Trans Mistress looking for curious, submissive types that are seeking something different

Hi all,

I'm Bella, 39-- aspiring trans mistress extraordinaire-- and I'm currently looking to see who is curious enough and sharp enough to adventure with me as I take control of your proverbial wheel.

I'm talking specifically about finding, learning about and unlocking a better version of yourself while simultaneously keeping that sugary bit of little man-candy in your pants locked, as it very well should be.

Real talk-- I love the ladies too-- but in case you had any misgivings about me having a cock ( a pretty big one too ;) I don't have any of the reservations, timid-ness, or lack of a certain perspective that most cis women may potentially struggle with in a D/s type relationship. Please don't misunderstand, there are some incredible, magnificent cis-women mistresses out there, but I seek to carve my own path because I believe that I have a greater ability to relate and adapt to you while you relate and adapt to my needs as I see fit.

Ideally, I would be most interested in mainly the curious and uncaged men who perhaps have been looking for a mistress that can understand their way of thinking and play into that angle as I guide you to appropriate mental spaces that ultimately feel just right.

The thing that probably turns me on the most is the prospect and possibility of molding a curious and thirsty mind to discover all unexplored sides of themselves and then pivot to be their strong-willed guiding anchor once we establish boundaries and rules.

It's my belief that while I'm not into torture per se-- if breaking you down a bit in order to rebuild 'a different, better you' feels appropriate and is part of what you are seeking, then I have a merciless, razor-sharp wit to use as a tool both for and against you.

For the foreseeable future, this will have to be an online-only relationship, and I'm more than capable of understanding and adapting to your own IRL limitations as well.

I'm flexible, almost unnaturally patient, understanding and willing to help you explore yourself while also being a part of a rewarding, sexy, and fun experience as a member of --what I envision will be-- the finest harem of caged sissies this side of the internet.

So.......what are you waiting for?

You know where you can find me!
 
Hello Mistress Bella! You sound like a very unique individual and an absolute pleasure to work with! May I please send you a private message?
 
Hello Miss Bella. May I dm you?
Hi there! You may, and please do us both a favor and put some thought into what you send— if I have to drag it out of you …. It makes me far less inclined to want to provide you with my time that you require.

and rest assured, I do want to help. ;)
 
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The thing that probably turns me on the most is the prospect and possibility of molding a curious and thirsty mind to discover all unexplored sides of themselves and then pivot to be their strong-willed guiding anchor once we establish boundaries and rules.
*Moulding
Let’s not destroy the English language and innocence of the undoctored, innocent penis all in one fell swoop…
 
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*Moulding
Let’s not destroy the English language and innocence of the undoctored, innocent penis all in one fell swoop…

You're absolutely right, and if I could delete this thread I totally would -- but let it stand as a testament that even those that claim to be advocates of wordplay sometimes will neglect the red squiggles to include a hidden extra subtext -- hot wet cocks left unintended = moldy? dank? funkified ?

Nah, I'm just yankin' your chaste chain, IB.

Truth is, you've caught me. I'm actually one of those Amazonian women that had previously committed to your SPH fever-dream adventure/fantasy in South America working deep cover here on CM to keep an eye on you.

You're welcome, BTW...when my cock is larger in diameter than yours is in length, SPH will always be the flavor of the communal peace pipe 'round these parts!
 
Hi all,

I'm Bella, 39-- aspiring trans mistress extraordinaire-- and I'm currently looking to see who is curious enough and sharp enough to adventure with me as I take control of your proverbial wheel.

I'm talking specifically about finding, learning about and unlocking a better version of yourself while simultaneously keeping that sugary bit of little man-candy in your pants locked, as it very well should be.

Real talk-- I love the ladies too-- but in case you had any misgivings about me having a cock ( a pretty big one too ;) I don't have any of the reservations, timid-ness, or lack of a certain perspective that most cis women may potentially struggle with in a D/s type relationship. Please don't misunderstand, there are some incredible, magnificent cis-women mistresses out there, but I seek to carve my own path because I believe that I have a greater ability to relate and adapt to you while you relate and adapt to my needs as I see fit.

Ideally, I would be most interested in mainly the curious and uncaged men who perhaps have been looking for a mistress that can understand their way of thinking and play into that angle as I guide you to appropriate mental spaces that ultimately feel just right.

The thing that probably turns me on the most is the prospect and possibility of molding a curious and thirsty mind to discover all unexplored sides of themselves and then pivot to be their strong-willed guiding anchor once we establish boundaries and rules.

It's my belief that while I'm not into torture per se-- if breaking you down a bit in order to rebuild 'a different, better you' feels appropriate and is part of what you are seeking, then I have a merciless, razor-sharp wit to use as a tool both for and against you.

For the foreseeable future, this will have to be an online-only relationship, and I'm more than capable of understanding and adapting to your own IRL limitations as well.

I'm flexible, almost unnaturally patient, understanding and willing to help you explore yourself while also being a part of a rewarding, sexy, and fun experience as a member of --what I envision will be-- the finest harem of caged sissies this side of the internet.

So.......what are you waiting for?

You know where you can find me!
I’m curious about venturing into this aspect of my life with someone experienced with helping others embrace and mold into my feminine side. I’m ready to embark on my journey.
 
Consider this thread closed, boarded up like the derelict and failed experiment it was always destined to be .

