New Girl, just exploring and reading the forums.

I like to have a healthy debate as well. And the heavy artillery doesn’t come out until it starts getting mean spirited.

 

Alright Chump, you’ve trolled enough! You’re ignored. Go somewhere else!

 

And this is my point! I’ve never seen @JaySaysYes being mean spirited, just jocular. You might not appreciate his humour (if, for example, you are an adult), but it’s not mean!

 

Most peculiar

 

I wasn’t talking to you, just about you.

 

Since it was an introduction thread, I am going to assume they didn’t know each other well enough to start a conversation with a jab. Jokes are fine, a little ribbing doesn’t hurt, and heck I’m pretty sure we all have some teasing coming to us for wearing a cage on our privates. Maybe get past the initial hello before sharing that particular part of yourself. Maybe get to know them. I don’t mind teasing my bald friend at work, I wouldn’t take that direct route at my humor after he said hi I’m Mike.

The next thing ya know, I’m giving him the business for his increasingly growing forehead, and he gives it back by mentioning that I have nice tits for a dude lol.

 

I do see your point, I just thought the porn dude was excessively precious about it, which riled me up. The only time I ever got genuinely angry on here was when someone more or less equated age play with paedophilia - and in that case the person he attacked WAS offended, unlike the OP in this thread. But even in that instance, the person I quarrelled with and I were able to patch it up like grownups. There was no flouncing off and “ignoring”
Also I can’t abide this lazy concept of calling someone a “troll” if you don’t like what they say.

 

I’m under the impression that a troll is reminiscent of the fictional species. A big bully waiting by a bridge for someone to attack. No need to attack, just wanting to hurt others. Then creeping back under it when it’s not fun anymore.

They are pretty easy to spot, half of them eventually admit that they just wanted to ruffle feathers for their own amusement.

 

And my point is, there really aren’t any in this forum. It’s a term lazily bandied about, which doesn’t apply. Elsewhere people do a similar thing by calling anyone they disagree with politically a “Nazi”

 

There is certainly trolls here. The fella mentioned above, has zero positive posts, questions, advice or any type of posting that contributes to anyone but giving himself a smile. I looked back on his history before calling him one. He has all snide remarks and attempts at putting someone down. Some I even agree with, but that really isn’t the point. His function is to hit, and that is his entertainment.

Politically speaking, I would be fine with calling someone with strong nazi beliefs a nazi. That isn’t really an insult as much as factual. You could say the same thing with fascist. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it might be a duck.

Although those parties are not politically correct currently, the ideals are not so unpopular. Persecuting minorities, the disenfranchised, beliefs, are fairly popular now days. Disputing the press, disparaging working government, fear mongering, conspiracy theories…all alive and well.

 

Calling a fascist a fascist is factual. Fortunately there are very few fascists around and they’re too busy hating on each other to achieve much. Calling a MAGA person a fascist is inaccurate and hyperbolic. That seems to be in vogue these days. Likewise in the UK, people do the same with people who supported Brexit. Anyway my point is, Chastity Mansion is a pretty cuddly corner of the internet, all things considered. And although the porn guy pissed me off, I don’t think that’s his aim in life. Presumably in some way I can’t fathom, he genuinely thinks he’s right and I’m the bad guy.

 

Perhaps the content of your message scared the poor girl away.

Self-portrait, the title: "Angry internet porn addict stamps feet due to loss of sense of humour".

No, I don't despise your religious beliefs. I don't think I despise anything.

*Checks under dress*, would you say that calling a man that dresses like a woman a man isn’t really an insult as much as factual?

 

Welcome. There are a lot of us here with all sorts of backgrounds and experiences. I am sure you can find people to talk to.

 

Apparently they didn’t.