Too horny to sleep!

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I'm on my 3rd week of denial out of 7... I went to bed about 9:30PM and woke up somewhere around 2:30AM because I had to use the bathroom and I couldn't drift off back to sleep. I was laying in bed with my balls feeling full & heavy, so I started to hold them and that aroused me and made me start to swell in my cage. I've been up since and I'm still holding my balls. They really ache, but it's so blissful... I guess I didn't really want to go back to sleep. :D

I'm going to be a horny zombie today. :rolleyes:
 
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Ohh no. I'm on day 17 of 90. This is making me nervous but excited. Yesterday I was super relaxed but after using a penis sleeve for my wife this morning to 2 big cock orgasms I'm almost shaking and being very nice and subby to my wife.
Reading cuckold books doesn't help .

Good luck.
 
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One solution to being too horny to sleep is to get up earlier, avoid day napping, do low intensity exercise, and work on letting your body relax at night. You'll be so tired, you'll sleep through the night even if horny.
 
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I actually went to bed early last night because I was tired from work yesterday, so I’m kind of already doing that… I think what triggered it was I had to get up to pee in the middle of the night. If it weren’t for that, I likely would’ve slept through just fine.
 
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PornAddict103 said:
I actually went to bed early last night because I was tired from work yesterday, so I’m kind of already doing that… I think what triggered it was I had to get up to pee in the middle of the night. If it weren’t for that, I likely would’ve slept through just fine.
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There is also another little well known trick to get to sleep (or go back to sleep). If you get a podcast or audiobook and listen to it at either 2-3x speed or 0.5x speed, it will often send you to sleep quickly. Faster works stunningly well for me, but not slower. Try both and see which works for you. Also if the content is monotone non-fiction (eg listening to economics/history) or some pompus fiction (eg Wodehose/Wilde/Shakesphere) you'll also get the great results.
 
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There is also another little well known trick to get to sleep (or go back to sleep). If you get a podcast or audiobook and listen to it at either 2-3x speed or 0.5x speed, it will often send you to sleep quickly. Faster works stunningly well for me, but not slower. Try both and see which works for you. Also if the content is monotone non-fiction (eg listening to economics/history) or some pompus fiction (eg Wodehose/Wilde/Shakesphere) you'll also get the great results.
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Well, I appreciate the thought but I doubt it’ll work for me… I have ADHD, so me and books never gel’d and little things keep me awake so an audio book is liable to keep me up all night. If you got another idea, then I’m all ears.
 
If balls growing due to being horny wasn't a myth then my balls would be like beachballs.
 
Mr_anonymous said:
Have you tried not endlessly torturing yourself with gummies and porn. Just a thought lol
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Nice thought! :D :+1:

I only took the 2 different flavored packs to see which I like better. I’m saving the rest for “special days” because those gummies ain’t cheap.

As for the porn, I can get bored and lose interest pretty fast if I don’t keep up my “thrill factor”. It’s the ADHD I have. It ain’t cool, but I have my own ways of dealing with it. :cool:
 
Now, I don’t want you all thinking I’m just making excuses, but as I said earlier, if I didn’t have to get up to take a piss in the middle of the night, this might not have happened… Thing is, I don’t remember drinking anything before going to bed, so idk… Your guess is as good as mine on that one.
 
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Well, I appreciate the thought but I doubt it’ll work for me… I have ADHD, so me and books never gel’d and little things keep me awake so an audio book is liable to keep me up all night. If you got another idea, then I’m all ears.
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ADHD is common here and on the kink scene, as are autism, Aspergers and BPD.

The technique still should work great. Just go faster again until you find the right speed that will exhaust you trying to keep up with it. Also ADHDs tend to be hyper interested in some things and completely disinterested in others. That's why it's important not to go for anything too interesting. Again, I find Wodehouse works a treat for me. Kids books like Carroll and Dahl are also quite dreamy and easy to drift off to.
 
JamesD said:
ADHD is common here and on the kink scene, as are autism, Aspergers and BPD.

The technique still should work great. Just go faster again until you find the right speed that will exhaust you trying to keep up with it. Also ADHDs tend to be hyper interested in some things and completely disinterested in others. That's why it's important not to go for anything too interesting. Again, I find Wodehouse works a treat for me.
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Yeah, I hear you on that last part… People tend to say I get obsessed over normal things like hobbies and interests, but I learn far more than the average person in a shorter timeframe as a result of the “obsessiveness”.
 
