Since my wife played with my ass for the first time using her finger and sending me into previously unknown bliss, we have discussed getting a toy. My question is, should u get a butt plug, or a prostate massager... (or both)? what is your experience with either or both???
I only have experience with a butt plug. It just hurt. No pleasure. I think a butt plug is too short to reach your prostate. They sell specific toys for massaging the prostate.
i would recommend a prostate massager. Most guys are oblivious to the pleasures of their own prostates and what kind of powerful orgasms can be reached by stimulating it. I would suggest you educate yourself at www.aneros.com. There is a wealth of information on their forums about how to acheive the desired results.
Having most of my experience with plugs in general we would recommend the Njoy line of plugs. It is our go to plug and does offer some prostate stimulation during wear and movement. I wear mine for extended periods of time while locked with no problem. They are by far the most comfortable plugs out there and it kind of fits both needs. www.shellystoybox.com/index.php?l=product_detail&p=106
I have used both and prefer the prostate massager. However, the best thing is my Mistress's strap on when she is having sex with me. Of course a penis attached to a skilled practitioner is great also, LOL!
@sonic chaste If your wife is happy to use her finger a massager is not going to be an improvement especially as she gets more practice . If you are going button plug to toys to strapon then its a different sensation. I would just go with her fingers !! Xx Wendy
Personally I prefer prostate massagers over butt plugs. The one I use is this one: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19800 and it works very well, Mistress has successfully milked my prostate with this multiple times and I have managed to do it myself too.
No matter which you choose ... the importance is getting a shape that fits your need ... In general "prostate plugs" are shaped in a fashion that does not lead to the staying put all by them selves (and many butt plugs are this way) ... if you intend to wear it around you will want a shape that has a thin neck compared to the size of the end ... Njoy is a good example of this ... if you don't care if it says put easily then Aneros is good example. In "general" anything considered a g-spot toy is going to also work on your prostate (p-spot) so if you are looking for something for her to massage your prostate with (other than her finger) that would be the first direction to look. I personally love vibration on the prostrate, or to wear a plug like the njoy ... the shape and weight of the njoy is very nice.