Urethral insert

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We have a mini-dilemma. Both Miss Daisy and I love the idea of me wearing a cage with urethral insert for special occasions - but neither of us is confident about actually fitting it. I’m terrified of the things in fact. Do I just put on a brave face and fit it - or is there a chance that could go wrong such that we would be better leaving it in the realms of fantasy? Advice (and suggested models?) appreciated!
 
Urethral tubes can be fun but they can also cause problems. Any indwelling catheter or urethral tube can be a route for microbes to enter and infuckt your urethral tract. Such infucktions can become problematic and even life-threatening.
The other week I had a cystoscopy, and the nurse and doctor were ultra-careful to follow sterile procedure. (It wasn't terrible; I was fine. They didn't find anything horrible.)
Since the idea terrifies you (which reaction I won't try to talk you out of; it's yours), I'd recommend keeping it for an informed-consent scene with a safe-and-sane top who knows what they're doing.
 
I get on with mine fine, but at the beginning it was a very unnatural act! Hygiene, hygiene, hygiene of course.
If you search this site you'll find plenty of threads on this subject that will help you decide whether you want to pursue this direction. Plenty of discussion about hygiene/risks of infection in those threads
 
Urethral tubes can be fun but they can also cause problems. Any indwelling catheter or urethral tube can be a route for microbes to enter and infuckt your urethral tract. Such infucktions can become problematic and even life-threatening.
The other week I had a cystoscopy, and the nurse and doctor were ultra-careful to follow sterile procedure. (It wasn't terrible; I was fine. They didn't find anything horrible.)

The cleanliness and sterile way of working like a hospital staff is partly because in a hospital live different bacteria then those you are accustomed to at your home.
UTI and sometimes CAUTI start with minor discomfort, at those signals/stages, go see youre GP asap and tell them what caused it.
UTI: Urinary Tract Infections
CAUTI: Catheter-associated Urinary Tract Infections

Also,with anything urethra biased, with the slightest whimp of pain, STOP and let it rest, if there is ANY blood at all, go see your GP and tell them EXACTLY what caused it/happened.

It makes a HUGE difference how far into your insert actually goes, if its just beyond the head, halfway down your penis, or maybe close to the prostate... btw, when inserting, use sterile lube (endosgel for example) from a new and unopened package.

I know pretty much about inserting "things" into the urethra at this point, as i have to use up to 6 intermittend catheters daily and sometimes have a indwelling cath aswell.
 
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I had one cage with a steel solid urethal insert. I liked the mindfuck of being penetrated inside the bodypart that used to be the penetrator itself.
I hoped it would also help peeing being less messy, but as most of us know it doesn’t work that way.
It was a cheap cage and got quite uncomfortable after a few hours so I got rid of it, but I am still looking for another one because the feel and it gives.
 
I had one cage with a steel solid urethal insert. I liked the mindfuck of being penetrated ….


I had similar the other week. I thanked the nurse after he carefully washed my penis, injected the anesthetic lube, and laid out the sterile cloths. After a while the urologist showed up and I watched as he inserted a flexible tube with a light and a camera in the end. I felt it as it went though my prostate … and felt it more as the water filled my bladder. It wasn't terrible.
 
I had one cage with a steel solid urethal insert. I liked the mindfuck of being penetrated inside the bodypart that used to be the penetrator itself.
I hoped it would also help peeing being less messy, but as most of us know it doesn’t work that way.
It was a cheap cage and got quite uncomfortable after a few hours so I got rid of it, but I am still looking for another one because the feel and it gives.

love your description!
 
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I’m terrified of the things in fact.
What are you afraid of? Infection? Injury?

I don't suggest just putting on a brave face. Instead, you can start training yourself to overcome your fears. That begins with education.

First, forget (just for a while) about combining urethral play with chastity. Educate yourself about urethral sounding. It can be done safely, I've been doing it for years. Never yet had a UTI, and certainly never had an embarrassing discussion with any medic. The keys are good-quality metal sounds, sterile lube (ie individual sachets), good sterilizing procedures, and start with the largest sound that you can take comfortably (probably 8 or 9mm diameter, or 24Fr/27Fr).

Avoid the smallest sounds in the set, you want to be gradually increasing the size to stretch the urethra, and get it more-accustomed to the practice. Make it a regular session, eg once or twice a week.