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ADHD is common here and on the kink scene, as are autism, Aspergers and BPD.
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Quite literally every human is on the spectrum, and a shrink will happily give you some tablets for it.

Anyway, most people say they are ADHD when in reality they are just lazy and can't control their own minds. I blame too much TV, computer games, instant gratification, scrolling social media, beinig an entitled inhabitant of the west, and of course, porn.
 
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JaySaysYes said:
Quite literally every human is on the spectrum, and a shrink will happily give you some tablets for it.

Anyway, most people say they are ADHD when in reality they are just lazy and can't control their own minds. I blame too much TV, computer games, instant gratification, scrolling social media, beinig an entitled inhabitant of the west, and of course, porn.
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Exactly. IMHO while some people are genetically more prone to it, ADHD and anxiety disorders are a result of the mind being understimulated when it is used to being overstimulated. For example a child who grows up on high dopamine, highly interactive and highly energy video games (high stimulation), will find it difficult to sit quietly in a classroom and learn about history (low stimulation). Also, to support this hypothesis, people who have suffered past trauma and/or narcotics abuse, also are much more prone to anxiety related conditions (ADHD, PTSD, depression etc).

IMHO the tough solution is regular dopamine detoxes so the brain gets used to being happy functioning in an environment that's not intensely stimulating. Easier said than done, as even thoughts themselves can be highly stimulating. Hence why mindfulness is helpful.

Human brains really aren't well suited to 2024 internet enabled city living.
 
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You mentioned the high dopamine part, that’s precisely my condition and why I was in a serious jerking rut for most of my life. Also why I can’t get enough T&D regardless if I do it to myself (porn) or from a partner.
 
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You mentioned the high dopamine part, that’s precisely my condition and why I was in a serious jerking rut for most of my life. Also why I can’t get enough T&D regardless if I do it to myself (porn) or from a partner.
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Yes, the typical feel of insufficient dopamine (when you are normally used to high stimulation but not getting it) will be feelings of anxiousness, emptiness and uncomfortable boredom. Sound familiar? Different people deal with this in different ways. Some of these may be masturbation, self-harm, narcotics, alcohol or rumination. None of the above are helpful in the long term. Excitement is not the same as happiness. Hence why dopamine detoxes, country walks, meditation retreats, etc can be better remedies.

So, needing to jerk off all the time, may not be biological but instead related to boredom.
 
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Yes, the typical feel of insufficient dopamine (when you are normally used to high stimulation but not getting it) will be feelings of anxiousness, emptiness and uncomfortable boredom. Sound familiar? Different people deal with this in different ways. Some of these may be masturbation, self-harm, narcotics, alcohol or rumination. None of the above are helpful in the long term. Happieness is not the same as excitement. Hence why dopamine detoxes, country walks, meditation retreats, etc can be better remedies.

So, needing to jerk off all the time, may not be biological but instead boredom.
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That’s more than familiar bro, I was a real party animal from my late teens all the way up to about 40… The covid lockdown made it even worse. I got self-destructive at one point. I quit drinking about 3 years ago because it was way out of hand and threatening my job. It wasn’t until just last year that I decided to do something about my jerking rut. I can’t stop that out of the cage no matter what I try. That’s why I decided to stay chaste from now on.
 
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That’s more than familiar bro, I was a real party animal from my late teens all the way up to about 40… The covid lockdown made it even worse. I got self-destructive at one point. I quit drinking about 3 years ago because it was way out of hand and threatening my job. It wasn’t until just last year that I decided to do something about my jerking rut. I can’t stop that out of the cage no matter what I try. That’s why I decided to stay chaste from now on.
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Sounds like we've had a similar journey. It took me a long time to realise that acting out was about wanting stimulation, whereas what I actually need is happiness.
 
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JamesD said:
Human brains really aren't well suited to 2024 internet enabled city living.
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I highly recommend the book "a hunter gatherers guide to the 21st century" :-)

There's also an enormous amount of laziness going around nowadays, it's a plague. By that, I mean, so many peoplle will reach for their phones instead of experiencing a little bit of boredom. They are too lazy to think for themselves or to entertain themselves.
 
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I got a full night's rest last night... Woke up at my normal time and was feeling horny, but not wild & insanely horny like yesterday morning... That was crazy, but I loved it. :D

I do have a headache though... Ugh... Always something. :rolleyes:
 
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