Chastity in public, spa or beach!

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    Hi all.
    Has anyone experienced being locked up while in a sauna, spa, or even on a beach, be it nude or in swimwear?

    My key holder has often fantasied about the above scenarios!

    Any advice/experience from anyone on the above?
     
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    Yup, It'll depend on your location in the world as to the acceptance probably. Was nude at a resort in Spain with no reaction at all even though everyone there was friendly (most European nudists are friendly). In Florida on a nudist beach, everyone was well-spaced and no one blinked.

    Swimming in it makes no difference at all, no one is looking at your dick IMHO
     
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    Yes, all but a nude beach (yet)

    I’ll detail my experiences in a second post.

    Caged at the beach under board shorts. On land, and in the water.
    Caged at beachfront porch, and walking around in the early morning with just a pareo
    Caged on a rooftop hot tub
    Caged in the sauna many many times
    Caged in a spa, naked in a soaking tub
    Caged for nude massages.

    I’ve never been exposed while caged with more then two people at a time. Not publicly nude. Privately nude and caged.

    I’ve kept it covered in public situations. Maybe it’s visible through the board shorts.
     
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    I am always locked when swimming.

    Usually I wear shots then, which makes the cage invisible. There is this net inside, which restricts that the contours of your dick show through the cloth.

    I once went on the lake to take a swim naked. I had my cage on, which hasnt been a problem. Well qhen I got in to the water. When I wanted to go out there was a woman sitting about 50 m away. She was staring all the time. Even when I was in the water. So I hesitated to get out.
    At one point I thought that it really doesnt matter, what she thinks. I even couldnt see her properly. Only that it is a woman.
    So I went out of the watwr dried myself wrapped my towel around my waist and sat there for a while.
    When I got back into the water she didnt look anymore.
    So I think it is okay to be caged and locked outside.
    But never in a situation where people could be offended or sexually disturbed somehow.

    My wife doesnt want her friends to know it. Well her femdom friends all know it. But thats another game.
     
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    "In Florida on a nudist beach, everyone was well-spaced and no one blinked."

    Same experience for me
     
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    In Florida at a clothing optional resort last year for a few days lounging by the pool. We even met up with fellow CM member @knight4princess and his wife. In my opinion if you can bring yourself to walk around nude, the cage is not that big of a deal. Turned a few heads, though, even at a "lifestyle" resort (Caliente).
     
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    As I'm locked most of the time I experienced most of it. We've never been to a nude resort yet.
    But swimwear, sunbathing, visiting swiming pools is just like a normal day to me.
    We have also been in saunas and spas. I wear towel around my waist and in sauna I position my legs in a way so the cage is not in direct sight. And that's all. I just try not to care too much.
     
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    Hey @Headtrip ! We are back near Caliente right now but staying at Paradise Lakes. I have seen some pretty wild PA piercings and cock rings but no chastity devices this year. Maybe we can get another meet-up going for next year.
     
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    I've worn either my Lori's #5 or Neosteel Belt swimming, hot tub, and the Lori's for a deep tissue massage.

    The massager was very professional and makes sure I'm always covered up down there.

    I've been crossdressed wearing both and been to public pools, and hot tubs while at motels doing my best to blend in.

    Never been nude anywhere showing myself yet, wink
     
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    When i am locked i stay locked, even if W/we are going to the beach, or the pool, or when i use the sauna at the gym. i try to downplay it - not because i am ashamed or embarrassed- but because i don’t want to force my lifestyle on others. That said, people at the gym - shower and sauna - have definitely seen it although no one has said anything - yet.

    i assume the people at the beach and pool have noticed something but it is hard to tell. Of course, there are those people who Goddess has told outright too!
     
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    I am locked at all times except for PIV
     
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    Don't wear a metal cage in a sauna !
     
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    And why is that?
     
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    Must get very hot :eek:
     
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    Sounds like a great fantasy as long as the chastity isn’t too visible underneath the swimwear.
     
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    No it doesn't.
    If metal is in close contact with your skin it will not get too hot. It is just like a ring on your finger...
     
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    Concur. I’ve had the same experience wearing my stainless steel MaleChastityNow GlansArmor into the sauna many times now.
     
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    Hi, how was it, were you on view to other members of the public in the sauna?
     
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    I’m also locked at all times, so everywhere I go I am caged, go swimming, gym often and madam insists I wear trunks not shorts, and leggings so those that know will know! I always keep as covered up as I am in the shower/ change room though. And been on the beach plenty, again in trunks/bikini bottoms not shorts.
     
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    So your wife/madam will be there with you, while you’re caged. Does she tease you about it, or has it just become normal practice for you both, and not just a big deal?
     
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    As for my husband PK, yes, to all of the scenarios you mentioned plus adult lifestyle resorts and clothing optional beaches. Nude with device only.

    As others have already mentioned, you shouldn't have any problems.
     
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    The only issue thatay arise is if the locations you're frequenting also happen to have families with children. Ditto if you're openninly flaunting it in a way that forces people to be part of your kink without consent. If that's not the case, and if you live in a country more accepting of nudity in general, it shouldn't be an issue.
     
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    ✔️ Done that too.
     
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    Been caged at the beach but in swimwear. Would love to go to a nude beach with the cage on some day but would do it only if there's not too many people and if I'm sure it won't cause me trouble.
    Keep in mind it might not be a good idea to expose your kinks to strangers like that.
     
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    some times we will be there together, other times I will be by myself, ether way I will be caged. I’m caged 24/7, she loves to tease me about it, and it is just normal for me/us. Madam has told me what to wear so I obey. we don’t really see it as a big deal, it’s part of our play. Last summer when it was hot we had our roof repaired and madam had me wear briefs/bikini bottoms only while we sunbathed in the garden while the builders worked on the roof.
     
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