Virgin permantly locked.

Go out and live your life. Meet a girl, settle down, work on your career. Have children, if that's for you. Come back to this later? If you choose a strong woman she'll lock you up willingly with the right approach. But I would guess it might be a tough ask to try to start from the fetish, and make it a lifestyle. Start with life, and explore your fetishes with the one you love. Without love there is nothing but the emptiness of porn. Do you want a relationship based on a distorted pornographic view of life? It ends in a very lonely twisted place.

Seeing your other post, if you want to last longer...

1. You're young, it's harder to last
2. Less porn more positive distractions stop feeding your addiction

 

Hi and welcome. There's nothing wrong with exploring a fetish and even if you decide to go permanent, you can just as easily change your mind later if you find the right partner and decide to start a family. Just be sure to do your due diligence and measure yourself to find the right fit for you. And chances are your first cage will not be your everyday one for long, because it's all trial and error to find the right one. It took me 5 difference cages to find the right one for me and I kept 4 and threw one out that didn't work at all.

Do ask your questions and post any concerns you have. There are all good people here in CM who are happy to guide you through this.

 

Go explore it and see how you get on, you have plenty of time to change your mind and try other things!

 

I think you will look back on life later and say you made a terrible mistake. Go experience life and all it has to offer and then decide what you want to do going forward. We see it all the time when people wait until marriage to lose their virginity and they realize that was a horrible decision, to 'waste' your youth and your young body without exploring would be along the same lines....

 

You have to live a bit before you make huge decisions. Good luck..

 

Explore the world and learn who you are. If, after that examination, you wish to dedicate yourself to a keyholder, I applaud you.

Until then, you ask want that which you do no fully appreciate or understand.

 

Like several previous posted have said, go live a life and gain experiences first, this way you can make informed decisions about your future. You must also have something before giving it up.

 

You're only a virgin once. If you are considering full time at 18 i imagine you have a strong need to serve. I'd advertise you're virginity and find a woman that would enjoy keeping you that way. Sex can be fun, but most men here either want it severely restricted or denied. Many feel the priviledge of going down on a woman supercedes all other activities. I say get busy and look for the woman you want. If you seek a lifetime of suffering start today. For some this life is not a want it's a need. If my Mistress were younger she would take you without hesitation and value you for what you offer. Of course you can fully expect to be cuckolded. No woman should do without.

 

100% do it, in fact don't unlock for any reason. Only losers unlock for hygiene. Stay a virgin forever. It's the best way.

 

True a good cage never needs to come off

 

I agree, if you put it out there that you are virgin who wants to be permanently locked, I can see it being intriguing to a potential keyholder.

 

I can give you advice

 

Ok, voice of reason here. A few things to consider.

1) you only have a few different virginities
2) you don't know what you've got until it's gone (until you've experienced something you cannot understand what you are giving ip.
3) fantasy and reality don't always line up
4) think carefully, choose carefully, but in this particular case, make sure it is your choice
5) being in an sub/dom or FLR relationship is always a choice. You gift your autonomy to your loved one day at a time. It may work you forever or a day may come when you need something different.
6) consent always is the most important factor. You can CHOOSE a lot of things but never lose sight of the fact that is always a choice.

I choose to be subservient to my lady, i even chose to let her tattoo me sight unseen. It is always my choice to serve her. There are days when I need "me" time, this does not detract from our relationship, it strengthens it. You choosing , every minute that you do, is a reflection of the relationship.

As a general statement, not one specifically regarding this thread, absolute consent is the ultimate daily gift,

 

Such differing opinions !

 

I would say the overwhelming majority said go experience life and then you can decide later on if you want to be permanently locked...

 

So you are 18 years old and still a virgin. In the days before the Pill many guys stayed that way until marriage because they did not want to risk an unwanted pregnancy. I was around 23 before I lost my virginity. And yes I was interested in chastity before that.
If you have submissive feelings towards women then you may feel that the act of a man penetrating a woman is dominant and not submissive. I felt that.
I would suggest you go out and start meeting girls and if the relationship moves towards intimacy simply say you want to wait until you are married. Maybe a lot of girls will walk away, some will understand and a few if you are lucky will inquire a bit deeper as to why you want to wait.
Those are the ones to concentrate on. Carefully suggest that you would like their help to remain a virgin and if things go well you can bring up the idea that a chastity device would help you.
Take it from there, you dont have to mention the idea of permanent chastity, explore the relationship and her thoughts and reactions.

 

Through all my years I have yet to meet a person who didn't feel waiting for marriage was a mistake (most especially those who tried it). Sorry but this is advice I would not follow.

 

And as this reply to your thread proves @Kocekan , beware of vultures....

Good luck in your search for what you seek. Although mixed, a lot of good advice here. My suggestion would be simply to take your time, talk to people and explore things before making any real commitments. Not only is there (hopefully!) a long life ahead of you, there is also a big world of experiences to explore. At the end of the day, the chaste lifestyle is a choice that a person (and ideally "persons") wants. It can be amazing. But the vast majority who enjoy it have experienced life in many different ways before making such commitments.

Take your time, the journey and exploration is often the best bit!

 

the idea of permanent chastity is fantasy. While some here are permanently locked most are older. As a young man you've got fifty or sixty years ahead of you. It will be far easier to find a woman to keep you a virgin. While they sound the same, i see them as two different things.

 

Honestly- you need therapy. At your age orgasms are normally between yourself and yourself. You have probably consumed so much porn and erotica that you have NO idea where the boundary is between normalcy and porn (which is almost entirely fake).

You do not need convincing of anything. You need time by yourself to figure out who you are. You need time to meet someone who you enjoy spending your time with. You need to experience life. Then you can plan for what comes next. Your current method is "I have never eaten food before- tell me the one food I should eat for the rest of my life". That is a recipe for disaster...

 

Get a cage, have fun with it. If the opportunity for sex arises, judge it on its own merits. But if you're wired to enjoy chastity more than sex, so be it.