OPEN LETTER TO MEMBERS

I can understand your motivation, re the use of the pix.
About 12 years ago I worked in the porn industry (no, not in front of the camera). One of the girls who enjoyed performing in front of the camera for us was a university student, who, after graduation, became a secondary school teacher. At that point, she 'retired' from porn. She loved the sex and for her it was a rush to perform for the camera with someone whom she had met only minutes before, but she thought that porn would be incompatible with being a school teacher.
What happened was that the moral minority discovered that she had been a porn performer and hounded her until she became unemployable. They destroyed this girl's life.
The story that we heard was that one of the lemon-sucking frigid bitches of the moral minority found her husband jerking off over a movie on DVD and recognised one of the girls as Miss . . . . . from the school that her child attended. Then began a campaign that involved lobbying the education minister to have her sacked because she was morally unfit; similar approaches to the school principal; and even pickets at the school gate by a small group of Christian loons.
The result of this demonstration of the love and forgiveness of Jesus was that the only way that this poor girl could get money to eat and live somewhere other than a park bench was to work in a brothel.
I doubt that the Christian loons concerned would be intellectually capable of understanding that they had forced someone who had turned away from 'sin' back into 'sin' to survive because they had deprived her of the ability to make a 'legitimate' income.

 

RESPONSE TO OPEN LETTER -or lets say a summarize

I do regret That I did not just make one single alert in here about @Governess Stephanie - saying that something for sure did seem right. It all got rather big yesterday

But 4 things still makes me pretty uncomfortable, and keeps me from severe regrets:

1. the flooding of her message about wanting to give away slaves in 6 different threads plus her profile page within 2o minutes. ( lets just call that a bit unusual - shall we?)

2. The fake photo, which in its self was not a big thing, if not because @Governess Stephanie in a reply to @Mistress B claimed that the photo indeed was of her! ( That was - more than a bit unusual - I would say. Lying about the photo to one of the well known mistresses in here - and so much more damaging to her cause since she actually apparently wanted to address mistresses like @Mistress B with her giveaway)
I HAVE read the above letter from @Governess Stephanie , where she now apologize for lying - that is very good indeed. Somewhat late perhaps, but still... We are on the right track.

3.The fact that all she did yesterday was to swear and stuff of me - and others and not corrected the lying to @Mistress B and everybody else. ( I find that a bit peculiar, to say the least.....)

4. And now the OPEN LETTER , where she tries to pay me back for having pointed fingers at her somewhat suspicious whereabouts, and gather supporters. Well done, - I will leave it to you all to decide for themselves if the so called facts presented in the letter is valid. It is for sure a beautiful story

I do wonder why the photo in the avatar has not been replaced?
It is still one of a well known hardcore porn star from the UK. A somewhat odd choice for someone teaching 5 year old children and being a relief teacher.
Instead we get a long tale on how close the photo is to her appearance. Hopefully not so close that it gives her away;-) Regarding my photo - it is valid, and that can be verified by more than one of the very well-known mistresses in here. They know. See .... that was fact! -Verifiable fact!

I of course I do not demand that members have to reveal their true identity , to be in here. That would be absurd! So all of that in the OPEN LETTER is way out! That was never my point!
So please everybody, hide away! Even I do that behind dark sunglasses... But I do not claim a fake photo to be a photo of me. Just wanted to demonstrate the difference. and the difference in talking about facts that no one can verify, and delivering facts that can be verified.

For all of the above reasons I stand by my writing. I do however regret the amount of space and time used to address it.
The reason for it all to became so big, all came from @Governess Stephanie heavy flooding in numerous threads all at once yesterday morning. I should have had all alerts gathered in one single, stating which threads had been "blessed" by the giveaway offer... But I found - at the time- that perhaps not all members or visitors that saw the post from @Governess Stephanie in other threads would visit the off-you-go thread. Therefore I decided to be just as careful to get the message across as the Governess... even if that lead to me be accused of flooding CM as well. I found - at the time - that my means was justifiable... - and I still do.

