I would really like to hear from any mistresses and hotwifes out there on things that a slave could say and do to show initiative, praise and admiration to my Wife (Reyna)? I would also like to hear from any slaves, any "techniques" you guy's used to build up your wife/mistress/hotwife. My wife is still new to everything and I want to help build her confidence as FLR wife. Thank you for your constructive feedback. Your help is much appreciated.
The more she reads about male chastity, its benefits, The more blogs and experiences she surfs, her curiosity will increase If she is not submissive by nature, then in all probabilities she will be excited to know that having control of her man is a great experience Once she accepts to keep you locked and observes the change in your behavior, Your chastity life will begin and strengthen with each passing day All you need to do is educate her with this lifestyle All the best!
sadly my wife wont read books or look at a blog -- She puts up with interest being locked but wont hold the key.. so I just wear and self lock for now. I tried to stop wearing but the feeling or urge is just too much. . She know I wear a chastity device ( Holy trainer 2 ) . She says oh your still wearing it. I try to explain the feelings I get . -- I hope some day she will join me
It takes time and she needs to come to her own understanding of the benefits of your chastity to her. You cannot make her feel positive about your chastity. All you can do is become a better, less demanding and more attentive partner. Women like a holistic approach to a relationship so it is also not just about the times you get to be naked together. You help around the house, you sit with her in the evenings, you paint her nails and massage her neck. You spend your time trying to please her non sexually as much as you do sexually. Then, over time, she will see for herself how your denial makes you putty at her fingertips. The slightest touch and you are responsive to her. You start to concentrate on her much more. Not looking at porn makes her more confident that you find her sexy, that you are not masturbating to some unobtainable sexual standard that she could never achieve. It isn't about becoming less of a man. It is about becoming more of a man. Not being scared to do things society has somehow come to see as women's work. Don't ask her to micromanage you as that will annoy most women. Don't wait to be told what to do, find out what she likes and offer to do them. Make her a drink when she gets in from work, offer to massage her feet, talk with her and actually listen to what she says. This is what I did with my Wife and she is becoming a most amazing Mistress. She is happier, more in control, more assertive and more relaxed than ever before. She tells people how good a husband I am and how happy we are together. Most of our friends are happy for us but you can see that some are jealous of what we have. If only they knew how easy it was to get this for themselves.
When you figure it out, let me know, eh? I want the same for my wife/mistress. She is naturally a fairly dominant person so my hope is that one day she'll take my keys and that will be that. It may seem weird to her...in our case, I'm a big, strong man with a very demanding job at which I excel both mentally and physically. I am a natural leader amongst my peers...but I'm trying to convey to her that, despite all of that, I am very submissive sexually...I need her to dominate me. Our life has moved along OK, but some real cracks are beginning to show, and I need her to take over...