“Soft Rule” I stopped over at my friend Lisa's house after work last week to watch a movie as Evan was away for a few days on company training. I had nothing kinky or chastity related with me as I had just come from work, but Lisa insisted that I make a little effort to be somewhat a sissy for the evening and dress a little, she even lent me a onesie and some cute socks to change into. (For those that don't know, Lisa and her partner Evan are two kinky friends I play with occasionally when our vanilla lives allow. I was their sissy for an evening a while back which we all enjoyed immensely.) Over some wine Lisa and I chatted about all things kinky when she casually mentioned that since I was unlocked she “expected me to stay soft all night”. I realised then why she had insisted on the onesie, her choice of “feminine” outfit for me. Any erection I got would be immediately obvious and impossible to hide from her. We both shared a laugh at her clever choice “chastity wear”. It did however get us both talking about chastity without a cage, or rather how it would work for us. She said she and Evan had imagined situations where I would be uncaged when I play with them, but they both know how much I love chastity and how they want to keep me chaste even when I’m not wearing one. We threw around ideas of having my hands tied, being bound so I’m unable to touch myself, etc. Until we both came to the most obvious answer, why not have me not allowed to have an erection altogether? We already had a similar rule as part of the sissy night, but that was aided by me wearing a cage on the night. This would be entirely different; uncaged and capable of getting hard but not allowed to just because they both wanted my cock soft instead. It turned out that both of them had already thought of it and wanted to run it past me to see how I felt about trying it. In truth I loved the idea of being forced to stay soft even when I’m perfectly capable of getting an erection, and I said so to Lisa. The idea that my cock was there, uncaged but not needed by either of them is a huge turn on, to both them and I. How it would work would be a mix of trial-and-error and practice. With me “learning” to stay soft on command and seeing where that takes us. As of that night Lisa updated to the rules to include the new “Soft Rule”, which reads; “Sissy will be expected to stay soft when unlocked, unless told otherwise” Thankfully I did pretty well on my first night, the movie distracted me from any racy thoughts. These last few days I’ve been practicing, as Lisa puts it. I have to stay locked for a longer, now almost every night where possible. But instead of staying locked while I eat breakfast and get ready for work I unlock my cage and try my best to stay soft while I shower, get dressed, etc. It’s the same thing again in the evening, when I get home from work. When in my room I’m to stay unlocked and fully soft for half an hour before I put my cage on, that includes chatting on the phone to Lisa and Evan. Its been hit and miss so far, they are both experts at teasing me and getting hard, but they know I’m trying hard (excuse the pun lol). So far I’m loving the new Soft Rule, and can’t help but wonder if anyone else is doing similar? Or what are people’s thoughts on it?