Pussy free lifestyle commitment

I'll call it "sex free" or "PIV free" here so as not to offend others. My wife is not bothered by the term the OP used, and that's how she and I refer to it.

In any case, I have only been allowed PIV sex once in the last couple years, on our anniversary, which was over 5 months ago. I was not allowed to be inside my wife for quite some time before that, as I had pledged to her and to more than one online mistress that I would no longer look at, touch, or be inside a women's vagina again, except as allowed by my wife, for instance, to lick her to orgasm. But I think my wife wanted to do it just to remind me what I can never have again and make me long for it more... which absolutely worked. Or maybe she needed to confirm that she wasn't missing out on anything... I remember that event like it was just moments ago. She told me to put on one of my small condoms and then climbed on top of me. She couldn't move much at all because I would fall out, but I thrust my hips the tiny amount I could. She told me she couldn't feel a thing and wasn't even sure it was in. I had to assure her it was, as the feeling was quite intense for me. She laughed and said she hoped I enjoyed it because it would be the last time she ever wasted her time with my inferior penis. And then I came. And that 20-30 seconds will stay engraved in my mind for possibly the rest of my life.

To be clear, she is not sex free. She regularly enjoys her large realistic dildos, as well as my tongue and fingers and her vibrator. And she knows that she could have sex with another man if she wanted. I am not entirely orgasm free either. I rather enjoy masturbating in her presence and/or while licking her feet or her anus. I also love it when I cum in my panties just from pleasing her with the dildo and she laughs at me.

 

Whilst some guys may express a preference to remain free of or forgo the most intimate of personal contact with their wives and partners, surely that is a merely an expressed preference.

I would think that whatever the dynamic of their relationships the ultimate decision on that is not their's to make.

 

I agree and apologize for repeating the OP's phrase in my post. My highest goal in life is to worship my wife's holy vagina and sacred clitoris, and occasional permission to enter her temple literally constitutes an act of worship on my part.

 

I do, as well. It is why our FLR extends outside the bedroom; I love and respect her, and obey, defer and submit to her, and demonstrate that by my commitment to perform household service of some nature every day. The thread, however, was about body parts.

 

As the guy who stirred a bit of a hornet's nest.....I'd ask if you'd refer to your mother's genitalia as a "pussy". Suppose you had to make a doctor's appointment for an elderly mother: "Hi, my mom's pussy is bothering her, can I schedule an appointment to see Dr. Smolnik?"

And let's not kid ourselves, one of the CORE values of male chastity is a high regard for the keyholder--who is overwhelmingly going to be female. Kudos to our moderator/site owner for gently keeping the site's focus centered on a core value.

And I am not allowed inside of my wife's vagina.

 

My Wife(KH) shocked me the way she talks. I never use the "C" word. She has used it since we met. Is it o.k. for women to use it and not men? I use all the other curse words, but not that one....LOL

 

To answer the question...I can’t see the topic ever coming up in conversation, I don’t really talk about my sex life with others.

If the topic ever came up, of kink, what I’m into, or our dynamic, i would tell them about being locked in chastity, and recommend it as a great way to bring intimacy.

I don’t recommend anyone go “sex free”, I am a believer that removal of desired activity is counter productive. It may or may not happen, but it is still a possibility.

As far as the language, it’s not how I would word it if in mixed company. Not that it is more offensive than “butt cleaning or cum eating” (which could also be worded differently), it’s just that used in that context actually sounds like two guys talking to each other at the bar, but would change the conversation if a woman sat down. Sorry, I don’t consider it locker room talk since I have never heard anyone chit chat in a locker room. Guy etiquette is to shower change and get the heck out of there...no talking. Same goes with using the urinal.

 

My girlfriend prefers the "P" word as she finds the word vagina a bit formal and for use only when talking to her doctor.

Although there are more offensive words, I think it's good to avoid the "P" word on public forums, as there is a chance that it may offend some women. Anything we can do do make them feel welcome and wanting to stay and contribute more. I find the female perspective to be what makes this site so good.

 

Dick or penis?

 

Mrs Chaste prefers cock! Well actually she prefers her strap on these days but you know what I mean! Also she uses the pussy word to me. I like to ask if I can stroke her pussy! When the cat is sat on her lap of course!

 

I say "frolic in your lady garden" to my keyholder.....It drives her crazy. I also have an eye rolling fetish. That I am generally not permitted to frolic there is also kind of hot.

 

I'm already "pussyfree" aren't I Mistress?

(Please pardon the expression but it was the subject of this thread.)

 

depends on what you mean by "pussy free". I doubt that I will ever enter a pussy again, but I love servicing my beautiful wife/KH's pussy with my hand/mouth/vibrator. So I'm not really "pussy free" even if my cock will never feel the inside of her or any other pussy again.

 

Can we all just agree that our tiny man in a box should never stray below the hair forest, and breach the gates to the soggy temple, or throw the sacred love yogourt at the face of the smiling cervix???

 

I'm a virgin for life and I am never ever going to enter any woman's sacred garden. Would it be worse to have been inside a woman and then be denied forever? Maybe, that's debatable. But the fact that I'll never know what a womans sacred garden feels like is a sweet torment like no other. The frustration is immense.

 

That is a shame, the phrase you don’t know what you’re missing, takes on a whole different sad tone.

I would never suggest chastity to a virgin, or the young and inexperienced. There is a lot out there, and its a big world. I certainly hope you get certain things out of your system before you decide to disconnect from it all.

 

Never say never, life has a tendency to throw curveballs when one least expects it. Maybe I'll meet the love of my life at 60 or something. But I'm at peace with the fact I'll most likely die a virgin. I think I've fetishized the idea of being a permavirgin so much that I can't even imagine being inside a woman. It's a constant sweet burning torment of frustration that I've grown to enjoy. I know how messed up that must sound to people who are used to having sex on tap.

 

Well I must say that's an impressive collection of euphemisms! And no I haven't swallowed a dictionary!

 

@L-u-c-y is offering really good counsel. Lowly males would do good to listen and take notice.

 

Neither are some women. I enthusiastically enjoy the word 'pussy'.

But if it's used to sum up a woman's entire existence, then yeah. It's a bit distasteful.

 

While I respect your decision and right to do as you wish, I would enthusiastically suggest that you reconsider! You'll know when the time is right - and when the opportunity to make love to a woman is presented, take it! The fantasy of being permanently denied is hot, undeniably hot, some would say. If I need to "finish up" because I am inside of my wife, and she's telegraphing that it's time to wrap it up, I think to myself, "This is it... my last time inside of a beautiful woman," and bang! I finish. So, I get the thrill. The fantasy. The discipline and the denial. But, I have never heard of anyone on their deathbed wishing that they had enjoyed less sex...

 

Pussy Free for years now.
In fact i have even progressed to being Pussy Free in porn as well. Only view censored porn with breasts and Pussy blocked from view.
My wife has cuckolded me for many years and since i do nothing to please her with what i have below the belt i was reduced to just servicing her Pussy with my mouth.
Over the last few years that is pretty uncommon as well. She now keeps her Pussy and breasts exclusively for her Bulls pleasure.
I am lucky to see her bare bottom when she changes for bed.
I decided that even with porn i should avoid pictures of womens Pussy and breasts and have only jerked off to censored porn for almost a year now.