What subtle (or not so subtle) signals or phrases will your Domme use in public or in front of friends to let you know you’re out of line?
First it's usually "the look" that mean you know better so start doing better... Sometimes she'll tell others how she wears the pants, then she'll look at me to see if I disagree... I never do...
@MissAmy likes: "is that so" "will you now" That look Depending on the physical situation, a squeeze of my balls. If I order food or drink before her, if I don't immediately acknowledge my mistake, she will sometimes change my order.
Another I just noticed tonight while out with @MissAmy.... You can pick/choose. (in front of waiter when I'm hesitating what I can have / order)
My wife could rip a mountain to shreds with "the look" but used in combination with ignoring me or the silent treatment I know I will have an ass covered in bite marks by the morning.
Do we have looks or anything anymore? I’m in a constant state of suppression. If im out of line at some point there’s not subtlety at the time… I find out later on with the punishments. I’m currently on a 10 orgasm break from pegging just for discussing how horny i am. Love her so much
Yup! Just the Look! I sometimes call it the snakes 'Venomous Look!' And DAMN technology! Text messages...I will get a REALLY? or Someone's in Trouble. Ooooooo I calm down REALLLLLLLLY Fast...but, often wayyyy too late, the damage is done
i know what the look means cos i can tell soon as Mistress come home if She in a good mood or i has to be quiet.
Yes, exactly! Usually when the subject comes up, She not only says She wears the pants, but also has my balls in Her purse! i'm 100% not shitting you right now! LOL! Then i usually will ask if i can borrow them for a little while? Her reply is always something like "yeah, NO I don't think so! But we are very much in love with each other, so it works just fine for us. ; )
My wife/owner had “The Look” as a warning. The tone of voice mean I was going to be punished. My current Dominant is pretty much out of the closet, so she may hit, pinch, pull hair, or just tell me how long of what punishment I just earned.
A backhanded slap to the area. That's exciting. Also when she talks about to other people like she doesn't know what it is. You can feel your heart beating in your chest.
There is nothing subtle when madam chastises me in public, she will openly call me cuck/slave/sub ect, she will scold me like you would a disobedient child or pet. She also likes to dish out a back hand to the balls, a smack on the ass or a slap of the face.
Whenever she starts her line with “ i already told you that..” i would look down and hope the floor would open up and swallow me..
My wife dominates me verbally in front of my mom and my sister. I get red in the face and just smile like a stupid boy as if it's all a joke. I think mom is getting curious of my status in my marriage. She is getting an idea but doesn't say anything yet
As others have said, "the look" is something that sends a shiver down my spine and quickly informs me of my Mistress's displeasure. Always an effective method of non-verbal communication, IMHO.