My Chastity Story (So Far)

Hello all!

I'm a 24 year old male from South Carolina, and still a bit of a newbie at chastity. I heard about this site earlier today and wanted to check it out.

I first learned about chastity during my late teens, and instantly became fascinated with the idea. Though being a broke college student at the time, I couldn't afford a good quality cage, and I didn't want to go with a cheap knock-off either, after reading countless stories about them splitting/breaking. So I just let that idea be at the time.

Two years ago, I finally managed to get my first device - a CB6K. I was extremely excited about it, and tried it on almost instantly, ready to finally lock myself up and experience the thrills of orgasm denial.... And I hated it...

No matter what I tried, I could not get the CB6K to fit comfortably enough to wear for any duration. I tried different sized rings and spacers. I tried wearing it only during the day to adjust. I tried sleeping in it. I could never get used to it, and was never able to make it even a full twenty four hours before it became unbearable.

After that, I just concluded that chastity was not for me, stuffed the CB6K in a box in my closet, and continued on with my other fetish (panties). However, I could never get the allure of being locked in chastity out of my head, and tried the CB6K a few more times (unsuccessfully) in the year and a half that followed.

Finally, in the Summer of last year, I decided to try again, and bought a stainless steel cage online. The difference to me was night and day - it was much more comfortable, I could wear it for longer periods of time without any pulling or discomfort. Though it was also not very discrete, and created a fairly noticable bulge, forcing me to only be able to wear it on weekends.

Shortly after, I upgraded to the Holy Trainer v2, which I found even more comfortable, easy to wear, and extremely discrete, allowing me to wear it during the weekdays as well without any issue. The longest I've been locked, however, is only four days straight. I find that if I take the cage off for cleaning, I have great difficulty willing myself to put it back on after, despite how much I enjoy the feeling of being locked. But that is something I'm still working on, and I'm slowly but surely working my way towards longer sessions.

Cheers!
Twenty Sides

 

Thank you

There's really not too much to know about me, as I live a fairly boring and consistent life. I'm currently single, having only recently moved to South Carolina from the Midwest and not knowing too many people here yet. I've been working on computers for practically my entire life, and have been working IT jobs since graduating high school. I'm also a bit of an anime nerd, and an amateur photographer.

On the kinkier side of my life, I very much consider myself a submissive, and would always put pleasing a woman above my own pleasure (which is part of the attraction of chastity for me). I also have a huge panty fetish, and enjoy wearing panties, seeing others wear them, sniffing used ones, etc. I occasionally wear other feminine clothes too (bras, stockings, skirts, etc), but those are more of an occasional thing for me, and not really a lifestyle. Finally, I enjoy anal play as well, but don't get to do that nearly as often as I'd like.

 

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I've tried Emlalock a few times. I also had an app on my phone that someone on Fetlife wrote, but I can't find it in the groups anymore. I'm a bit hesitant to do long continuous sessions on Emlalock though, as I've not found a good way to clean while wearing the HT without removing it.