Virgin permantly locked.

The intensity of being denied, depends completely, on knowing of what you are being denied.

 

Experience is very important, but so is meaning. Occasionally those are at odds. If virginity is meaningful to you, more so than experience, enjoy it while you have it and hang onto it as long as it is still important to you.

You never really truly make lifelong decisions anyway. I suggest looking a year or two out on this one. What do you want over the next year or so? Pursue that. Then ask yourself the same question again in 2 year's time.

 

We haven't met but I'm very happy with my decision to wait. And it has been beyond amazing and so important to me. To your point, I know I'm not in the majority with this experience.

 

Just don't do anything "permanent". Waaaay too early. "Indefinite" is a much better word.