Spooked by going extra-flaccid after blue balls

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After 3-4 test runs of self-locking for most of the day, we decided to try a full day with teasing and all.

(Using this black cage, in small, using the biggest ring: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZ69PVCY and a cheap strap)

It was all going great. Made her come and then we took a nap. Woke up still turned on, and with balls aching.

Later, I went to get us take-out. On the drive, my balls really ached. She had just been teasing me right before I left, so I wasn’t really surprised, but made a note that felt like a long time for continuous blue balls.

After dinner, I took a warm shower. Didn’t seem like anything was off. Balls didn’t exactly ache anymore, just a little uncomfy from their new position in the cage. No discoloration of anything.

About 30 minutes after the shower, I felt my penis retract further into the cage than it had ever before. It stayed this way for another hour.

I started to worry, so I told my KH and tried watching porn for a minute to see if it would respond. It did, but as soon as I stopped and got my mind elsewhere it went back to its super-flaccid state.

I panicked and got permission to remove the cage. Everything seems in working order. No trouble with erections, no bruises or discoloration, never had numbness or tingling.

I don’t think I did any damage, but I’m spooked.

Was that my true flaccid length, and I should size for that? Was the ring too tight and choked out my member, and that’s why my balls ached for so long? Maybe the strap pushed everything into a bad position while I was driving and pinched a nerve. My mind is racing.

I want to dive back in, but I want to be safe.
 
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I haven't had the kind of experience that you describe, but I know that my penis can vary a lot in size. It becomes very visible when wearing a cage, but I suspect it has always happened - I just didn't notice it much before because it just happened, and my underwear does not give the same kind of dick-measurement ability that the cage has.

As long as your penis and scrotum has normal temperature and there is no swelling (edema), pain or loss of sensation, then I think you are safe.
 
Update after doing some normal morning stuff:

I had two moments of incredibly small, barely perceptible “pinching” under my scrotum this morning.

I think I had one genuine problem: my strap was up too high and putting pressure on my balls.

I think the penis size thing was just me worrying over perfectly normal body stuff.

I guess this means I could technically size down if I wanted to.
 
After 3-4 test runs of self-locking for most of the day, we decided to try a full day with teasing and all.

(Using this black cage, in small, using the biggest ring: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZ69PVCY and a cheap strap)

It was all going great. Made her come and then we took a nap. Woke up still turned on, and with balls aching.

Later, I went to get us take-out. On the drive, my balls really ached. She had just been teasing me right before I left, so I wasn’t really surprised, but made a note that felt like a long time for continuous blue balls.

After dinner, I took a warm shower. Didn’t seem like anything was off. Balls didn’t exactly ache anymore, just a little uncomfy from their new position in the cage. No discoloration of anything.

About 30 minutes after the shower, I felt my penis retract further into the cage than it had ever before. It stayed this way for another hour.

I started to worry, so I told my KH and tried watching porn for a minute to see if it would respond. It did, but as soon as I stopped and got my mind elsewhere it went back to its super-flaccid state.

I panicked and got permission to remove the cage. Everything seems in working order. No trouble with erections, no bruises or discoloration, never had numbness or tingling.

I don’t think I did any damage, but I’m spooked.

Was that my true flaccid length, and I should size for that? Was the ring too tight and choked out my member, and that’s why my balls ached for so long? Maybe the strap pushed everything into a bad position while I was driving and pinched a nerve. My mind is racing.

I want to dive back in, but I want to be safe.

What's going on is your cock is adjusting to the cage and this is perfectly normal. It's nothing to be worried about, as long as you're not having any severe pain or extreme discomfort. You can keep going if you want. I myself noticed a real physical change in my own cock after being locked up for more than a year. I think a shrunken cock caused by chastity is a very kinky and it's the mark of a true chaste. So, embrace this instead of concerning over it.