Your ideal orgasm frequency

I've gone for never for now. I've come to accept my chastity and would obey my barefoot goddess if she wanted me to never orgasm again. It probably won't come to that, but I'd stay a chaste virgin if she wanted me to stay that way

 

I would like to forget about full orgasm at all.
But to keep things down healthy, at least at young age, you should ejaculate sometimes.
Once in a month a caged ruined orgasm should be enough.
Or milking of course, but I still can't do it myself.

 

It’s a tough one to answer as I think there’s more complexity than just having a ruin or milking. The setting, how it’s undertaken, how pleasurable it all is etc etc. all come into play…

So, I’d happily have no standard orgasms at all, but id still mark myself as 1-4 a year as my wife wants that… and ultimately I want to make my wife happy. So it’s ideal for me to have them still.

I’ve found that I’m pretty content with a non-standard orgasm every couple of weeks. With a long period of denial and no freedom at all I’m finding this hasn’t disrupted my mood or buzz at all.

 

So I voted for the 1x/week, as I would LOVE to have that, or at least in my mind I would.

Posing the same question to my wife - she’s somewhere between the “1-4 full per year” (closer to the 1), and the “never full orgasm; milking only”

 

I’d love one every day. Being completely honest about it. It doesn’t work anywhere close to that. 2024 I’ll get three orgasms. I’m excited and nervous.

 

I voted 1-4 full orgasms a year. That is what i would like and consider idea. But Queen M, although keeping me locked full time since August, still hasn't gotten to that point. She likes piv, but only gets off with oral stimulation or by using her womanizer toy. She still has that mindset that a wife owes her husband the penetration and orgasm often to keep him satisfied, although I've expressed to her how happy I would be to be denied.

 

I don't know my "ideal" orgasm frequency just yet... I'm still a novice (only been in this game for a few months) and still "experimenting" with myself, getting to know my body better.

 

I feel like the submissiveness kicks in at around 21 days, so anything longer than that.

With that said though, my orgasms are for my wife's pleasure, so I am ok with whatever she wants, whether it be every month, every other month, or even if she decided to never let me have one again. It really doesn't matter to me.

 

When ever i earn one then I take the chance

 

Every day, I am owed soooooo many.

 

We’re hitting the point where once a month should be ideal, and the goal for ‘24 is to try one full O every two months. She likes to give ruined handjobs every 2-3 weeks, so I think a full every 60 days or so would be a realistic possibility.
But it’s completely up to my Wife of course

 

I wish it was like it was before my Wife (KH) and I decide to play around with Male Chastity. Back in the good old days, it was 7-10 a week. Every day was common for me. Maybe a few times on the weekends. Since MC, I was down to 6-7 a month, then 6-7 a year. Now down to zero per year the last 16 months... Like they say...Better watch what you wish for...

 

Sounds like she likes her good boy full.

 

What i'd love more of is erections. These past 18 months i've become accustomed to only cumming once or twice a month but the loss of erections has been the hardest thing.

 

For my Sub the sweetspot is once a month. Full orgasm.

But we need a deposit to get him back in cage. Sometimes its a money deposit, that big that it would hurt him, not to go back in the cage, after full orgasm. Or simple some restraines. But i loved it watching when he puts his dick back in his cage by himselfe after an orgasm.....he hates it.

tkim

 

I’m not sure how to answer here, because my Madam restricts my access my penis, but I’m permitted anal orgasms pretty much when I want. So I’m kind of in a different scenario.

 

At least you still control your ass xD

 

I made the assumption that anal orgasms classified as ruins…
Hey, my wife can rim me and I’ll cum… that’s got to count for something

 

3 to 4 per week

 

Hmmm.
Ideally, my KH wants me to have zero orgasms for the rest of my life.
My ideal frequency would be, say, one each quarter; just to clear the system.
But ... we've agreed that I don't get to decide anymore.

 

Presently I am getting one full orgasm with my partner, then she allows a stroke or two (sometimes a quicky) before the cage is replaced. So I wrote one per week.

But really I dont think I "need" an orgasm myself its more I "need" my partners orgasm once a week, preferably more!!, but I am realistic.

Anyways I have been warned the new year is going to be very different to this year so I am going to find out, although she does threaten me often, but I actually think she likes me to cum with her. I am good with whatever she decides, if it turned her on me not having an orgasm I am sure I could go many many weeks and be happy.

 

once or twice a month. the best option according to the lunar calendar.

 

The ideal frequency should be at least twice as long as you think it should be.

Otherwise it's not really chastity and denial, is it?

 

Well said!