I’ve learned a considerable amount in the last 90 days, about myself and others and I’ve reached an impasse. My purpose is still to help those who need it — I have a big heart and plenty of passion to share— but strictly as a ‘Balls Coach’ .

I’ve received incredible feedback but with precious little to show for it . What I’ve been looking for has obviously not been this.

I am the ephemeral flash in the pan. Blink and it’s over. I’m full of substance but also brain candy that rots your teeth rather quickly . Much like humanity itself — fleeting in the grand scheme of things and ultimately unimpactful. Hard truths being difficult to face doesn’t make them any less true .

if I decide to flush my time and effort and energy down the toilet in the future then maybe I’ll reconsider or re-open my consideration to such an endeavor .

and if anyone is reading this that has considered an online -only mistress? Do yourself and your life a favor and just….Don’t.

Inherently flawed and destined to fail. Don’t fool yourself otherwise. I fooled myself until I cannot any longer. A lot like my life’s journey, actually . hmm. [[Insert soul searching montage here. ]]

My advice? find someone IRL and be happier for it. My belief that you should suck your dreams off to completion still stands. Do that. Enjoy that.

as for me? I’ll be around . Maybe less. Maybe far less. Maybe I’ll hang it all up and say goodbye . Haven’t decided yet .

I would say thanks but for what ?

And if you are reading this and we talk frequently, that part won’t likely change anytime soon. Love ya’ll!
 
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i hope You dont go Miss cos i like reading what You post on here. Lots of Mistress do go tho cos some that was on here dont come on now. and some folks that i writ to for ages have vanish as well.. i think that happen a lot on line. i wud have writ You but i dint want to be a nuisance cos i live with my Mistress and i am ok.
i hope some men on here dint upset You and that You dont vanish.
 
i hope You dont go Miss cos i like reading what You post on here. Lots of Mistress do go tho cos some that was on here dont come on now. and some folks that i writ to for ages have vanish as well.. i think that happen a lot on line. i wud have writ You but i dint want to be a nuisance cos i live with my Mistress and i am ok.
i hope some men on here dint upset You and that You dont vanish.

Jemima, thank you so much for your sweetness , dear.

While i seemed or sounded a bit emotionally charged when I wrote this last night, I'm not 'going' anywhere , I'm just wanting it to be clear to anyone who 'bumps' the thread in the future to realize and know that this Mistress here doesn't see that it would be tenable for me to continue taking on or entertaining new people. I just can't delete the thread so I can at least point to it whenever I get the random lost little puppy sub who doesn't read very well to message me about the original post haha

To be clear, I still have several that I do hold keys for and don't plan on abandoning them or my work with them at all. I just am 'closed for NEW business'

Hehe you all here can't all get rid of me that easily.

And trust me when I say, sticks and stones will break my bones, but subby men will never hurt me. ;)
 
Wtf?! I was just about to ask for something different!!!
My dreams. Shattered.
My heart. Bleeding.

It’s a cruel, cruel thing to dangle that carrot, and pull it away just as I wanted to shove it…
Well, you know.

Anyway, glad you’re sticking around.
 
As a side note to anyone on the fence about biting the bullet and chatting with me, I will have you know that exactly only one individual out of several dozen have picked up on the implied subtext here in my ad.

I’ll throw you all a boner by giving you a hint in riddle form : it totally is but also isn’t at all about slapping a cage around your cock.

o_O

So, I’m curious too, although not expected or required, what could it be? Your move!
Hello, Miss Bella.

I've been drawn by your post on keyholder. Are you interested in another pair of keys?


Tony
 
Hi all,

I'm Bella, 39-- aspiring trans mistress extraordinaire-- and I'm currently looking to see who is curious enough and sharp enough to adventure with me as I take control of your proverbial wheel.

I'm talking specifically about finding, learning about and unlocking a better version of yourself while simultaneously keeping that sugary bit of little man-candy in your pants locked, as it very well should be.

Real talk-- I love the ladies too-- but in case you had any misgivings about me having a cock ( a pretty big one too ;) I don't have any of the reservations, timid-ness, or lack of a certain perspective that most cis women may potentially struggle with in a D/s type relationship. Please don't misunderstand, there are some incredible, magnificent cis-women mistresses out there, but I seek to carve my own path because I believe that I have a greater ability to relate and adapt to you while you relate and adapt to my needs as I see fit.

Ideally, I would be most interested in mainly the curious and uncaged men who perhaps have been looking for a mistress that can understand their way of thinking and play into that angle as I guide you to appropriate mental spaces that ultimately feel just right.

The thing that probably turns me on the most is the prospect and possibility of molding a curious and thirsty mind to discover all unexplored sides of themselves and then pivot to be their strong-willed guiding anchor once we establish boundaries and rules.

It's my belief that while I'm not into torture per se-- if breaking you down a bit in order to rebuild 'a different, better you' feels appropriate and is part of what you are seeking, then I have a merciless, razor-sharp wit to use as a tool both for and against you.

For the foreseeable future, this will have to be an online-only relationship, and I'm more than capable of understanding and adapting to your own IRL limitations as well.

I'm flexible, almost unnaturally patient, understanding and willing to help you explore yourself while also being a part of a rewarding, sexy, and fun experience as a member of --what I envision will be-- the finest harem of caged sissies this side of the internet.

So.......what are you waiting for?

You know where you can find me!
Hello Miss Bella would love to chat at your when you have a very time needless to say I am very interested have a great day
 
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