Thank good , there are members in here, who know me for being an honest guy, and I also happen to know for a fact that more than one the very well-known mistresses in here happens to know my true identity. Im no fake, and stand by my beliefs.

Yes, we all are to behave. Including me. I could have doe better yesterday;-)

We are Not to lie, not to try exploiting one another.
But we also have to realize that way to often we come across scams and gold diggers in here. The thread Off you go! is a hard piece of evidence for just that.
So of course we have to be on the look out, -in order to help one another.
I appreciate that some did that for me, when I joined, and I am now paying back to the community. Some might even say that I pay too much.

And Yes, sometimes we could be wrong.

We honestly don't know. We often has nothing but circumstances to go by... But If you all look back on the members spotted and pinpointed in the Off-you-go thread, you will find that hardly anyone that has been spotted will do anything but trying to justify themselves with more cover-up lies and a lot of swearing, before they finally disappears...
A rather common , yet counterproductive approach from someone claiming innocence...

A glorious morning and a good day to you all!
BlueEyes

( This is mainly a repost from the off-you go thread.)

 

@BlueEyes I think you need to stop this Now. @Governess Stephanie is not the only person or Mistress on here with a fake photo and your attacks are unwarranted. If you wish to object to this member please do it thorough the correct channels. Otherwise please stop posting.
Thanks
Phil (admin)

 

Sure Phil. I am all done here - and there.
I did not open this thread, but I should have let it pass. I'm Sorry!
Still this is hardly about a fake photo, but..................

I will start packing for the holidays instead!

Sincerly
BlueEyes

 

Live and let live! There are fakes and genuine people on all web sites and it can never be stopped when those participating in those web sites wish to guard against adverse publicity of one description or another. The reasons why someone might want to remain private, as I do, vary but generally speaking it is because we have preferences both sexual and others that are not socially acceptable by the majority or at least on the face of it they are not. I to have an occupation that would make my inner desires, if known, very difficult for me to continue in that profession.

I only wish that I was normal. A sad thing to say many might think but it would make my life much easier. I live a double life. One of professional and social acceptance, a prominent professional person you might say. The other of inner struggle with desires that I have seldom had satisfied as a result of the lack of others who crave the same thing. I am not afraid to say that I am lonely. If someone finds some little relief from that loneliness by pretending to be someone they are not then I am not one to criticise. They may be genuine and they may not. I have found over the years that there are very few ladies with the same desires as me. I have found many over the years that are fakes and very few that are genuine. I appreciate the motivations behind both. My life and that of many others with similar desires is characterised by loneliness, frustration and struggle. Let us here, if anyone can, accept people fake or not.

I can say with certainty that my pictures are of me. That I am what I am. Lonely, pathetic even, but me. Please let us live and let live and let this one and the next one go and use our own intelligence to work out who we want to talk to fake or not.

 

You are not alone. I am in a similar situation. Educated professional (currently working toward a doctorate), very well known, alpha male to the world . . . but in January this year I was introduced to my inner sub by my Mistress. I still do not understand the mindfuck that is involved in being a chastity slave and a pain slut, but I am looking through the published literature on the subject (there is not much).
I am also desperately lonely. I have been all my life. Lonely to the point of crying myself to sleep some nights and contemplating suicide (very seriously) when I was a teen and 20 something because I could not get a date (call me Mr Friend Zone), even though I had prominent job in the media at the time, had a part-time military role and was a martial artist. Not alpha enough, apparently, for the girls who preferred the scumbag bad boys who had no money, no prospects and looked as though their heads should be on wanted posters.
I am much older now. I have not been with a woman for almost 13 years. Even though I am surrounded by people almost every day I am very much alone.
Aside from Mistress (which is a commercial arrangement), the only time that a woman speaks to me is if she wants money, or wants me to protect her from her latest psycho boyfriend after things go pear shaped, or more recently if they need help to research or write a paper for their university course.
Protector, tutor, agony aunt, ATM . . . never the lover. Such is life.