Any pain, swelling (which is not uncommon when starting out), or indication of bleeding (most-likely a small tear of the urethral meatus) and you stop and give the body a few days to heal.

Do not force the sound into the urethra, its own weight is sufficient. You should not feel any pain, although will feel a slight "pop" as it slides past the meatus.

Lots of the lube is important, you want it as frictionless as possible.

Then, when you have gained confidence that the sky is not falling, you can go back to the idea of combining this with chastity.
 
... but neither of us is confident about actually fitting it. ...

Length:
It's perfectly possible, but best to not penetrate the areas of the prostate and bladder. The main reason being risk of injury from external impact pushing the end of the insert against tissue inside. The other important reason is that the tube can be a conduit for infection from outside, so the deeper it goes, the deeper infections can establish themselves. Normal frequent urine flow is usually pretty good at flushing and potential infections out, so a shorter tube doesn't add much more risk than not using one at all. A good guide is to not have an insert any longer than an inch past the base ring, then the end will stay clear of the prostate. Some use a little plug to close the end of the tube when not urinating, that might help to prevent infections.
If you're using the urethral tube to help prevent pullout, then it does need to at least reach the base ring, otherwise it's ineffective.

Diameter:
The narrowest part, and also the least flexible part, of the urethra is a ring just inside the head of the penis. If something can go past that without hurting, then the rest of the urethra down to the prostate is quite stretchy so you won't cause problems because of too big a diameter further in.
Personally I disagree with deliberately stretching the urethra (but each to their own). You can use different diameter sounds to discover how big a diameter tube you need. Just insert gently an go past the head, the urethra lies very near the lower side of the shaft, Check whether you can easily go past the head or not, no need to go further to start with.
 
Personally I disagree with deliberately stretching the urethra (but each to their own).

That's fine. The important thing is to not go too much smaller . Better to stretch it slightly than risk perforation from a very thin sound. IMO anything smaller than ~8mm/24Fr should be considered "advanced" and isn't something I would do.

I don't think I've ever actually stretched my urethra. My challenge was always about getting past the meatus (the tight ring just behind the opening).
 
I had one cage with a steel solid urethal insert. I liked the mindfuck of being penetrated inside the bodypart that used to be the penetrator itself.
I hoped it would also help peeing being less messy, but as most of us know it doesn’t work that way.
It was a cheap cage and got quite uncomfortable after a few hours so I got rid of it, but I am still looking for another one because the feel and it gives.

Why is it not working out with "less messy"? Is the urethal never closing it completley?
 
Why is it not working out with "less messy"? Is the urethal never closing it completley?

What usually happens with a urethal insert is that the insert itself blocks a lage percentage of the cross section for urine to flow. The urethra and surrounding tissue as you know is very soft, flexible and stretchy, so the pressure of the flow forces the urine to not only go through the middle of the tube, but a large portion also goes around the outside of the tube, between the tube and the urethra. When that outermost flow exits, it hits parts of the end of the cage and the splashing and spraying starts!

You could mitigate some of the outer ring flow by holding back and reducing the pressure as you pee; Possibly, but I wouldn't count on it.
 
What usually happens with a urethal insert is that the insert itself blocks a lage percentage of the cross section for urine to flow. The urethra and surrounding tissue as you know is very soft, flexible and stretchy, so the pressure of the flow forces the urine to not only go through the middle of the tube, but a large portion also goes around the outside of the tube, between the tube and the urethra. When that outermost flow exits, it hits parts of the end of the cage and the splashing and spraying starts!

You could mitigate some of the outer ring flow by holding back and reducing the pressure as you pee; Possibly, but I wouldn't count on it.


Your insert is the wrong size.
 
That's fine. The important thing is to not go too much smaller . Better to stretch it slightly than risk perforation from a very thin sound. IMO anything smaller than ~8mm/24Fr should be considered "advanced" and isn't something I would do.

I don't think I've ever actually stretched my urethra. My challenge was always about getting past the meatus (the tight ring just behind the opening).
That is my issue. I am the first timer with urethral stretching. I have to start at 6 mm because I get the popping issue slow slow slow lots of sterile lube.
You had a great and detailed explanation of the process. Thanks.