The Wife Files.

That's little hard to do when he has the house to himself becuase we are sleeping as its 1am when he gets home.

 

Haha yea right like that would work.

 

I think if I start enforcing a punishment for masturbating things could be different. But then that has to rely on the hounor system. As him and I both know that's not so easy. That then leads us back to why we are starting chastity.
This morning I got a little upset that he told me that he didn't want me to spank him with anything besides my hand. But I explaind why I had to. I don't want it to be a fun spank. I want it to be a punishment spank and with my tiny hands that's not going to get done. Him not agreeing with me spanking him made me feel terrible.

Befor he went for his nap he said it ok if I give him real spankings.
So we'll see what happens

 

Oooooo,Saturday night Ingave him his first real spanking.
All week he masturbated. Every night he got home from work he would have a shower look at some porn and rub himself. As I stated in the earlier post I'm not that far away.
So on Friday I felt slightly ticked off that he had been doing this and got mad at him for something else. Oh I think it was because he didn't think a real spank was needed. I felt very differently.
I didn't talk about it. I didn't build the anticipation or give him any lead up details. He even asked me about it and I told him he would know when it's time.
We got everyone to bed. Watched some strange show and he asked if he could have a taste of me and I said yes. First of all I was impressed that he asked instead of just take. And I rarely say no to a good pussy kiss.
We eventually made our way off the couch to the bedroom when I told him to assume a spanking position and went to get my wood brush. I put my pants back on and was fully clothed as this was not for fun this was a real punishment. So He didn't need access to my body .

I explained to him he was a filthy masturbator and that he should not be hiding in the bathroom to touch himself.

I don't know how many times I spanked him but I knew his little red bum must of been stinging.
If felt so good to spank him. To make him feel that sting and make him think of me.
I was hot and ready to be pleased. This has clearly turned me on to make make hubby wince with a bit of pain.
So I told him to put on the big dido. He would be staying caged to fuck me tonight as his penis had already received enough attention this week.
Another amazing fuck. He really figured out how to work the big cock.
It must be hard to lay there helplessly while your wife rides a cock about 5 times bigger then you. I always wonder what must be going through his head.
One of my favorite parts of locking him up is having the key jingle around my neck. Everyday I am greatful for this little key.
I ended up using his face to finish.
After a short rest he played with me some more.
And then we just relaxed together we talked about how he should think he is going to get a real O anytime soon. I actually had many mentioned ever. He said that's ok .We talked about when I go away this summer for my best friends bachelorette party. I will be gone for 4 days. This will be my first time in 12 years that I will be leaving with out him or the kids.besides one night I went to the city for a night with my cousin for a concert and it was hell because he was mad at me for going.
I am beyond excited. The plan is for him to be locked while I'm gone.

Sunday was a big day for us ! NO KIDS
We were going to our favorite breakfast restaurant. We own a salt water fish tank and we planned on finding a new fish for the tank. This has always been one of mine and his favorite things to do together since we started reefing.

He had also been asking about a flesh light as a toy for him. He was fed to order it online. But I really felt strongly that nif he wanted a toy he had to physically pick it out... none of this hiding discreetly and getting it. So he had to find a store to go to.
We were also going to get skates for our hockey playing daughters Christmas Present.
So I was so excited for this day.

I had planned on letting him be uncaged. But he would be wearing pantyhose under his jeans.
I picked out my favorite hockey jersey for him to wear.
He's has a really sexy hair cut these days and is looking like a fine dilf in his 30s. I can't lie I admire him often. And let's just say I was looking like one very hot wife.
We ate,went to the fish store where I teased him through this jeans as we looked at fish
Then we made our way to the sex store. Somewhere he had never been. This was a really nice place. I had no problem going in as living this life has boosted my confidence to amazing levels. For me it was about the humiliation of himhaveing to go in and pick this toy out.
The girls was so nice. And we ended up getting the "Rolls Royce" of masturbators.
I made him use it half of the way home. We might of also done a lot of other things you shouldn't do while driving. But it was an amazing day.
Later that evening he asking if I would ruin and orgasm for him and he would clean it up in exchange. I agreed.

 

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Saturday morning.

So hubby and I are about 4 months into our new life. It has deffintaly been full of ups and downs.
A lot of first for both of us . A lot of things that have been done, that I never thought I would do in my life time.
I think in 4months he has had 3full orgasmsand multiple ruined. If I can help it it will only be ruined ones from now on. I would have to be very pleased with him to give him a real one at this point.

I never thought that hitting my husband would turn me on so much. Giving spankings is like turning on a faucet in my lady bits.

For me I can feel myself gaining more self confidence and power everyday. Learning how to take care of my caged man is hard and confusing at times but I love doing it so much.

