My Locked Boy was Bad...

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    #26 Thatgirl, Feb 13, 2016
    @pokekey I think we both prefer him actually locked up, since before he was locked and we were just talking of chastity, he ALWAYS played with his junk absentmindedly. He was not a masturbation addict by any means, but once in awhile he would go jerk off in the shower while I was in the other room working, or in the middle of the night when I was asleep. This always upset me because 1. I want to be the only one giving him pleasure, not porn and his hand, 2. It makes me feel insecure, like I am not good enough for him when he jerks off and he'd rather look at fake women and/or women that are much hotter than myself and 3. Whenever he did jerk off, he never wanted to have sex that same day because he was already spent which is a HUGE problem because my sex drive dwarves many, many men's! Some of the time I feel a little guilty, because I am taking away a mans most basic of needs, but on the flip side, it makes me feel powerful that he now relies on me alone for his sexual pleasure and relief. I am sure my love has probably read this all...I have explained this to him before, and he understands. I know guys brains work in a much different way than women's when it comes to sex and masturbation, but that's okay. It keeps me turned on knowing he is all locked away just for me and I really, REALLY enjoy teasing him while is is locked. He has also said he is really enjoying this chastity game as well, he likes the teasing and slight pain while attempting to get hard in the cage, he likes that I am controlling and using him to my desire and he loves that this makes me happy! When I am happy, he is happy!
     
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    #27 Thatgirl, Feb 13, 2016
    @joroincharge Yes we got the Crisscross in small and medium for anti-pullout and a spike in small for punishment only.
     
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    #28 ChasteHubby2015, Feb 13, 2016
    Don't feel guilty, you have every right to demand that your man not masturbate to images of other women. There are some women that have been brainwashed unfortunately by the media and today's male dominated society into believing that a boyfriend or husband viewing porn and masturbating and all the negative effects that come along with it is just something they HAVE to accept.

    Thankfully, male chastity is demonstrating to women that they DON'T have to accept it, they have every right to demand better, and men won't die if they go a long time without an orgasm; if anything, it makes them appreciate more and worship their partner. This is something you're not just doing for your benefit, but it's for his own good too even when he doesn't want it at times, and for the benefit and health of your relationship overall.
     
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    #29 chastemaid, Feb 13, 2016
    I luv this thread :)
     
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    #30 Thatgirl, Feb 13, 2016
    @chastehubby This! I love your response. At first we thought it was just going to be a game, but now we see the benefits that chastity has to offer. I have explained to him how i feel about him masturbating (see above) and he gets it - which is why he gave me a key to his cock, lol! Even just a day in the cage makes a nice difference. Our relationship was wonderful and solid before we got into this, and now it has just been enhanced greatly. The feelings sometimes are overwhelming (in a good way!), which feels nice:)
     
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    #31 ChasteHubby2015, Feb 13, 2016
    Kudos to him for recognizing that and turning comtrol over to you and to you for seizing control and being very firm. As good as it is now, it's only going to get better for you both, especially as you start to increase his length of time in chastity. You are well on your way to living like a Goddess. I think you'll love it so much that you will never look and will wonder how you ever lived without it. Hopefully after hearing about all the amazing benefits of male chastity from other women just like you, more and more women will begin to lockup their husbands and boyfriends.
     
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    #32 Thatgirl, Feb 13, 2016
    My problem is that i like PIV sex too much, so it is quite hard for me to keep him locked up. Never thought you'd hear a girl say that, huh? Anyway, I really need to find a suitable substitute until i decide to let my locked boy out:) Amazon, here i come!
     
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    #33 zebra, Feb 13, 2016
    A wand and a dildo works for my wife
     
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    #34 ChasteHubby2015, Feb 13, 2016
    That's okay, my wife likes piv sex too, so I use the Trojan extended pleasure numbing condoms, it pretty much solved that problem. She gets an orgasm and I don't. The benefits of your peace of mind that he isn't masturbating to porn is in itself worth it, but with extended lockups, you'll be in heaven.
     
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    #35 ChasteHubby2015, Feb 13, 2016
    ...and you're correct, there are also lots of realistic strapons to be found on Amazon. The ones that double as a gag for him are awesome. Imagine how frustrating it would be for him to be locked for a week or longer and have to watch you go to town on his face with no hope of orgasm for him.
     
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    #36 pokekey, Feb 14, 2016
    Yes. In theory there is nothing wrong with people in relationships masturbating. In practice I have some discomfort around initiating sex and masturbation lets me not face that. I suspect this is common with other couples because many people report not having as much sex as they want.

    So being locked up forces me to engage with M if I want sex in any way. That makes our sex life better and that makes our relationship better. And that works for me because I like giving up control and she likes being in control.
     
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    #38 NaughtiNatali, Feb 16, 2016
    We always find the longer the boy is locked up the better focused he is. I don't trust compulsions so the honor system is reinforced with a lock :)
     
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    #39 lostandconfused, Feb 16, 2016
    this girl has never cheated
     
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