causing the issue alo g with the ridge like you mentioned.

Plan.of action 2 inch tube from now on
Weekly hiygene openings
New enclosed tube 10 day openings with scope to extend if no issues