Our latest conversations have been focused on what he is to call me...
I have told him I want him to return to me as my Queen from now on. But this is only a name he can really get away with when we are not in public.
With some thought I have decided he is to call me by my name from now on.
We have been together for 12 years and since our first month dating he picked up a name for me. He has called me Bean for 12 years.
Even if we are fighting he still calls me bean. It's cute and I love it. But does not fit my new foundDom life.

So now is the training of making it real.
From now on he needs to refer to me as either my Queen or my name.
So far I think he is just advoiding calling me anythgin at all.
Soon the slaps will come out.
Ever time he does not call me by either of my names there will be a slap on the face. He will know why he is getting this slap becuase I will remind him.

Now I have never hit him. Besides the recent spankings.
It makes my hands sweat just thinking of it.
And make me nervous to see how he will react.

I never knew I craved so much power. I only hope he wants to give up this much.

 

Well it's Tuesday. Had a great weekend. Slapped my hubby 5 or 6 times on Sunday and 3times last night.2timeswithin 30 seconds of each other. I'm sure there's a bunch that we missed amongst the busy days we have.
I nervously laugh evey time I do it still and he scrunches his face up and waits. For the sting.
He is to say sorry every time for not calling me by my name and then thanks me for taking the time to teach him to be proper.
After the third slap last night he just stoped calling me anything.
We have had a talk about how thats not acceptable. Also I have decided to all him my pet . So I'm sure you'll see that here and there.
On Saturday night we went out I got all dressed up pretty it was a great time.
He went to a hockey game and scored three goals was the hero of the game. FIrst of all huge turn on. I'm a Canadian girl, being with a sexy hockey player is like top tier man. Lol
So he's at the party talking about how great it was and how happy he was and I let him just go.
We went to the bar after the party and just sat I a corner with our drinks just being together.
We left and got home I was pretty drunk and I'm sure he was felling good too. We don't drink often but we both had enough to have a glow on. We shared some time of hugging and just talking nothing sexual just love ❤️
We weren't even in bed just sat on the bathroom floor smoking .
I cried. I just felt so lucky to have his love and devotion.
Everythign he is belong to me and it's an amazing feeling. It's been twelve and a half years and it's only better than it was before. And I know it's only the tip of the iceberg.
I had shared with him about how I have been hiding my breasts from him. I originally wanted to se how long it would take for him to notice me holding back parts of my body. I hadnt been fully naked in from of him in almost two weeks. He told me he noticed but hadn't Said anything and didn't have any idea it would be over power. It's a control thing I'm trying.
Befor my period, my boobs ache and he can always make them feel better so I let him have a treat.
throwback to his man trip earlier this evening over hockey, I hadn't forgotten.
I wanted to bring him back down to my level and I got up inserted my cock. Pet had to lube it up for me and rub me so I was ready to fuck him.
I was inside his sluty hole within one min. I was shocked and how fast he took it. SO I gave it to him.
I fucked him for what felt like forever. He said it was only 10-15 min. I lean on the 15 min becuase I could of came right away and I made sure to hold out. He was locked the whole time.
One I did finish in his slut hole I layer down told him how good a boy his is cleaned my self up and went to sleep. I think I had something to eat first .
LAST NIGHT
Last night we were cuddling I wasn't feeling good all I wanted was to cuddle. He was snuggled into me. I was fully clothed becuase im expecting my period and that I sweat when I sleep.
So I decided to expose a shoulder to him. And he took it. Eventually I took my one arm out so he had my shoulder and access to my arm pit. I love ❤️ when he kisses and licks my armpit. It just drives me crazy. I ended up. Fully masturbating while he did this. Finger in myself it was amazing . This whole time I was only allowing him this one part of my body.
I ended up getting himto put his fingers in me. He want allowed to touch anything else or see any other part of my body . And when I was ready to come he had to take hos fingers out... that's what happend. I felt so overwhelmed. I couldn't feel my hands. They had pins and needles from all the adrenaline rushin through me. I went on a major power trip and the only way I can describe it was as being a major high.
I felt like I denied hi. So much. And I didn't even feel bad about it.
I had a couple cookies and milk and fell asleep and didn't move until her got up for work

 

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@Mistress Lucy

We are completely different.
I share my very REAL life day to day experience that I have with my husband.
Nothing is fabricated. Not even a little.
I am here becuase I choose to share what I am personally going through and how I choose to fit into my new Dom lifestyle.
In hopes that some women read it and think hey she's a normal,real women.
I never found anything like what I share when I signed up 4 months ago,except from the misstress who started the site. I was only finding stories from men.

Why would you go on saying "oh this site is run by men.. blah blah... " and then go and criticize the women who are here and trying to be a part of it?

You are not a very nice girl. And it seems as though you have no respect for other people and their opinions,choices and how they live out their lifestyle.
I have personally found nothing you offer to the site to be useful. You portray fantasy characters in you fantasy world. So I suppose I could say you are not a real women. And when you do post its over the top non realism about sending people to mines becuase of who the are.