Full orgasm verse just an ejaculation

Same as you, I don't think I have actually had one in recent times. I remember a couple of spontaneous moments when I was late for something an had to run, and also when sleeping but that hasn't happened for years either.

I think possibly one or two many years ago.

I think anxiousness and also not relaxing play a bit part.

 

I was lucky as a preteenager I read three books the first one because I had no idea what the other kids in the park were talking about and was far too embarassed to ask or reveal my ignorance itwas like an dictionary of sex terms which in turn made me want to know a lot more ... and at least I knew what the words fuck wank cunt meant and quite a few names for the penis

Luckily at the same shop i had a paper round and was often standing around for ages in the newsagents shop waiting to get paid with a great big empty bag and I was a kid... So I got hold of a couple books by Robert Chartham I forget the actual titles but they did enlighten me. And one of the topics was masturbation, how it was not dirty was healthy and advice on not becoming a pre-ejaculator and how to build up endurance because it mattered to you and future partners.

When it comes (sorry ) to full on orgasms that physically feel like you just forced a dried pea through a straw and turned yourself inside out at the same and leave you mentally drained even tired after
then most guys masturbate too often, and instead of an orgasmic release they get a quick squirt from having basically scratched an itch because there's no volume. Hell you're a teenager always loads of fluid but not that much sperm in it

The same goes for guys not taking their time over it.
Take longer there's no rush and you don't want to condition yourself into cuming too quickly

If you dont know already you owe it too yourself guys to take your time learn what various sensations mean how to pace yourself and enjoy yourself by building up to it gradually letting things subside and repeating .. edging we call it now.

Plus of course that you have taught yourself these things will be appreciated by future partners

 

I'm at the other end of the spectrum. There have been 5-6 sessions with Mrs. KyDave where my brain registers an orgasm, but my body didn't produce an ejaculation. I had read over the years that it was possible, but the first time took me somewhere I'd never been before. It took several minutes to process, then several more minutes to come down from the mountain. Mrs. KyDave appeared very skeptical until she looked me over and saw all my usual hallmarks.

I was a chronic, life-long masterbator too prior to chastity. I actually brought that up when ee first had "the talk." Our sex life had always been remarkable (I could write about it, but nobody would think it was real), but after the frist orgasm out of lockup, I knew I had to not screw up her interest in chastity. Not only mind blowing, but a little bit mind altering as well.

I think it's the excitement and pent up frustration of being caged combined with Mrs
KyDave's zeal that stopped me jerking off cold turkey a couple years ago. I also think the slower frequency of cumming makes each time I do so much more rewarding than anything I've ever done by myself.

Try it and see how addicting it is!

 

I should clarify: I was referring to the method with which I stopppped jerking myself off. I have never jerked off turkeys - or any other animal - cold, warm, hot, or otherwise. Of course, I don't judge anyone who does that as a habit.