Explaining the dynamic most guys want

Exactly! Story of my life. Aren't those Saturday Night paddlings a lil annoying after a while, actually? Calling on all the guys.

 

Not my Idea of chastity

 

For some of us she doesn't have to mean it. I just want to be there for her to get frustration out... at whomever. And it's important to let my partner know it's all right.

 

Actually, it is Saturday morning.

 

I never dreamt I would love/hate the paddle, but it is a conundrum.

I hate it when it happens, but then I want it for what it does.

One it makes my partner giggle which is great, its one thing I can ask for and most of the time Ill get what I ask for, and two it is fucking great at releasing tension of all sorts, from sexual frustration to simply inexplicable tense shoulder muscles, clears a foggy mind, sharpens focus, its sexually laced attention....there are a lot of positives.

I don't know why it works but it just does, and despite the pain there is a lot of gain in how I feel after.

We have never had a regular maintenance spanking night/morning, but I would not mind if she wanted to, and let me know at the same time what she would like from me in the coming week, for us its spontaneous, which is just fine as well.

I dont understand why I would want my cock locked either, but it just works for us too. Fortunately I have the right partner holding my key

We are all different and have our own paths All of that said, if I worked my tail off all day I am not sure id recognize a paddle as positive reinforcement lol.