Your First Mistress

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Rita Moreno's "Electric Company" director character - Otto. She terrorized Morgan Freeman's cue-card holding character with that riding crop. While problematic now, I thought it was hilarious back in the day that this giant man was so terrified of this tiny woman.

I think this explains a lot about how I view kink now.

An interview with Moreno in which she discusses the character:


Not great video, but the "Prunes" sketch featuring Moreno and Freeman:

 
Good question.

It's kind of hard to say.

I usually just kind of used to tie myself up, and then wait to see which of the girls in the neighborhood would undo me...

As I got older, I had to become more proactive about it... So I would just ask the girls I dated to tie me up... Usually, they did it out of curiosity, but then I would gtt some odd looks.

My girlfriends were always kind of weird anyway .

You'd think they never learned how to tie a knot.
 
No, wait... I take that back... sort of...

If I really had to say, it would have to have been one of my grade school teachers. I don't want to say which one though...

I never did anything illicit with any of my teachers... until maybe college...

Maybe... It depends on what you mean by licit... or illicit...

It wasn't that bad... really...

How can it be that bad when it makes you want to cut your balls off?

Really.
 
Yes, the stand was much simpler than this picture. A leather belt held my head in place of an half circle. Kind of like a medieval wooden stocks. Every time I reached black to try and undo the belt they (my sisters) were there to swat my hand away. I am sure I wasn’t restrained too long. Just seemed like they kept me in there forever. The joys of having older siblings.
 
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Would LOVE to be restrained by the woman in that photo...

Suddenly flashing back to childhood, recalling female cousins who seemed to rather enjoy the power and control
of dominating a hapless animal with a system of ropes, harnesses and other contraptions.

(Makes me wonder if their husbands & boyfriends get to reap the 'benefits' of that upbringing)
 
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Carole Bouquet
"That obscure object of desire"

Whilst not a mistress in the sense of a dominatrix, the character (and this tied pantygirdle scene in particular) was perfection in terms of tease and denial. I'd really hope someone on here watches it on a slow Sunday because it's such a gem

And a later scene with Angela Molina (same character, two actresses...) was also memorable for its delicious evilness

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If you like films featuring denial, then this was peak cinema artistry and profoundly erotic to a teenage me.
Most people have never heard of it because it's subtitled and quite slow even for surrealist art house.
I really wish they would make films like this now, but there probably isn't the writing talent any more, nor an audience unaffected by tiktok

If you want something similar but with a complicated unwilling dominatrix figure, then try "The Duke of Burgundy",
which is really more about the sub's desperation to be dominated.

Audition, a 1999 Japanese horror film, whilst very shocking, is also oddly teasingly erotic. I'm not sure I'd have the stomach to watch it again though
 
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Deserves a mention: Uma Thurman as Poison Ivy in Batman & Robin.
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The movie was awful, but her over-the-top performance definitely makes the highlight reel.
(not to mention her virtually endless wardrobe of eccentric outfits)