 

Let us not turn this into a depressive zone. I am what I am and others are what they are. I am grateful for the success I have had in life and the women I have known, of which there have been many. Lovely conventional ladies who deserved better than perverted me. Life is good generally speaking and it becomes a fact of life as I suspect that it has for many that one or more aspects of their lives will never be fulfilled. I have accepted mine and now live vicariously through the exploits of others. There is always a positive however small!

 

Privacy is ensured whether I say that the photo in my avatar is actually me or not. In fact, if I say it is me, I would be putting the model who posed for the picture at risk. The only thing that I would accomplish by pretending that the picture is me, is demonstrating a willingness to deceive and a loss of credibility in this forum. I accept that most who post on sex forums are living their sex lives online only. I read their post for entertainment purposes and even to get some sexual stimulation from them, just as I get from any other form of porn. No harm done.

The only ones I would attack are those who prey on men who are desperate to live out their fetish. It is so true that a kink is something that you want to do but a fetish is something you have to do. Not all of us are lucky enough to actually live our fetishes.

 

Just for the record, I don't look like my avatar...

 

Of all the countless billions of images on the Internet why would you choose a picture of an porn star ?

I get uneasy when a new member posts
all over the site especially when they have a lot in common with using the terminology of a pro dom.
All too many have proved to be fake and scammers.
Almost all the profile die within a few days as trade is not forthcoming.

I feel @BlueEyes had good reasons for posti g what he did, if a touch forcfully.

So I will say lets see what happens .

I think the litmus test will be approaching any member and the mention of acredit card wi ll be off limits . So will we see some intersting posts or more vitriol ?

Xx Wendy

 

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Thanks for your support to me and to the cause. We share a real concern that members in here is in danger of being exploited by scammers and gold diggers, - to the misfortune of the members in question, as well as to the mansion.

It is sometimes hard to tackle these scammers because they often play the part as the cruel striking dominatrix, and that combination is bound to round up supporters....

The supporters serves a guards, against the likes of me, and you have to be brave and sometimes bold to fight the scammers off. It is a very clever strategy indeed, and you have to be prepared to suffer and take blows from time to time in your struggle to lead them out the door....

So did I, and in my eager to dismantle that strategy I had to fight more than one battle. I even had to my turns with my own wife...

My wife @DREWife was approached by members who wanted me banned and all, and she was in fact giving in- for a while - still she never doubted my intensions.
But She was not initially happy about my persistence, and threatened me that I would be banned, if I did not behave... Yes , she was under pressure as well...

I'm thrilled to inform you all that this threat of being banned has been lifted, - and @DREWife now expresses her admiration for my persistence, - and she now understands that it can be very stressful to fight back when you are up against an acclaimed mistress and a gathering of mislead supporters...

For that she allows me some space to "operate", - and to stay on the ball. Why all the fuzz if you do not finish the job? She does not believe that it is enough to make a single post in the Off-you thread and then leave all the action to the scammer and the scammers mislead supporters.... If the scammer is flooding the mansion, your have to go out - here -there - everywhere and meet the scammer and supporters eye-to eye. Or you could just as well not do a thing....
Of course I was very persistent, and it was sometimes bolder than needed.
I am sorry for that, but that's about it for sorry.

I treasure the support from all, especially from my wife.
It means the world to me.

XXX
BlueEyes

 

@BlueEyes and @DREWife

I thought you both should know that Governess Stephanie is based in Australia. As she claims. As an admin I can check any login or IP Address...

Geolocation Information
Country:Australia
State/Region:South Australia
City:Adelaide



I think bearing this in mind and my previous warnings to you blue eyes that you should leave this alone now. I wont warn you again, I will pass my concerns to @subklik to take a second opinion as well.
Thanks
Phil