Hey all! I'm new around here and wanted to start by briefly saying hello, and asking some questions if I may. I heard about this site via an arbitrary 'good chastity websites' list, but it seems quite promising so far. How has your experience here been? Anyone had any luck finding Keyholders here? Also, shortly arriving is my first chastity cage! I aimed for slightly smaller than my average flaccid length, per the manufacturers recommendations. That being said: -Any tips for a first time wearer? -Any tips for long term use once I'm accustomed to the feel? Thanks for any and all responses!
Hello and welcome. Just take your time on breaking yourself in with the chastity cage. Do short intervals and the more you get used to it the longer you keep it on, till hopefully you maybe got lucky and found one that fits good on the first try. Good luck
Be prepared to buy a few devices before you find what works, learn from each one the features that work/don't and don't try and sleep in a device until you can wear it all day with no issues. Those are my 2 top tips.
Welcome! It took us a few tries before we found a cage that worked for us. As we moved into longer lock-ups, a month and longer, we decided that we would invest in a custom-fitted cage. For us, that made all the difference. But take your time and make sure you want to commit to this.
Yeah unless you get really lucky with a perfect off the shelf device ,custom is the best way to go for long term lockup, however I think everyone needs to go through some cheaper cages first to find what works before they go custom. That's what I did and my first custom was almost perfect, just doing my 2nd custom order to trim a few mm here and there and fix some very minor annoyances.
What sort of device are you getting? One basic tip (pun intended) is to use baby oil gel or an anti-chafing product like Squirrel’s Nut Butter to prevent chafing. I also find it helps to shave at least the areas the cage touches. I’ve been doing this for 10 years so I’ve been through all of the stages of a newbie at this point. Happy to answer questions.
Hi and welcome! I consider myself a rookie, as I’ve been in chastity for less than a year, but I’m a fast learner… I suggest you take a tape measure and measure your shortest flaccid length and try not to exceed that for your next cage, but don’t buy an expensive cage until you have the length, width, ring size & shape down. There will be alot of trial & error along the way Alot of folks would recommend you browse aliexpresss or amazon, but I personally like Lockthecock and Lockedinlust webstores. I know they’re not the cheapest out there but in my own experience they have very high quality products, from cages to accessories. Afterall, why buy from a marketplace when you can go directly to people who specialize in this lifestyle? Something to consider. Enjoy your stay at the Mansion and hope you will share your experiences with us.