Cage at night

With the right fitting cage after a couple weeks I believe it felt like nothing was there. Every once in a while a raging attempted erection will wake me up. My wife would be opposed to it. Early on there was a couple times she told me to deal with when it woke me. She would say go pee!

 

After trying dosens of cages I have finally found a cage that fits me. I can sleep in it. Albeit some practice is needed. Take your time and search the market for what fits best for you. The cage of mine is now a cheap cheneese plastic device. I used to have metal custom-made devices and off-the-shelf devices, such as Holytrainer.

 

Last night when I read this post I looked over to my Queen sitting on the recliner. I asked how would you feel about me sleeping without a cage at night? She said "Really". “No, shut up”. LOL.

 

As others have said, if your cage fits properly, after a week or two you should sleep through the night with no issues. I haven’t had any issues unless I drink way too much water too close to bedtime, and I take 5mg tadalafil 4-5 times a week. Your penis just adjusts to knowing any erection attempt is going to be stifled and eventually you won’t notice them

 

I did that for a long time, took it off at night to give my skin some rest and put it on first thing in the morning.

 

Sometimes their generosity will suddenly run dry!

 

As many have stated... if the cage fits properly you should not notice it. I can only tell I am wearing it at night (I have discomfort) when I have to pee. After I pee all is well again. But my wife would never allow me to not wear it at night. The only time my cage is removed to when I shower to keep clean. It is off for the shower and back on immediately after I am done.

 

I'm a very light sleeper myself and I had the same problem when I first started... It's a learning process for your body as well as your mind to be able to sleep with the cage on. Other factors beyond my control, such as changes in the weather (yes, I'm THAT sensitive), general life stress and other normal mental factors all add up and make sleeping with the cage on very difficult at first. But my main problem for months was "Orgasm Withdrawal". You see, for over 30 years I was a jerking dopamine junkie and was jerking off to orgasm after orgasm MANY time every single day, so it was hard wired into me.

Then about 8 month ago, I just locked myself up and totally deprived myself of orgasm and my body was just screaming "PLEASE LET CUM!!!" while I was trying to sleep at night. Currently, I'm half way through a 3 month lockup session and I've been sleeping with the cage on every night for more than 3 weeks straight, but it took effort and persistence to get there. I occasionally wake up in the middle of the night with an erection in the cage, but generally it goes away after a few minutes and I can fall back asleep.

So, you will have sleepless nights. They will never completely go away, but the more you sleep with the cage on, the less often they will happen. Your body just needs time to adapt to wearing the cage 24/7. I unlock myself only for a weekly cleaning and groin shave and it's never off for more than an hour, then I immediately go back in the cage and relock myself for another week... Rinse & Repeat, literally.

 

Cage is a must at night here.

 

You're welcome.

 

How do you like the tadalafil? Does it keep you in a more frustrated state more of the time?

 

I’ve been on it for about 3 or 4 years now along with TRT the last 7 years, and it’s great! Always rock hard when my Wife wants to use it…which has become more rare these last couple years lol, but it has other benefits too. And yes between the higher testosterone level and tadalafil, I’m a horny mess all the time. Sweet torture!

 

That's how I am right now... I haven't had release for about 7 weeks straight for the first time. Can't get sex off my mind and I'm loving it.

 

Curious to hear about the other benefits if you don’t mind sharing. My wife will give me sildenifil prior to PIV or sometimes without unlocking just for her amusement. She loves seeing me in a constant aroused and frustrated state and wouldn’t mind it on a daily basis.

 

It definitely helps moderate blood pressure, can help the prostate, helps protect kidneys, and gives you a nice pump if you’re into lifting weights too.
I will warn you if you start using it, you may experience some sinus pressure headaches at first, but that usually goes away after a week or two for most people

 

Good to know, I get these with sildenafil. Did you notice a correlation with the diminishing headache a decreased potency of the erections?

 

None, I have sinus problems all the time and the tadalafil gave me a headache a few times and then they stopped. The erections are always amazing, like a teen again. I will say I can tell a difference between the different generic pills, I mean they all work great, but there have been some that give erections so strong that they almost hurt. I keep those for special occasions lol

 

Sounds like heaven, are these caged erections or uncaged full mast erections? tbh, I love the caged erections when my wife gives me sildenafil, doesn’t unlock me and teases me by playing with herself in front of me.

 

Both, my cage is pretty good at stifling them, but for a little while those caged ones feel great too! He tries to bust through it when my Wife starts getting close to her O and he’ll usually calm down once she’s done and we’re just laying and cuddling after, she’ll rub my balls for a while before she falls asleep and I’m left leaking and trying to relax so I can fall asleep.

 

I always get a runny nose when taking sildenafil. Maybe we should thing about trying tadalafil

 

Really? That's weird... Any idea why?